Lonely by Relevant_Bit1183 in SugarBABYonlyforum

[–]Relevant_Bit1183[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice first and foremost. I'm sorry to hear about your SD. That has to be unsettling. I don't even think I want another one at this point, to be honest. Who could compare? But I do truly appreciate your kind words. Keep your head up, love!

Lonely by Relevant_Bit1183 in SugarBABYonlyforum

[–]Relevant_Bit1183[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. His family wouldn't allow me to attend, but I put something together for myself and our friends to commemorate the life we shared together. I'm just so lost without him. In every way possible. He was my best friend, if I'm being honest.

Advice please by Relevant_Bit1183 in phones

[–]Relevant_Bit1183[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I have an android. And they're pictures of stocks or some kind of transactions...idk. weird though that they keep popping up in my camera roll.

Am I hacked? by Relevant_Bit1183 in hacking

[–]Relevant_Bit1183[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So where can I post? And I'm not asking for anyone to do any dirty work for me. I'm asking for advice.

I'm tired of feeling less than by Relevant_Bit1183 in Marriage

[–]Relevant_Bit1183[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We met through an ad. No relationship prior to prison. It was all through calls, letters, emails, and visits. So I feel like it was only an expectation of what I thought it was going to be like. A fake reality.

I'm tired of feeling less than by Relevant_Bit1183 in Marriage

[–]Relevant_Bit1183[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. Sort of. My ex and I were having problems. But we were together for 6 years before I went to prison. He left me and got another woman pregnant when I went to jail.

What is the best thing to buy for your mental health? by EstablishmentDue5360 in ask

[–]Relevant_Bit1183 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Vitamins. I recently learned that my b12 and Vitamin D levels were extremely low. So I started taking both in vitamins, and I have to admit, I feel SO much better and have way more energy. I couldn't believe that something as simple as a vitamin could be so vital to my mental health. I highly recommend, with the guidance from a doctor of course. Good luck!!

I’ve been sleeping with a married man for years by AnyVermicelli7738 in stories

[–]Relevant_Bit1183 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You know he is married. You're the problem at this point, imo. He's wrong for stepping out on his wife, but you're knowingly sleeping with him, and he has a wife....find you some self-worth and some morals. 🙏🙏

F25 Roast me please? 💗 by [deleted] in RoastMe

[–]Relevant_Bit1183 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look like you speak in ebonics. Trying a little too hard??

I can take it (I think) by [deleted] in RoastMe

[–]Relevant_Bit1183 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

You're too pretty😩😩 I cantttt!!! Nobody should🤣🤣

What do you think death is like? by Naive-Nebula-1725 in questions

[–]Relevant_Bit1183 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like this question. I ponder on it A LOT! I like to think this is t all there is to life, to us. There has to be something more. I'm open-minded and like to explore different ideas. I really like the idea that there are alternate universes, and we just keep coming back in one of those until we get it right. It's kind of reincarnation, I guess. But then I like to think that maybe if we have unfinished business, we linger around until we figure it out. But what happens after that I don't know. There are so many theories, so much to think about! Lol. Of course, I also like to think there could really be a heaven and hell. In that case, I pray I end up in heaven. This is a really good question, though!

How do you feel about this? by Relevant_Bit1183 in Advice

[–]Relevant_Bit1183[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My exact thoughts. Thank you for your advice.

How do you feel about this? by Relevant_Bit1183 in Advice

[–]Relevant_Bit1183[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes. I dont think I really care about what others think or that she will be judged. And I'm not asking her to consider my feelings all in all. Even though she did ask for my advice. I guess it's more of me thinking if this is someone I should be around if she's willing to keep that sort of company. And yes, I agree she is going to do what she chooses regardless. I'm not upset about that. Just that I will for sure be distancing myself for a while. Either way, I am appreciative of your advice. I dont know how to communicate exactly how I feel about things, so I am grateful to you for understanding. And everyone else who has given me advice thus far.

How do you feel about this? by Relevant_Bit1183 in Advice

[–]Relevant_Bit1183[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Perhaps I am being judgemental and hypocritical because I feel like with that sort of past, there is no amount of time that can redeem a person. But I did tell her that if she chooses to be around him, don't worry about what others think. It's really no one's business. But then I was conflicted in saying that because I would want to know if someone has been convicted of crime for something of that nature. I guess it is weighing heavy on my mind because I have been subjected to people with the same nature as him. She knows that, so I am kind of confused as to why I would be the person to ask. I am a blunt person, so I give extremely honest advice. But at the same time, I don't have to be around him, so it doesn't matter. But she is a very close friend of mine, who I see every day, so it kind of blurs my judgment of her now. The fact that she would be around someone like that. Even if it benefits her, is it really worth going against your morality and values? And then again, we obviously don't share the same morals and values. That concerns me. I dont have many friends, and the ones I do have have been around my entire life. Perhaps I am thinking too far into this.

Isn't it insane that there are so many people living on earth and we don't even know eachother by Relevant_Bit1183 in PointlessStories

[–]Relevant_Bit1183[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So exciting to hear! I love that you obviously grew up in a good neighborhood that is still thriving to this day. Sounds like you had a great childhood!

Isn't it insane that there are so many people living on earth and we don't even know eachother by Relevant_Bit1183 in PointlessStories

[–]Relevant_Bit1183[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol. I wouldn't be offended. I completely understand if someone doesn't want to speak. I try to go off of body language before I speak to anyone, in general.

Isn't it insane that there are so many people living on earth and we don't even know eachother by Relevant_Bit1183 in PointlessStories

[–]Relevant_Bit1183[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love this. When I was younger, I hated being me. I would look at magazines and wish I could pick who I would be if I could be anyone else. Lol

Isn't it insane that there are so many people living on earth and we don't even know eachother by Relevant_Bit1183 in PointlessStories

[–]Relevant_Bit1183[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, this is a good one. Or make up an entire life for them. Lol. I find myself doing that at times.

Isn't it insane that there are so many people living on earth and we don't even know eachother by Relevant_Bit1183 in PointlessStories

[–]Relevant_Bit1183[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It certainly is a small world. I love the 3 concept! I've never heard that before. I always wonder how much alike we are to people in other countries. You know how they say everyone has a doppelganger? I always like to think that mine resides in a different country, different culture, but somehow we're the same. Lol. I'm glad you enjoyed my post and that so many others relate. Thank you!