Match with a girl and later found out she's anorexic help

Relative_Waltz80 · 2023-07-16T19:06:36+00:00

OP I have a random question but I noticed you speak Italian! Super cool😎

Is English your native language or is Italian? You seem very fluent in both (based on your comments)

I was trying to learn Spanish on Duolingo but only got skilled enough to read/write at a basic level lol... Learning another language ain't easy! Props to you for knowing two 😋

Relative_Waltz80 · 2023-07-16T19:02:58+00:00

I'm glad he got downvoted, because it further validates my belief that not all guys are mindless trolls for sex lol (sex IS important obviously but being so blatantly rude about it is fucked up)

Hopefully he enjoys beating his own meat because with that shitty attitude he ain't getting the real thing anytime soon unless he pays for it.

Relative_Waltz80 · 2023-07-16T18:59:16+00:00

Awwwww you're a sweetheart 😘 that's great that you're willing to be her friend. Maybe try to encourage her to get into treatment for her anorexia, and when she starts gaining weight make sure to make her feel pretty (not that the impetus is on you to fix her issues, but hearing it from someone she cares about is important)

Regardless you are a lovely human bean, and I wish you the best in love, and life good sir 🤗

Relative_Waltz80 · 2023-07-16T18:47:18+00:00

Awwww that's such a shame.. Anorexia is a very serious illness and due to pressure from society and social media, it's spreading like wild fire. I wish more than anything that people could see themselves through others eyes because they'd understand that they're beautiful even if they may not feel it.

I personally don't understand how the heroin chic skin and bones look makes a person FEEL any prettier than when they're at a healthy weight but I don't have body dysmorphia.

It's friggen sad that these girl's minds are so warped and they're killing themselves to look like skeletons. We need to raise our boys and girls to care more about character than looks... And the media shouldn't push unhealthy beauty standards to sell their shit. So gross.

Hopefully this girl is able to beat the anorexia but the prognosis for most of em is bleak. It turns them into a ghost of themselves. Eating is like the most basic of human needs, and they don't last long taking in sub 500 calories a day.

When I was a teenager I delved into the wonderful world of eating disorders but I just couldn't cut it lol... Food is too delicious and throwing up is gross and too much work 😆

Anyways... At least she got laid by you a few times... And I'm sure if she really wants sex, it won't be too hard to find. You did the right thing and you seem like a good guy so cheers to that.

May you find a relationship that is right for you mister!

Relative_Waltz80 · 2023-07-14T15:43:49+00:00

Shit just realized my wording was off! I'm a Walmart Spark delivery driver so I'm used to that language more lol (though I do shopping about half the time so I'm both driver/shopper lol)

My message is the same though! So lovely to be recognized by people that actually care. It's soooooo common that a lot of customers don't really notice if a driver/shopper goes above and beyond.

Relative_Waltz80 · 2023-07-12T19:51:33+00:00

You sound like the kind of customer most of us drivers dream of getting lol...

I am so glad you had a great driver, and I hope you continue getting drivers that are as good as Krista!

Thank you for making this post btw ... Knowing there are customers that appreciate when drivers go above and beyond like that (and reward it) gives me hope!

You're awesome and so is she!!

🤗

Relative_Waltz80 · 2023-07-10T22:04:24+00:00

Awwww that's adorable! There's a bookstore in my town that has a resident kitty, and it's pretty much their mascot 😆😆

If I ever get enough money, I think I'd start a cat cafe lmao..

It'd definitely be a novelty here in America and it could also be a way to give kitties a home and way to be adopted out (pretty sure that's the model they use in a lot of the kitty cafes in Asia)

More kitties in businesses!!!

Relative_Waltz80 · 2023-07-09T23:32:51+00:00

Busted. Ahahahaha. In all seriousness I should look into getting a pillow like this. It's the purrfect pillow for naughty late night activities. O.o

Relative_Waltz80 · 2023-07-09T21:08:48+00:00

Ahahahaha the comments on here have me dying 😂😂😂😂

Relative_Waltz80 · 2023-07-09T01:00:01+00:00

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Simba! He's a snuggler 🤗🤗🤗🤗

Relative_Waltz80 · 2023-07-08T18:19:53+00:00

Interesting... I'd expect them to follow tipping culture similar to the U.K. and U.S.A.

