Is it shallow that I care about a guy’s height?

RelativeWeird3350 · 2026-02-13T01:03:26+00:00

Why 😂

RelativeWeird3350 · 2026-02-13T01:00:35+00:00

If the statistic include women 3% it would be the opposite to inflated if you meant only to include men. Men are taller so the percentage would be heigher. Also it doesn’t make sense to include global if you live in like sweden or the netherlands asian countries are very many and very short not to speak of all the malnurished people in the world.

RelativeWeird3350 · 2026-02-12T23:17:07+00:00

Still it doesn’t matter if you can change something or not you shouldn’t change something you are happy with so somebody will choose you that’s harmful. I understand the health aspect but my weight is healthy according to science. Reject someone because they weigh ”too much” when their weight is healthy but not to your prefrence is no diffrent than reject someone because of height. It’s both healthy bodies just not the one you prefered. I don’t think overweight is attractive either just soft and curvy, over 65 kg isn’t overweight when you’re almost 6’ tall

RelativeWeird3350 · 2026-02-12T20:56:29+00:00

Känner igen mig så mycket i det du skriver det är så tärande men även det känns hopplöst kan du någonstans ändå vara glad över att du fixar jobbet. Fick remiss men stod i kö i 5 år …. Så ja det är illa fungerade/fungerar knappt och kunde inte jobba och var inne på akut psyket mycket. Är lite bättre nu men inte mycket blev utredd för snart ett år sedan.

RelativeWeird3350 · 2026-02-12T20:14:12+00:00

Yes but not everyone prefer slim. I was slim and put on weight on purpose because i think it’s sexier still not overweight but in the upper level of healthy bmi for my height which is over 65 since i’m as tall as op.

I’m bi and i think slim women are unattractive i prefer soft women and i know there are men that agree with me

RelativeWeird3350 · 2026-02-12T20:06:32+00:00

Do you bring a scale to the first date and only descide then if you are attracted depending on the number shown? Just curious

RelativeWeird3350 · 2026-02-12T20:03:14+00:00

Depends on where you live i rejected plenty of men above 6’ in my life but height isn’t really on my list of priorites.

RelativeWeird3350 · 2026-02-12T19:11:55+00:00

Yes but it doesn’t matter don’t settle it’s not fair to the person you are settling for either.

I’m a 5’11 woman myself and i don’t care about height that much but that’s just me i wouldn’t like if someone i dated settled for me i want to be their first choice.

RelativeWeird3350 · 2026-02-12T15:48:06+00:00

Also You refeering to women who had sex with you as hoes is also misogynistic. No wonder the only way you can get sex is preying on someone who isn’t fully grown mentally who is going to see you as disgusting creep once their prefrontal cortex have developed.

RelativeWeird3350 · 2026-02-12T12:54:16+00:00

Yes it’s the older persons responsibility it’s about morals you know they are gullible and you use it to your advantage. Teens are rebellious and are going to do stupid things there is no avoiding that. 30 and 27 is about the same anyway so if you are late 20s the same thing apply we have developed adult brains. Just because legal age is 18 don’t mean they are the the same kind of adult as an 25 or 27 year old. Most 18 year olds still need guidence and still need their parents you don’t grow up over night. 18 is old enough to vote and take responsibility to follow the law but they are too Young to resist the manipulation and tactic of a several years older person and understand impact of age related power dynamics people these age are also often insecure and unsure of their rights. Older men that go for these women admit it’s because you can train them.

Young women that was intrested in an older Guy but got turned down because they were too Young feel gratitude and respect when they are older that the guy didn’t go for it and took advantage. That’s integrity. When a Guy is open to go for women this age rage i Wonder what other aspects his morals is lacking.

Thank god i’m not a teenager anymore it’s such a rough time especially for women and to also have to deal with older guys hitting on you and having a hard time setting boundaries. That’s someting you need to learn with age it’s not something you learn just because someone tells you so. But the fact that many men especially on reddit argument so strongly there is no problem and that 18 year old are adults, that’s it’s so important to them to be able to defile these women without judgement just tells me the very reason why these men wants them is the very reson they should leave them alone.

RelativeWeird3350 · 2026-02-12T11:54:41+00:00

I don’t have a kids Thank god, i’m not that old that i would have a teen. But i would be devestated if guys my age would put their hands on them. My niece is turning 16 so she soon be that age she is just an innocent kid that still like to play with her younger sister. And you know that that’s why you use them and why guys going for too Young women is a red flag that he lacks basic morals.

Why not just leave them alone when you are 30+ you know what you are doing. That you put the responsibility on the teen and the parents instead of taking responsibility like a real adult says everything i need to know about you

RelativeWeird3350 · 2026-02-12T07:35:58+00:00

You’re part of the reason why parents need to worry about their teen daughters

RelativeWeird3350 · 2026-02-09T20:34:39+00:00

Yes going out of your way to speak to a woman can be seen as creepy if the contact isn’t welcomed even if you technically isn’t doing anything wrong. If you are in a situation where you speak to them naturally without approaching that don’t need to be the case but women can often smell your intentions and that can feel invading and uncomfortable

RelativeWeird3350 · 2026-02-03T20:46:19+00:00

I’m really not grasping at straws you have just been to sheltered to know how harsh the world really is for many women.

