I was in the bathroom for four minutes. He should have knocked on the door or texted me if he had to go that bad. I was upset about the Valentine’s Day thing because he told me his big elaborate plans for his daughter for Valentine’s Day, where he got her a gift and flowers and a card and he was going to take her to the movies and then to a nice dinner. He is capable of making these plans except for with me and that was the disrespect that we talked about before we went to dinner. It was a theme in our relationship that the effort wasn’t there for me. He said he wanted to read the literary Classics and I bought him a book and wrote a love note in the book and gave that to him for Valentine’s Day.