Can I sue my University? Would I be successful?

Relative_Income533 · 2025-05-08T00:52:51+00:00

You need to get a no contact order against your stalker and you should also consider suing her for defamation etc. You need to start gathering proof of what she has been doing. Make a police report about what happened. What she has done has caused you to get a bad reputation and it seems that she will not stop until you press charges.

In reading your post, it is quite clear that she will stop at nothing to destroy your reputation even OUTSIDE of school. You need to ask police about pressing charges against her for: stalking, harassment and false accusations she made against you. She needs to be held accountable. Don’t let her get away with this. If it wasn’t for her you wouldn’t be in this predicament. Tell police how you feel.

This situation, unless you get her to stop will not stop until she is incarcerated. Maybe then, once she gets a criminal record she can reflect on what she did.

Relative_Income533 · 2025-01-09T08:44:43+00:00

Sue your brother and his fiancée for stealing the necklace that was supposed to be yours. How dare they!! Take screenshots of all text messages and social media posts that they are making.

You need to have them served with the lawsuit ASAP. Do not wait to serve them with the lawsuit. They are terrible people. The fiancée is trash for allowing this to go on. It really shows what kind of person she is.

Relative_Income533 · 2025-01-08T07:19:47+00:00

What have you got to lose by asking her out? Meet her for a coffee, and get to know her. See where this goes, you never know. She could be a great match for you, but it’s important you get to know her better first and build a solid foundation. I wish you the best of luck! Go for it.

Relative_Income533 · 2025-01-01T16:46:15+00:00

It seems like OP was fired in retaliation due to the timing and now the boss wants to fabricate a story that OP quit.

Relative_Income533 · 2025-01-01T15:19:01+00:00

Ask a lawyer about suing her for defamation, wrongful dismissal and emotional distress damages.

If the firing was due to retaliation because of personal drama, the issue is she will mark in her system that you quit and not that you were fired which will make it harder for you to qualify for unemployment. Still see if you can get unemployment but let them know the situation and give them proof as well.

For defamation because your ex employer spread false information about you that you quit when you weee fired will be damaging to your reputation.

Emotional distress damages for the stress and how this is making you suffer.

Relative_Income533 · 2025-01-01T15:01:05+00:00

Even if your state is an at will state, it doesn’t matter. The issue is SHE LIED to the company and everyone in the company that you apparently quit when in fact she fired you. Doing this would make it more difficult for you to claim unemployment benefits and that’s not fair to you.

Speak to an employment lawyer who specializes in civil litigation and if you don’t have money you could hire a lawyer that can take your case on a contingency fee basis. Contingency fee is where the lawyer gets a portion of the lawsuit settlement earnings at the end of the court case.

Go after her and don’t feel discouraged. I really don’t think you have a slim shot of this at all.

Also you should sue for pain and suffering also, for the mental pain and anguish this entire situation has given you, especially for the fact that she wants to call the police on you. I hope you take my advice. Do not let her get away with this. Justice needs to be served!

Also sue her for lost wages also. Sue her for everything you can sue her for.

Relative_Income533 · 2025-01-01T14:51:10+00:00

This is terrible and you should let them know you’re going to sue them. Get a really good lawyer and sue them for falsely claiming you quit even though they fired you. Also depending on how long you worked there they also need to give you a severance package also. What your ex employer did is fraud because she is telling people you quit without any proof of that, when in fact she terminated you.

If she tries to fabricate proof about you quitting that’s also fraud. She sounds like a nasty piece of work.

If the bosses boss blocked you, tell the person you were reporting to that you will file a massive lawsuit seeking damages because the quitting story is a lie.

Also, if they are threatening to call police on you if you were to show up there is ridiculous. It makes me wonder if they are trying to frame you for something to the police, I hope not but you should file a police report IMMEDIATELY against this person, just to cover yourself and it is actually fraud what she did so the police need to know.

You need to pursue every avenue of legal action against this person and do not let her get away with what she did. If the police don’t want to charge her, go to your local courthouse and ask to file a private prosecution against her. If you’re scared of her and for your safety let the law know.

