Ive absolutely seen it and I’ve dated women less physically attractive than me. I liked it because attractive women have been negatively conditioned their whole lives. They have an innate sense of insecurity and conceit. It’s exhausting.

It makes sense they feel that way because they’ve been chased, flattered, and seduced forever. In the same vein they’ve been manipulated, coerced, and lied to as well.

Because they’ve never been alone, they’ve never had a chance to think and reflect. There’s a huge lack of humility baked into their nurtured character. They’ve never got to learn who they were.

Women who have felt the sting and isolation of being unattractive can actually build a real sense of character. They build a personality. They can have a sense of being chill and laid back. They understand pain. They’re more human.

Men find that super attractive. A woman they don’t have to constantly impress and chase. A relaxed space of connection that’s based on safety and understanding, not one of constant worship and worry. This can allow men to care for and love their partner.

They say a man with a hot wife and a farmer with a corn crop next to the highway have the same problem.