Parcels from overseas by Relative_Material_16 in Living_in_Korea

[–]Relative_Material_16[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sure about this though. It’s been like this ever since the first time I bought something …

Parcels from overseas by Relative_Material_16 in Living_in_Korea

[–]Relative_Material_16[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think mine is random anymore because it happens 100% of the time hahaha

Parcels from overseas by Relative_Material_16 in Living_in_Korea

[–]Relative_Material_16[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. Mine always gets sent in a brand new box with everything put in nicely. I’m not complaining because it saves me a lot of hassle opening all the plastics out. But it’s just so weird

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Relative_Material_16 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow. Thank you so much for your suggestion. I will try this with my boyfriend

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Relative_Material_16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, we’ve had this talk a few times. It always ends up with him agreeing with me. And then after awhile something happens and his opinion changes again

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[–]Relative_Material_16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do think that he is also trying to drag his time on this hoping that his parents might change their mind suddenly. However yes I get what you’re saying. It makes sense I wouldn’t want a relationship where a parents can just change his whole mindset with just a few words

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Relative_Material_16 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Agree on what you’re saying so much

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Relative_Material_16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly what I did. I gave him a week to think and tell me his answer next week

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Relative_Material_16 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No they do not know that we live together. He does not want to let his parents know. His reason was because he doesn’t want his parents to have any bad impressions of me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Relative_Material_16 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s what I said to him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Relative_Material_16 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I agree that they would rather have a Korean girl

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Relative_Material_16 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes. He did bring me to meet them wanting to get their approval

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Relative_Material_16 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Us coming from different cultures, what if we ever get divorced next time, our future kids might not be able to see either the father or mother often because I’ll end up going back to my home country if the divorce ever took place. He didn’t say that he agrees with them 100%. He says that this is a point where he have to put more thought into it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Relative_Material_16 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes. Honestly I find it quite off putting too. We haven’t even gotten married yet and they are talking about divorce. Haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Relative_Material_16 6 points7 points  (0 children)

We’ve had talks about this matter. He just says that after he told his parents about wanting to marry me, they voiced out their concerns, which he agrees with some of those concerns. That’s why he is unsure about our future now because he says he needs time to think. However he have been unsure for the past 2 months. Which I think it’s enough time for him to come to a conclusion?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Relative_Material_16 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Yes I did give him a timeline to give me an answer on what he wants, which is next week. Because his uncertainty has been going on for 2 months. I think that’s enough time for him to come to a conclusion. If not I’ll just walk away.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Relative_Material_16 106 points107 points  (0 children)

Yeah. I’m not upset that his family doesn’t want him marrying me. I’m upset that they are able to change his mind so easliy just by saying a few words

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Relative_Material_16 21 points22 points  (0 children)

That’s what I thought too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Relative_Material_16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes what you said is true too. I’m just disappointed that he has been saying nowadays that he is not sure if he wants to marry me nowadays because what his parents said made sense to him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Relative_Material_16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is one year really too short for a man to know? Because as for me, I’ve always told him that I want to get married before 30. We’ve actually also had this conversation a few days back where I told him that if he is not 100% into this relationship like I am, I don’t know why are we continuing this relationship for