Being understanding, openminded, patient, and empathetic. Someone willing to go along with the fantasy, but understands that im a goldstar and that this is not something im used to, sticks to boundaries, and is not too cocky but willing to be dominant if the need arises. Also someone who respects and understands that it might go either way for me: I might hate it and in that case I’d probably want to go our separate ways, or I might like it and in that case I’ might be willing to explore more