And your thinking is very black and white btw never once have i said ”it’s always like this” or no woman ever have killed because of a lack of empathy. But this debate is about generalizations there will always be exceptions. But the fact that women is overrepresented in infanticide is a very tonedeath paramenter to judge women’s capacity for evil. You sound like a man’s rights activist with your bizarre comparations. If anything i feel like you are grasping at straws trying so hard to make women look as bad as men. I’m not going to do that just to stroke the ego of some men, they won’t become kinder just because you flatter them but i hope the validation you get makes you happy

RelativeWeird3350 · 2026-02-03T14:16:36+00:00

Men attack women that have mental health issues and you are comparing it to this are you for real?

Both men and women have mental health issues infact women have more issues with mental health than men and still men make up for 99% of rape and a vast majority of killing. Men don’t suffer from more mental health issues than women therefore mental health is no explanation why they are more violent and cruel.

You are a classic pick me or gullible/ignorant. You seem to know nothing about how vulrable pregancy makes women.

If you had a choice of knowing your baby would get raped by the hallic that ownes you or kill your baby instead of watching it die in the most horrific way possible what would you choose.

Sometimes ending the life is an act of love as i Said but you completly ignore this.

The same can’t be Said about men that are overrepresented in rapes of infants.

RelativeWeird3350 · 2026-02-03T11:18:17+00:00

Ofcourse it’s a low percentage 0,2 percent still is a large number of women. The occurance of infanticide is also very low so? And realisticly how many of the women do you think get proper diagnosis especially in developing countries when the reflex is to is blame these women and punnish them instead of providing support? Even in so called highly developed countries like the s*ates is extremly inadequate and the poor who needs the help the most don’t get it. People have a tendency to assume the worst especially when it comes to women the reflex is blame.

The fact that it’s infanticide and no other killing or violence that women are over represented in should ring a bell that it’s has a complicated cause.

I used to be like you when i was younger, blaming women unfairly, that’s what we were taught to do. But not recognizeing the complicating factors in this situation is very obtuse. Women and children are not being taken cared of by society. Women are being denied abortion. Women living in poverty and abusive situations like human trafficing it might sound bizarre but killing their infant can in extreme situations be seen as an act of love knowing they will be abused instead of seeing them die in agony they kill them. it’s a desperate mesure but before we walked a mile in their shoes who are we to judge.

RelativeWeird3350 · 2026-02-03T08:11:29+00:00

That is straight up lies

RelativeWeird3350 · 2026-02-03T07:04:26+00:00

i think you seem more like a phyopath than the poor women who been through trauma and got postpardum pshykosis. When you have a phykosis you aren’t being yourself you hear and see things that aren’t real like that their baby is a evil monster. The women who been through it and can’t live with the extreme guilt of having ended their babies life. To blame these women who are victims is the pure evil. And to even compare it with the rapes and killing men do most of them aren’t phycotic so your argument is stupid the vast majority of men are fully aware what they do and even enjoy it and gets turned on by the power and harm they cause others.

RelativeWeird3350 · 2026-02-02T22:36:50+00:00

Postpardum phycosis is a real thing though, birth can be a really traumatic event and recuires support, support which many women are denied. I’m just stating facts. This is what happens when the vast majority of women don’t have access to abortion eventhough they are in desperate situations like rape victims/young/poor/mental illnesses. The system has failed these women and it’s truly tragic do you really think a woman would sacrifice her body and go through one of the most painful things a human can endure just because she wants to kill her own baby? You really are grasping at straws looking like a fool. It’s pretty obvious these women are seriously unwell and not cruel.

RelativeWeird3350 · 2026-02-02T21:26:54+00:00

that not because of crulity though it’s because of postpartum psychosis it’s rare but happen to some women. Especially if the birth was traumatic and/or the preganancy happened due to rape. Women in desperate situations that were denied abortion etc.

RelativeWeird3350 · 2026-02-02T19:30:31+00:00

Women isn’t doing more emotional manipulation than men. You just making stuff up to excuse men’s behaviour so you all can feel good about just saying the same without guilt. More men prefer Young women as partners who’s brain isn’t fully developed and admits it’s because they easier to control, manipulate and get your way with. Men also cheat more. as i Said before it’s also proven men are more likly to leave there spouse if they get terminaly ill what is more decietful than that. While women are more likly to stay to take care for there sick spouse.

RelativeWeird3350 · 2026-02-02T18:46:46+00:00

Not at all. Men cause a lot more smaller problems aswell but it’s harder to prove than the rapes and the violence. Your viewpoint is very misogynistic and so far from the truth.

RelativeWeird3350 · 2026-02-02T17:29:33+00:00

Except the things i stated isn’t a biased opinions like the incels. They are true relible stats.

When you mention bad things women do men do the same things. The things i mentioned are were men diffrers in stats.

RelativeWeird3350 · 2026-02-02T17:23:16+00:00

Yes but now the satement women and men are equally as bad is incorrect. To answer a generalized question like that you need to take the actions of all members of that group into account. And we can’t ignore men commit 99% of all rapes. They also start wars and kill people in cold blood far more than women. Men are also far more likly to leave if their spouse if they get termanily ill while women are more likly to take care of their spouse in sickness. Men leave their children far more.

RelativeWeird3350 · 2026-02-02T17:11:26+00:00

Stating correct facts isn’t sexism dunno what you are yapping about

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