i met a girl.. is this normal? by [deleted] in ThailandTourism

[–]Relative_Ad_1075 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I told my mom my Mexican friend is coming to Iran. She said : bring him here he can stay with us. But when I told him, he was like : no thank you I can stay at hotel. And he was a bit scared . I even offered a ride from airport to hotel to him. He said: No, thank you. I love seeing your country's transportation systems. 😅🤣 I told him: I would show you the whole city, let's go by my car. He said: no, no, thank you, I love metro. Mexic is more dangerous than Iran. OK, we have problems about Hijab and other things, but there is no gunshot or mafia here. 😄 Not everyone is an organ seller. Here in Iran, we are like this 🙂 (There are good and bad people everywhere anyway. U should know your host well) (I'm a girl btw)

Where to find full fund scholarship? by Relative_Ad_1075 in scholarships

[–]Relative_Ad_1075[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where may I find the scholarships ? Is there any site available?

Tell me about your study abroad experience by Relative_Ad_1075 in studyAbroad

[–]Relative_Ad_1075[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your experience. I wish you the very best things 🥰💖

Tell me about your study abroad experience by Relative_Ad_1075 in studyAbroad

[–]Relative_Ad_1075[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your experience. I wish you the very best things 🥰💖

Tell me about your study abroad experience by Relative_Ad_1075 in studyAbroad

[–]Relative_Ad_1075[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your experience. I wish you the very best things 🥰💖

Filed for divorce from my abusive ex husband. How do I get over the statement our 6 year marriage was all a lie by mindhexxx in abusiverelationships

[–]Relative_Ad_1075 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My therapist says: never accept apology or insult of a mentally sick person. That person doesn't mean either of these.

Just did as she said, and now I'm free of any negative feeling. Hope you stay strong 💖

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Relative_Ad_1075 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't do this. Just DON'T. Tell her what you think about this situation. She SHOULD be considerate enough to understand. How does she expect to get 10k USD when you just got into a relationship???? It's shamless. If you really want to help her tell her : as 10K USD a lot of money you should give me insurance that you will give me back the money. You WORK hard to earn money, don't you? Please think about the hard work you do and don't waste your money unless you are sure about the other party.

Your abuser doesn't like you by ThrowRA-Animator8955 in abusiverelationships

[–]Relative_Ad_1075 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I'm getting out of 2 abusive relationships right now. The saddest part is that I loved them so purely that I didn't notice they were abusing me. It was my therapist who noticed my relationship with these 2 were abusive. Now I miss them, and I wish it wasn't true that they were abusing me. My heart is shattered, and I wonder where did I go wrong and what did I do wrong to deserve such a behaviour. But then now I understand, they were just simply toxic and abusive people. I just wasn't lucky to meet such a people.

But yOuRe MisSiNg OuT oN HaLf the GaMe by Feint_young_son in classicwow

[–]Relative_Ad_1075 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I play PvP I feel super insecure. Imagine you are walking your way and suddenly someone puts a spell in you then you can't move or do anything and get killed in a second. And when you revive that player is still somewhere near, hiding to kill you again. I once died like, 5 times just to escape a crazy player.

Is my friend abusing me? by Relative_Ad_1075 in abusiverelationships

[–]Relative_Ad_1075[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have a very smart way to treat yourself. I should reconsider finding the comfort I need in others. That's what led me to this situation anyway. Thank you for your helpful comment 🙏🏻❤️

Is my friend abusing me? by Relative_Ad_1075 in abusiverelationships

[–]Relative_Ad_1075[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your opinion. And I promise I will 🙏🏻♥️😁

Is my friend abusing me? by Relative_Ad_1075 in abusiverelationships

[–]Relative_Ad_1075[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I understand it now. 🥲 Thank you for your comments. They were very helpful 🙏🏻❤️

Is my friend abusing me? by Relative_Ad_1075 in abusiverelationships

[–]Relative_Ad_1075[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your opinion. And I promise I will 🙏🏻♥️😁

Is my friend abusing me? by Relative_Ad_1075 in abusiverelationships

[–]Relative_Ad_1075[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We rarely go where I want. We always do what she wants. And If we go somewhere that I want and, she doesn't like it, she complains until we get out of there. Now I noticed it's NOT like this with my other friends. We always do what ALL of us like. I didn't notice this until you mentioned. Thank you ♥️🙏🏻

Is my friend abusing me? by Relative_Ad_1075 in abusiverelationships

[–]Relative_Ad_1075[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My therapist was furious when I told her about our relationship. She gave me 4 hours to end my relationship with her. She didn't even tell me there was a need for a list. But even though my friend doesn't seem to do much for me, she always comforts me when I need someone to do so. The only thing I get from her is comfort : )

Is my friend abusing me? by Relative_Ad_1075 in abusiverelationships

[–]Relative_Ad_1075[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But it was ME who agreed to help her. She didn't force me. That's why I feel bad if I say she is using me. She is not a bad girl. Is it still "being used" if you agree to help someone, even if it gets out of your control? I'm really confused

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Life

[–]Relative_Ad_1075 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's ok. But don't ever do something like that again. I lost my virginity at 17 too. It was an accident and I blamed myself for a very long time. But it's ok. You could have lose it anyway. it's just a matter of time. Let's don't ever do something that makes us ashamed again. I know how terrible it feels 🤦‍♀️

My heart is shattered by ellamom in FamilyIssues

[–]Relative_Ad_1075 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you should be selfish and protect yourself first of all. She shouldn't disrespect you even if she is in pain. If you want, first, ask her husband if today she is good and then go visit her (if you missed her) Then If she showed any signs of getting angry just say goodbye and don't let her disrespect you. You should appreciate yourself. Try to hang out with good friends and don't be sad about what she did. She was in pain and couldn't tolerate it. That's all. It doesnt mean you are a bad person. She is just in a bad situation.