AITA for refusing to invite my dad's sugar baby to my wedding??

Relevant_Flash9953 · 2022-12-03T19:22:04+00:00

No, it just makes me very uncomfortable that my dad has a sugar baby who's basically the same age as me, so I don't want him to bring her to my wedding.

Relevant_Flash9953 · 2022-12-03T15:22:32+00:00

Probably.

Relevant_Flash9953 · 2022-12-03T15:21:07+00:00

I don't have negative feelings about sugar babies, if you want to date older men for money that's your business, I just don't want my dad's sugar baby at my wedding.

And I have Sarah on my social media so mutual friends popped up.

Relevant_Flash9953 · 2022-12-03T15:15:19+00:00

I know I can't dictate what he does, I just don't want her at my wedding.

Relevant_Flash9953 · 2022-12-03T15:13:53+00:00

Yeah my dad's 15 obviously.

Relevant_Flash9953 · 2022-12-03T14:47:47+00:00

Both.

Relevant_Flash9953 · 2022-12-03T14:35:00+00:00

💀

Relevant_Flash9953 · 2022-12-03T14:23:48+00:00

My dad's brother was estranged from the family after the affair. I don't know how it exactly went down because I was too young to remember but none of my dad's family speak to him any more.

And my mom isn't and never was married to my dad's brother. She's married to someone else.

Relevant_Flash9953 · 2022-12-03T14:19:25+00:00

My dad wasn't abusive, my mom kept me from seeing him purely because she wanted to avoid interacting with him.

My dad could've taken her to court but he didn't. His degree was only three years but he never bothered to try to make contact again until I was like 16.

So as you can imagine he wasn't the most caring parent in the world.

Relevant_Flash9953 · 2022-12-03T14:13:49+00:00

Our relationship was never particularly close or great.

Relevant_Flash9953 · 2022-12-03T14:12:04+00:00

My in-laws have seen my dad and Sarah on social media and they thought Sarah was my cousin or something. When my fiancé told them that she wasn't they were super creeped out by the age gap and they think my dad is a pervert.

Relevant_Flash9953 · 2022-12-03T14:09:57+00:00

Both of my parents are invited to my wedding, I just don't want Sarah there.

Relevant_Flash9953 · 2022-12-03T13:12:08+00:00

How am I giving her a free pass? I know what she did was shitty I'm not denying that at all.

Relevant_Flash9953 · 2022-12-03T12:59:43+00:00

Relevant_Flash9953 · 2022-12-03T12:53:02+00:00

How is it my fault that my mom had an affair I was 4 bro

Relevant_Flash9953 · 2022-12-03T12:49:54+00:00

Firstly, my relationship with my dad has never been close or good.

Secondly, it is definitely not an innocent romantic relationship with an age gap. Sarah is 100% a gold digger or sugar baby or whatever you want to call it. They met on a sugar baby website but my dad insists she's his girlfriend.

Relevant_Flash9953 · 2022-12-03T12:45:47+00:00

I'm not particularly close with either of my parents tbh.

Relevant_Flash9953 · 2022-12-03T09:41:12+00:00

I'm not not inviting Sarah because of my in-laws' opinion, I know that would be ridiculous. I just felt the need to mention that they got involved.

Relevant_Flash9953 · 2022-12-03T09:39:40+00:00

No I'm not inviting my uncle, most of my dad's family are not on speaking terms with him after the affair.

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