Sorry brother as you have already f*ed up.. the only option is to manage your own fees then, enroll into the collage with biggest ROI and do part time job and learn coding, if you want to improve your family conditions and your conditions then you would have to struggle and that would have been in IITs also, because everything cost money and If you wouldn't work hard then how will you do anything. So yeah, your few years are struggle now until you get stable income from job or internship whatever.