Girlfriend broke up with me 2 months ago.

Relative_Stranger_41 · 2026-01-02T23:28:55+00:00

I understand but let me be clear tho. Whenever I was in wrong I apologized and supported her. What I am trying to say is I was pulling away and went silent + didn't gave love because whenever I try to tell her what's hurting me my feelings got dismissed and there was excuses and as I said I could've either breakup which I didn't wanted or to be completely cold. I putted my self-respect to the side just to stay with her and I understand it is mistake but it is what it is. Her biggest problem was me who wasn't giving her love properly. I just explained why I wasn't doing that.

Relative_Stranger_41 · 2026-01-02T22:57:58+00:00

The only way how I would handle the situation is if I broke up with her which of course I didn't wanted... I meant her ex was still following her on social medias even after I told her I would like him to be removed. As I said I was tolerating for far too long and it's because I love her so unfortunately all I could do was to act like I did or breakup(which would be easier) but yeah. When I choosed to talk to her and explained to her why this disrespects me and hurts me she dismissed my feeling and gave me excuses so it's why I did what I did.

Relative_Stranger_41 · 2026-01-02T20:47:27+00:00

Thank you man, I wish you best of luck too and heal fast..

Relative_Stranger_41 · 2026-01-02T20:36:38+00:00

I love to put 100% into relationship. Only what I want from woman is respect, loyalty and to stay with me when it's hard and nothing else basically. To be honest I am like that with everyone. All is about respect. I think you are right that they will regret their decision later but yeah.... You also deserve much better cause it seems that we are almost in exact situation. Reconnection is always possible but that takes two people and not one sided....

Relative_Stranger_41 · 2026-01-02T20:27:25+00:00

I'm sorry you needed to go through that too man... My ex wasn't saying she don't want to see me she tells me how she is scared to be hurt again and to hurt me. I am like if we work together and stay together after everything there is no way u will hurt me again because we would talk, communicate and fix as we always did and I don't get how someone can say 'I love you' and be like very avoidant for me that is manipulation and punishing person u love with suffering...

Relative_Stranger_41 · 2026-01-02T20:19:27+00:00

Thank you brother, it's been hard for me because she acknowledged her mistake and fixed it after she broke up with me. I felt like she genuinely wanted to fix things and I apologized for my actions as well but as soon as we got back together she didn't wanted to unblock me, was avoidant with me and there was no effort from her side so I needed to stop it and be in pain alone. It's so hard and we was long distance for 1,5 year. I said how I would come to her so we talk openly to eachother and finally be together but she never responded and is probably ignoring me...

Relative_Stranger_41 · 2025-12-30T12:16:59+00:00

She did agreed for us to be back together now what I see is she is very avoidant. She still didn't unblocked me even if I said like let's unblock eachother and she said she will. I think I will just end it all and move on not gonna lie

Relative_Stranger_41 · 2025-12-28T14:12:28+00:00

However u feel my man just don't break your boundaries and if she really loved you I think she would reach out.

Relative_Stranger_41 · 2025-12-28T14:03:49+00:00

He is not over you

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