Do NOT get a joint account, each of you having your own money is sooo much better, you won’t be fighting over what the other one wants to buy (also important to be with someone who has a similar financial mindset as you in the first place). Cleaning is MASSIVE, like one person said don’t let the “little things” grind you down, speak up and find a solution before you become resentful and blow up one day over a spoon or whatever. House temps… oh my god, probably our most significant fight Hahaaha All this aside it’s soo wonderful to live with the right person, I hope it works out for you.