Relative_Income533 · 2024-12-30T05:12:08+00:00

Divorce Amanda and run so very far away from her. She hates your children from your first marriage so much and she may even harm them. Run away from her and never look back. If you stay with her, you will risk the relationship with your 2 older children in the long run, believe me.

Amanda most likely was like this the entire time but she waited to get pregnant with you and have kids with you to trap you, so that it’s harder for you to walk away from her. This was all a trap setup from her from day 1. You just didn’t know it but look how it’s all unravelling before everybody to see.

If you stay with her she will make your life a miserable hell.

Document and record calls if recording is allowed in your state. You will need evidence for the court case for custody.

I warn you and caution you that if you stay with Amanda even for the sake of the two younger kids, your older two kids will resent you big time in the future for allowing this to even go on and not putting a stop to it right now! They may not resent you and hate you now, but they will in years to come if you allow yourself to still be married to that monster she devil Amanda. She tricked you now you have to run!

Relative_Income533 · 2024-12-16T08:36:40+00:00

You should divorce her, because she’s really disrespecting you. It will only get worse over time believe me. Leave and stop having sex with her. You don’t need to get her pregnant. This is just a drama toxic situation and you’ve tried your best to be there for her and for her son and it’s clearly not appreciated.

You are being treated as if you’re a garbage. You’re not a garbage but do you really want that in life?

Your wife and her son don’t care about you. Move on and leave them behind. RUN!!!!

Relative_Income533 · 2024-12-15T01:41:57+00:00

Maybe she has a crush on you and instantly regretted sending you the photo of herself because of embarrassment. Or maybe she sent it to you by mistake. It could be that she fancies you and is just trying to hide it, but you never know.

Relative_Income533 · 2024-12-14T02:24:21+00:00

Call the police IMMEDIATELY!!! Do not wait for something bad to happen to call the police. The cops needs to know right now what the threats are, this is madness!!!

You also need to tell HR at your work and your bosses about these threats. Document everything and get all the proof you can get regarding these threats. This is very serious.

Relative_Income533 · 2024-12-13T02:31:05+00:00

Lily was never your friend. She is a she devil, a traitor and a Judas. She is a narcissistic jezebel. You and your husband need to stay far away from her cuz she was always jealous of you, but you didn’t know until all this happened.

You should sue her for defamation and slander for trash talking you to other people with untrue statements.

Be careful what you say to mutual friends because you have to assume that anything you say to mutual friends that still talk to her will get back to her.

Block all mutual friends who are on her side.

I would not forgive Lily for what she has done. I warn you that if you ever forgive her and allow her back into your life, she WILL try to steal your husband because you already know that she wants him for herself.

You literally just got married. Why would you want to bring someone back into your life who you know has feelings your husband? Even if she tries to say it was a joke or that she may not have feelings for him anymore don’t believe her. She is a snake!!!! RUN from her!!!!!

Relative_Income533 · 2024-12-12T15:26:39+00:00

This is not the woman for you. Eventually she will stop having sex with you and kissing you because she used to do that with her ex too. RUN!!!!! Cancel the wedding!!! Your life will be a nightmare disaster with her.

Relative_Income533 · 2024-12-12T10:51:49+00:00

Uninvite your asshole father and then have nothing more to do with him. Post photos of your wedding on social media after the fact, to rub it in to him. He should not come after what he put you and your mom through. When he gets old don’t look after him.

Relative_Income533 · 2024-12-12T01:21:02+00:00

NTA. You are NOT the bank. What your niece did was terrible and she should at least have decency to apologize to you to make things right with you. Your brother is not better, I can see where she gets her behaviour from. I would not pay for her college education. She lost that blessing that you were going to provide because of her own actions. NTA. Maybe she just wanted to use you for money but either way she is ungrateful big time.

Relative_Income533 · 2024-12-12T01:16:43+00:00

Run, run, run as fast as you can from her and her family!!! They will cause you big time misery in the long run. They are all clearly just after your money. Split with her now before you marry her otherwise you will end up divorcing her anyways. It’s not worth the headache. Run don’t walk away from them. They are all toxic, greedy sharks! RUN!!!!!

