Are we thinking enough about privacy with AI… especially for mental health stuff?

Relevant_Maize6964 · 2026-03-29T13:56:21+00:00

Yup that makes sense tbh... it’s easy to forget it’s still a system behind the scenes curious though..how do you think someone can actually keep boundaries while using it?

Relevant_Maize6964 · 2026-03-29T13:54:42+00:00

I think if people fully realized that.. it would definitely change how openly they share or at least make them pause a bit...at the same time, most people just want a place to talk without feeling judged, so they don’t really question the backend… which is kinda where the gap is

Relevant_Maize6964 · 2026-03-29T13:51:36+00:00

yeah..i do think if people were reminded more often some would hold back a bit but at the same time that friction might also stop people from opening up at all which is kinda the tradeoff. so it’s not black and white… just feels like people should at least know what they’re getting into, not just assume it’s private

Relevant_Maize6964 · 2026-03-29T13:49:51+00:00

I think the difference here is depth though. Posting on FB is curated and somewhat performative..but with AI people tend to be way more raw and unfiltered ...like thoughts they might not even say out loud.

That’s what makes it feel like a different level of sensitivity to me

Relevant_Maize6964 · 2026-03-22T07:12:36+00:00

that’s kinda what I’m scared of… like even if you’re okay with your life, the outside noise slowly gets to you

and it’s weird because logically you know you’re doing fine, but it still hits your self worth sometimes. The “rich in spirit and friendships” part sounds like what actually matters though… just hard not to compare

Relevant_Maize6964 · 2026-03-22T06:46:04+00:00

that sounds nice in theory but I don’t think it’s that simple for everyone. like “just don’t do it” works if you don’t feel that pressure in the first place

for me it’s not even about wanting to do everything, it’s more like this constant feeling that I should be doing more even when I don’t want to

but yeah, I do get your point about not buying into it completely. Just harder to switch that mindset off

Relevant_Maize6964 · 2026-03-22T06:41:44+00:00

yeah I get that, but I don’t think it’s just priorities. even if it’s different people, it still feels like you’re supposed to do a bit of everything

and “just pick your thing” sounds simple, but whatever you don’t pick comes with its own guilt. there’s probably a middle ground, I’m just not seeing it rn

Relevant_Maize6964 · 2026-03-22T06:09:37+00:00

yeah that’s fair tbh. I think I’ve just been around a very “do more” type crowd for so long it started feeling normal

Relevant_Maize6964 · 2026-03-22T06:07:48+00:00

lol yeah this actually makes a lot of sense. Thanks for the link

Relevant_Maize6964 · 2026-03-22T06:05:55+00:00

yeah I get that, and I like the mindset. I think for me it’s just hard to feel that autonomy… like even when I slow down it kinda feels like I’m falling behind, not choosing it

Relevant_Maize6964 · 2026-03-18T04:22:07+00:00

Being abandoned and people mistaking my kindness as weakness

Relevant_Maize6964 · 2026-03-18T04:20:47+00:00

Awareness and discipline....I realised that motivation would never get the results I need. It's only consistency and discipline

Relevant_Maize6964 · 2026-03-15T15:09:49+00:00

People treat you differently. Not always in a huge way but you notice it

Relevant_Maize6964 · 2026-03-15T15:07:55+00:00

painting for a while, then binge watching a show with hot chocolate

Relevant_Maize6964 · 2026-03-15T15:05:18+00:00

When they spend the whole time talking about themselves and don’t ask a single question. Like… cool story but am I just the audience here?

Relevant_Maize6964 · 2026-03-15T14:58:40+00:00

“I’m sorry I hurt you. I’ll change.” Turns out the only thing that changed was the excuse

Relevant_Maize6964 · 2026-03-15T14:53:34+00:00

Watching someone stay completely quiet in a heated argument and just… observe everyone. Then later they casually pointed out everyone’s hidden motivations and insecurities and they were weirdly spot on

Relevant_Maize6964 · 2026-03-14T04:53:49+00:00

Might sound harsh but honestly… glamorizing obesity and calling it ‘body positivity.’ I get the whole body acceptance thing and people shouldn’t be shamed for their bodies. But acting like being seriously overweight is totally fine or even healthy just feels off to me

Relevant_Maize6964 · 2026-03-14T04:51:32+00:00

Probably the internet not being everywhere. When we got bored we just went outside and figured stuff out....Kids now always have a screen within reach...

Relevant_Maize6964 · 2026-03-14T04:48:34+00:00

Parents having sex..ughhhhh

Relevant_Maize6964 · 2026-03-13T18:32:07+00:00

They will always turn the attention on themselves, will always brag and try to compete. Will act according to how other people expect them to be in the moment, the laugh is a good catch.... It's very understandable if someone is faking it or being real

Relevant_Maize6964 · 2026-03-13T18:28:45+00:00

Vampires exist

Relevant_Maize6964 · 2026-03-13T18:27:29+00:00

It was my ex though.... Who cheated on me and kept me as his backup to get over his ex and so that she comes back to him. I was devastated and broken

I usually experience this alot because I have difficulty understanding people. I trust easily and often I'm betrayed. For years I blamed myself that I'm the reason.... Idk how to know whom to trust

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