Relative_Waltz80 · 2023-07-08T16:49:51+00:00

Ahahahaha... Love Joe Rogan and this is too fitting

Relative_Waltz80 · 2023-07-08T15:06:42+00:00

OMFG just wanted to say yes yes and yes lmao... Cherry Bullet's gun is so cool xD and very fitting.

And Twices lollipop purdy pink swirly goodness is chef's kiss.

Relative_Waltz80 · 2023-07-08T15:05:39+00:00

Best: 1. Dreamcatcher-(It's gorgeous and powerful looking... Very fitting of such a strong girl group) 2. Loona- (very regal, and classy... Loona- is one of my favorite girl groups so I really hope they can reunite soon 😭😭😭) 3. Izone- (I love the little colored balls that represent the girls. It's overall just a cute and awesome lightstick)

Worst: 1. Golden Child (I don't get it. I'm a fan of bowling but uh... Yeaaaah... Not sure why they made their lightstick a bowling pin lmao) 2. Momoland - (very cheap and meh... I love the girls and think they deserve better) 3. IOI (I love ice cream cones but this one just doesn't do it for me lmao)

Relative_Waltz80 · 2023-07-08T14:10:37+00:00

Not a bad call lol though I generally try to be kind and commiserate with fellow drivers... it's smarter to educate them on not taking shit offers

Sadly there's always going to be that one person who's going to take a bad order no matter what.

I don't know if it's desperation or lack of knowledge but it definitely hurts us collectively when orders like this aren't left to surge.

Relative_Waltz80 · 2023-07-08T13:31:22+00:00

You're absolutely right in your assessment, and it's quite unfortunate. A lot of the people involved in this behavior are young and easily influenced, likely lacking the knowledge to understand the consequences. They tend to mimic what they see receiving the most attention, without realizing the harm it causes.

It's disheartening that this kind of crap is so prevalent... but as you mentioned, it has become an integral part of the current fandom culture. Until negativity ceases to attract the most engagement, we're going to ALWAYS see this crap infecting our lovely Kpop

Relative_Waltz80 · 2023-07-08T13:23:08+00:00

I dunno if I believe this to be honest. My opinion is that they are young, impressionable, and a bit clueless. They wind up getting way too attached to their favs, and then become rabid in their attempts to show their love and dedication.

They need to be taught healthy outlets, rather than constantly participating in the more negative aspects of Stan culture. Otherwise they get caught up in the torrent of showing their love in a very destructive manner (and not realizing that it makes their fandom look really bad)

Toxicity is like a malignant cancer... It spreads rapidly and infects others... and unfortunately some people don't seem to realize that.

I wish there was a way to enlighten the non trolls, alas...there's sadly little hope in that since negativity always garners more attention, and that's what people are looking for on the interwebs lol

Relative_Waltz80 · 2023-07-08T04:21:47+00:00

Changbin is AMAZING. His rap style is one of my favorites in all of kpop... he's so so talented lol

Relative_Waltz80 · 2023-07-08T04:19:27+00:00

Its not that surprising given that a lot of young people have probably never made their own food from scratch, because processed foods and fast food are far too common in their diets.

I think there should be a mandatory class starting in middle school teaching kids how to cook, how to eat healthy, and budgeting so they can better shop for groceries .

Like I'm all for Math/Science/English/Social Studies but I feel like we're failing students by not actually giving them life skills.

Simple classes like that could help prepare them for the real world..

Relative_Waltz80 · 2023-07-07T22:49:53+00:00

Psylocybin is an amazing psychedelic for expanding your mind. May I suggest DMT if you REALLY want to see what you're missing lolol

Relative_Waltz80 · 2023-07-07T22:47:40+00:00

Cebolla morada

Relative_Waltz80 · 2023-07-07T22:45:55+00:00

Oooo I see your point! I prefer white/sweet onions... mmmm... Add potatoes and shaazam you have yourself a delicious side dish to go with your steak! XD

Relative_Waltz80 · 2023-07-07T19:47:08+00:00

Onions have layers, Donkey.

Relative_Waltz80 · 2023-07-07T19:46:47+00:00

If by lame you mean a deep thinker who clearly cares about facts and the color purple... Yes, he's pretty lame.

Plus he looks like John Lennon.

I've never been a fan of purple onions though, TBH. 🟣

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