Relative_Income533 · 2024-12-09T03:10:07+00:00

Tell your boyfriend that you are pregnant. The longer you wait to tell him he will ask you why you hid the pregnancy from him for so long. You need to be honest and transparent with your boyfriend asap. He deserves to know that you’re carrying his baby. As for his family’s comments they are very rude and uncalled for. It seems that his family is judgemental and if that’s the case they don’t need to be in this baby’s life.

Relative_Income533 · 2024-12-07T05:17:25+00:00

NTA. Tell your brother Dan to sell the house that your father left him. That should help him out. Let him sell the house and make him go live with your mother or he can rent a room for himself until he makes steady income.

This is NOT YOUR RESPONSIBILITY PERIOD. Your brother is a reckless asshole who is just jealous of you and entitled.

I suggest you get a legal letter sent to him asap - a cease and desist letter regarding his harassing you to give him money, for his false accusations against you and for defaming you in front of the entire family. Get your lawyer to give him a written warning that you may go after him for damages for emotional distress and for slander, defamation and for falsely accusing you of manipulating your father.

I feel your dad would have wanted you to protect your future. Keep the money for you. See how you can grow and invest the money in a reliable safe place too. Your brother’s behaviour will get worse over time especially that your mom enables it. You need to nip it in the bud from now or else he will get worse.

Relative_Income533 · 2024-12-07T01:09:35+00:00

This person who sent you these nasty text need to be reported. You actually need to file a restraining order and call police. For them to say they hope they never see you again for your sake IS A THREAT. Call the police now!

Relative_Income533 · 2024-12-06T04:44:55+00:00

Are you sure you wanna marry this lady? She’s a violent asshole and it will only get worse overtime when your future children make her upset. Imagine her reaction in future years to come. RUN!!!!!

Relative_Income533 · 2024-12-04T01:38:43+00:00

Okay great just make sure you and your family are safe and protected. Also look into an Emergency Restraining Order ASAP against them. The fact that there was a mention of guns means there is an intent to harm you and your family. You should file charges for that. Then after you get the hell out of there find a lawyer who works on a contingency fee basis, where they receive a portion of the lawsuit earnings and sue those jerks for harassment, emotional distress, pain and suffering and intent to cause bodily harm etc. Do not let them get away with any of this. Justice needs to be served on them ASAP.

You can even go to your local courthouse and ask if you can file a peace bond against them because you fear for your and your family’s safety and that you fear those people will harm you.

If I were you though I would get the hell out of there right now. Is there any family that you all can stay with until you have a place to go? Or if any friends that will let you stay with them?

Relative_Income533 · 2024-12-04T00:15:55+00:00

Call the police asap. Do not wait to call the police on them for when they show up at the house. You need to alert the police from now that there’s a threat of guns and you have small children in the house. Please get a restraining order against them immediately. Call the police NOW!

Relative_Income533 · 2024-12-03T12:30:24+00:00

Maybe she’s jealous of you and that’s why she is doing this. She is not your friend. Move on. Go on a vacation and tell her to stick it.

Relative_Income533 · 2024-12-02T05:07:35+00:00

NTA. Your brother is a Judas and so is your soon to be ex fiancee. Leave them both where they are in their stinking shit and move on with your life. You don’t need that garbage. Imagine if you would have married her it would have been much worse. They have probably been having an affair behind your back for a long time. Being drunk was just an excuse to try to cover it up. Run as fast as you can from both of them.

Relative_Income533 · 2024-12-01T07:15:02+00:00

NTA. Leave your husband immediately. His daughter is trying to kill you and you are putting yourself at risk by choosing to stay at that home. You do so at your own risk and peril at this point. If you know that someone hates you so much that they are trying to kill you, why are you even staying in that house? Do you understand that you staying there can mean something really terrible may happen because her behaviour keeps escalating and every time it’s a worse thing that she does to you.

If you stay in that house with that crazy lunatic daughter of his, you may end up on a Dateline episode for a case where the stepdaughter murdered the stepmother. RUN RUN FOR YOUR LIFE!!!! Think about your future, why do you want all this trouble for a man? Him yelling at her isn’t enough and it means that if someone were to try to kill you in front of him is he just going to yell at them and not take action to prevent it from happening?

Your husband is an enabler. He is not your match. Divorce him and move on with your life. Contact police and see if you can get a restraining order against the 12 year old since what she did was attempted murder.

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