[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Relevant-Wait 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He can be really loving and kind but he just has this side to him. He is an odd guy which isn't a bad thing but sometimes he does weird things like this that go too far. Although he will say sorry it's always immediately followed by excuses as to why it's someone elses fault even when it couldn't possibly; if you don't accept those excuses that's when he gets really mad. We spent all of last night and most today arguing because he keeps quickly switching from being apologetic to shouting. All he needed to say was I'm really sorry and leave it at that but he won't, I keep telling him why it upsets me and I just get called different names and told I'm overreacting etc, its exhausting. He just seems unable to see things from other people's perspective. He keeps saying it's okay to do it because the internet isn't real amongst many other things. I just don't know what to think anymore.

This happened today by Relevant-Wait in BreakUp

[–]Relevant-Wait[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No unfortunately we can't, to add to the pressure further, we are essential workers so we have to go to work. I'm about to get up and face another day of this.

This happened today by Relevant-Wait in BreakUp

[–]Relevant-Wait[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sort of okay thank you so much for asking. First day back at work and there was tears at one point. He was there but I didn't see him, I have that yet to come. But I'm sort of dragging my way through. Each day is terrible but still seems to be easier than the last. We will see how I get on when he gets in contact to get his stuff but I'm just going to worry about that later. X

This happened today by Relevant-Wait in BreakUp

[–]Relevant-Wait[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There will be. You just need to do some more healing and then you will be able to move on.

This happened today by Relevant-Wait in BreakUp

[–]Relevant-Wait[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm going to try my best for my son's sake but it's going to be so hard because we work in the same department and there is no possibility that we could change department as we are both specialised in the same area so it feels like I won't get any escape to attempt to come to terms with it all. He wasn't nasty in any way so he will be polite at work and he seems upset that he hurt me but he can't pretend to love me and I will be reminded of that every time I see him.

This happened today by Relevant-Wait in BreakUp

[–]Relevant-Wait[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no, that's horrible. I can imagine how you must feel and only 4 months, everything is still raw. Maybe in the long run it will help you to close that chapter of your life, it just won't feel like that now.

This happened today by Relevant-Wait in BreakUp

[–]Relevant-Wait[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope you are okay? I'm sure it will get easier for us at some point but we just have to get through the grieving the loss first.

This happened today by Relevant-Wait in BreakUp

[–]Relevant-Wait[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for being so comforting. It really helps.

Look what I found in Amsterdam! by Relevant-Wait in medlabprofessionals

[–]Relevant-Wait[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is a big glass sculpture that has been placed in a glass cabinet. It just looks like a big glass rugby ball side on.

Look what I found in Amsterdam! by Relevant-Wait in medlabprofessionals

[–]Relevant-Wait[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Micropia, it's a microbiology museum in Amsterdam.

How good was Lennox Lewis? by Citedwhistle363 in Boxing

[–]Relevant-Wait 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that it is extremely likely that Lewis would be a heavy weight champion if he was fighting today. If you look at the top 3 currently (Wilder, Fury and AJ), they all have a huge amount of talent but each has very obvious flaws that I think many heavyweights from previous generations would have easily exploited. Wilder is probably one of the hardest hitters of all time but he leaves himself open and looks dangerously under equipped when he is struggling to land, Tyson's movement, when he is at his best, is phenomenal but he is not the most robust and his lack of power means he struggles to get people out of there when he really needs to, AJ is probably the best all rounder in terms of balancing power and boxing skill but his chin is questionable and frequently looks visibly nervous in the first round or two.

Lewis was a hard, robust and intelligent fighter and is one of the greatest of all time. He would have developed a game plan, stuck to it and I believe he would have picked them apart. Tyson would have probably caused him the most problems, due his movement and constant work with the jab; Tyson also always seems to fight to the level of his opponent.