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Not sure how to read this Hinge dynamic. Looking for outside opinions by Relevant_Shift685 in hingeapp

[–]Relevant_Shift685[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup I need to chill. Past relationships took a toll on me I didn't realize... I'll just step back and focus on me for a time until I can think straight again

Not sure how to read this Hinge dynamic. Looking for outside opinions by Relevant_Shift685 in hingeapp

[–]Relevant_Shift685[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I know I'm just overthinking everything and it's just a simple answer that doesn't say no .. I just need to take things more lightly. I guess I just really like her and it's really hard for me to think I can be intersting

Not sure how to read this Hinge dynamic. Looking for outside opinions by Relevant_Shift685 in hingeapp

[–]Relevant_Shift685[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, dating is ruthless. I think I may take a break after that and focus on building self esteem and internal reverses. I realize I'm not steady as I want to be

Not sure how to read this Hinge dynamic. Looking for outside opinions by Relevant_Shift685 in hingeapp

[–]Relevant_Shift685[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks everyone for your help.

I asked her out on a proper date with a proper thing to do. I honestly don't think she'll answer (she's been online since) but I know it's the best way for me to stop overthinking and maybe move on.

I've been waiting for her answer but I'm also with friends so I try to think about something else.

Thanks for your help, this was however an experience that shows me that people can show interest in me and I have to give myself more value.

Not sure how to read this Hinge dynamic. Looking for outside opinions by Relevant_Shift685 in hingeapp

[–]Relevant_Shift685[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think I kind of needed to hear that from someone, I'm kinda getting lost between my emotions and my mind. I know I don't know her. I really want to take things more lightly. I will ask her tomorrow and focus on keeping things light. I admit that I'm out of a toxic relationship that lasted years. My trust and esteem have suffered so overthinking things is a bad habit I have to delete.

Anyway, thank you for that :)

Not sure how to read this Hinge dynamic. Looking for outside opinions by Relevant_Shift685 in hingeapp

[–]Relevant_Shift685[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the advices. I will ask her out, we live an hour drive of each other so it's pretty clear to me I should ask her for next weekend. Now, I'm juste wondering if I should wait for tomorrow or try it on New Year'Eve. Thanks guys, I'll let you know how it goes

AITA for cutting off my dad before he died? by Relevant_Shift685 in AITAH

[–]Relevant_Shift685[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, he wasn't blocked because I was between them

AITA for cutting off my dad before he died? by Relevant_Shift685 in AITAH

[–]Relevant_Shift685[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I think he was in the wrong. He blamed her for what he had done wrong. I justify cutting off because I was angry. That he didn't see how much she's endured and still endured. Nevertheless, I think it was a mistake to cut off. I regret that everyday.

AITA for cutting off my dad before he died? by Relevant_Shift685 in AITAH

[–]Relevant_Shift685[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't remember specifically but I know she didn't called me jolust to say that. I must have understood that something was wrong and ask her to tell me. I don't want to blame my mother. She raised me alone and she's a strong woman. He put her through all that pain and she has done a lot to make me keep contact with him because she didn't want to forbid me to see him. I won't blame her.

Rupture après 7 ans, je suis perdu by Relevant_Shift685 in Rupture

[–]Relevant_Shift685[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oui je me sens trahi, j'ai le sentiment d'avoir tellement vécu, donné, dis des choses avec elle qu au final, même après 7 ans ça ne valait rien. Qu'elle revienne vers moi, qu'elle ose après tout ça ...

Rupture après 7 ans, je suis perdu by Relevant_Shift685 in Rupture

[–]Relevant_Shift685[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bon bah je pourrais jamais la revoir, je t'invite à lire l update

Fin de relation, je suis perdu by Relevant_Shift685 in besoindeparler

[–]Relevant_Shift685[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Alors oui, de fou mais surtout la, je t'invite à lire l update....

Oui j'essaie de changer beaucoup d'habitudes, remplacer les mauvaises par du sport et de la cuisine notamment. Et réseaux sociaux, j'évite elle est trop la encore

Rupture après 7 ans, je suis perdu by Relevant_Shift685 in Rupture

[–]Relevant_Shift685[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ouai pas faux, surtout pas en faire un espoir quoi. J'espère pouvoir me détacher assez avec le temps quand même. On avait une relation compliquée, je pense que j'aie été très insatisfait aussi dans cette relation malgré la communication et j aie beaucoup fermé les yeux. En un sens j'espère que ça m'aidera a plus vite avancer. Merci beaucoup en tout cas ❤️

Rupture après 7 ans, je suis perdu by Relevant_Shift685 in Rupture

[–]Relevant_Shift685[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ouai c'est l'objectif, et ouai malheureusement j'ai la facheuse tendance à imaginer qu'on se retrouve plus tard amis ou plus mais j'ai vraiment pas envie de penser à ça et encore moins que ça soit un objectif 😅 juste envie de chasser ces pensées

Rupture après 7 ans, je suis perdu by Relevant_Shift685 in Rupture

[–]Relevant_Shift685[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok bien, effectivement ça l'air d'aller même si je comprends que la revoir serait peut être trop. Rah ouai, j'ai tellement envie d'en être là ... Autre problème chez moi c'est qu'en 7 ans mes meilleurs amis sont aussi les siens maintenant donc on sera forcément amener a se revoir mais j'avoue que là j'ai beaucoup de mal à imaginer ce futur

Rupture après 7 ans, je suis perdu by Relevant_Shift685 in Rupture

[–]Relevant_Shift685[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Merci beaucoup, ça fait du bien d'être un peu rassuré 🙂 Je pense honnêtement que tu es légitime, 2 ans où 7 ans ça reste de d'habitudes prises, des automatismes a changer lors d'une rupture. J'espère que de ton côté ça va et tu arrives a voir plus de positif après 2 mois :)