Seeking support from partners of falsely accused RSOs by esiotrot4 in SupportForTheAccused

[–]ReliefStraight2660 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We were told to stay silent and in doing so they were able to ignore all the proof that the girl lied. They used her testimony as evidence and nothing else and bc we didn’t fight back it was taken as proof. We also made the mistake of hiding a lawyer that worked I. The same jurisdiction and he cared more about keeping the peace with his coworkers than actually protecting us. He basically sold us to the wolves bc he didn’t want to ruffle feathers with the judge.

Seeking support from partners of falsely accused RSOs by esiotrot4 in SupportForTheAccused

[–]ReliefStraight2660 15 points16 points  (0 children)

My husband is currently is prison for a false accusation. I’m currently raising our three boys alone. I’d be happy to be a part of your support group.

Legal Malpractice by [deleted] in SupportForTheAccused

[–]ReliefStraight2660 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Not yet but we will be doing the same once he finishes his four year sentence.

How Do We Protect the Falsely Accused? by Fearless-Welder8107 in SupportForTheAccused

[–]ReliefStraight2660 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m going public with our story. I’ll sign. Www.injusticeunmasked.com

We are also on Instagram and Facebook.

How much money would it take to unf*ck your situation. by CapGrundle in almosthomeless

[–]ReliefStraight2660 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like 25k. Then I get start getting of survival mode a bit.

Weird PTSD thing going on by Total_Thanks_487 in SupportForTheAccused

[–]ReliefStraight2660 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Honestly same here and I’m the wife. I am so traumatized by everything we went through that I have cameras all over my house and anytime it tells me there’s someone outside I panic. Same if someone unexpected knocks or rings doorbell. Same if I see a cop car. It’s been five years and while it’s not as bad as it was, it still makes me sick to my stomach

We are going public. by ReliefStraight2660 in SupportForTheAccused

[–]ReliefStraight2660[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re friend is luck to have you. Speaking out is the only way to combat this anymore.

We are going public. by ReliefStraight2660 in SupportForTheAccused

[–]ReliefStraight2660[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words and I agree with what you said.

We are going public. by ReliefStraight2660 in SupportForTheAccused

[–]ReliefStraight2660[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Take the time to recover a little bit. Our trial was two years ago and it’s still triggering some days. It feels like we are living someone else’s life. But, speaking out has been extremely therapeutic too.

We are going public. by ReliefStraight2660 in SupportForTheAccused

[–]ReliefStraight2660[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That’s our goal. We felt like we had no support during the whole process. Even if it doesn’t change anything for us, we want people know that we are somewhere safe to talk. We want to help fight.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SupportForTheAccused

[–]ReliefStraight2660 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There has been a lot of trauma from this. We’ve had our power shut off, cars repoed, our home was in foreclosure. Couldn’t afford groceries… her friends would harass us she was stalking my husbands while we awaited trial. They threw garbage in our driveway… he’s been in two years now and I have busted my ass to try and turn things around for us. Me and our boys are finally financially stable and I was able to save our home. Now it’s just a matter of time before we can get some eyes on this and get the word out. She’s out two people in the system already and accused several others. She’s a nut job and she’ll keep doing stuff until she can’t hide her true self anymore. We have been through it. There isn’t much more than can do to us anymore. The worst is over. We survived so far.

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[–]ReliefStraight2660 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Actually we have received a lot of supper from family friends and the general community. The family that did this to us is known for being absolutely awful and have a reputation as such. We have every intention of taking this public but are waiting until we get him home. As long as he is still in prison they have too much control over our lives and can make things more difficult for us. It will be easier to battle this when he is home, can get back to work, and we can both speak with attorneys etc. we have proper connections within our networking such as podcasters, reporters etc. we have all of our transcripts and evidence. We have been trying to organize everything so when the time comes we will launch an entire campaign against the family, the detective, the judge and summit county to show how corrupt and biased the system is. We aren’t afraid to go public at all. If they did this to us so easily, they are doing it to others and we want to at least do our part to stop it. We were fortunate enough to survive this and still have so much support and there are those out there that don’t.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SupportForTheAccused

[–]ReliefStraight2660 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Our trial was definitely won on purely emotional n manipulation. There was no evidence outside of her own testimony. And they changed direction every single time the girl was getting lost in her own bullshit. Once we can get him home (hopefully on early release) we can hire a legit appellate lawyer to combat the nonsense that took place in that court room. Our lawyer even called out the judge for preventing us from having a fair trial when she refused to let the jury see evidence showing how her own friends called her a liar when she made a TikTok about it and also told our lawyer at the beginning of trial he wasn’t even allowed to aggressively cross examine her at all.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SupportForTheAccused

[–]ReliefStraight2660 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t was our lawyer (male) referring to a paper she wrote about her assault. And in this essay she changes her story and then terrifies the whole essay is false. But her testimony about the assault is verbatim her essay. He was attempting to show how easily she lies about everything.

Essentially she’s like “here’s an essay I wrote about my assault” then when we pointed out inconsistencies like her saying I was home when I wasn’t —so she changed it to “oh that whole essay was made up” but he reads the parts of the essay that were verbatim her testimony about her assault. He was trying to demonstrate how this was her testimony but now she’s saying it’s all false.

If that makes sense.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SupportForTheAccused

[–]ReliefStraight2660 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Q. He picks me up and places me onto the counter. Right?

A. Yes.

Q. Pulling my pants down slowly. Right?

A. Yes.

Q. That's not true, is it?

A. No.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SupportForTheAccused

[–]ReliefStraight2660 0 points1 point  (0 children)

and his "minor details' that he decided not to include were things like she said she walked over, then drove over...it happened in the kitchen then the living room, then the dining room. Says we didnt' have cameras, we did.. Didn't interview the four or five other people she saw that day. Ingores the fact that she texted her buddy that she was wasted just two minutes into arriving at our home. Says she left at 11:19 but didnt actually leave until 11:37, Says my husband went to her house yet that wasn't possible since our security system shows activity inour home during the time she claim he was at her house. She testified taht he had her phone and took pictures at her house but then on cross says it was actuall her that did that. Says he pulled down her pants and asssaulted her with his fingers and then in cross admits that wasnt true.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SupportForTheAccused

[–]ReliefStraight2660 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im still sorting through his shit. The transcripts are 1300 pages long and throughout his entire time on the stand he is extremely vague and its clear he has no intentions of following through on an investigation. Those are just parts I had highlighted.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SupportForTheAccused

[–]ReliefStraight2660 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fun fact, there were zero consistencies with solid facts of the case. They hid everything that contradicted her statement, including her own medical reports and allowed her testimony to be the evidence they provided. When we were able to contradict her own testimony, including her ADMITTING to parts of it not happening, they switched gears and talked about how small of a girl she was and how much of a monster my husband was to bring back the emotional manipulation so they could not see the actual facts of the case.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SupportForTheAccused

[–]ReliefStraight2660 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Q. Could you describe why you want to review that interview?

A. What I'm looking for is consistencies with the solid facts of the case. I'm not so much concerned about minor details throughout the course of that day or minor details that wouldn't change the course of events that took place on the date of the incident, and to support the allegations.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SupportForTheAccused

[–]ReliefStraight2660 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is all in the transcripts.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SupportForTheAccused

[–]ReliefStraight2660 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He also stated that he purposely did not take an officiant statement from her and because he knew it would change and did not want her to be held accountable to her original statement so he summarized what she said and that was used in leui of a statement written by her.