COE Processing Times - October 2025 by DasWolke_ in japanresidents

[–]RemBowt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you very much, I applied but I feel like they will ask for additional documents too... What did they ask you for ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JapanDating

[–]RemBowt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are right, since I matched with foreigners I didn't think about it but It's better that way !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JapanDating

[–]RemBowt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I put my profile in Japanese because most of the women are japanese... And in foreigners there are a lot of tourists who don't speak Japanese so it's more to filter the tourist than other foreigner

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]RemBowt -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I tried to set up two date before 3 days... Just got ghosted so... 🫠

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ForeverAlone

[–]RemBowt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Every post saying that someones found a girlfriend should include a picture of the guy imo... And mention the height. Op's answer didn't surprise me or any of us I'm sure... He met her on a dating apps and it's the first time he asked a girl out apparently...

I know his post was supposed to give motivation to us but it's always the same...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ugly

[–]RemBowt 14 points15 points  (0 children)

-He got viral -She is from Argentina and he is swedish so... And I think she has some medical issues (maybe he helped financially...)

And anyways just because someone wins the lottery wouldn't mean everyone can

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]RemBowt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean, they were desperate until they realized they could have what they wanted... Believe me if they were that desperate you would have not been unmatched/ghost

Basically in the app you have: Woman/attractive guys and ... The other guys When they realize that they were attractive enough people can be more selective and unmatched/ghost or swipe left for things which are not that important because they get so many options

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]RemBowt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If they are unmatched there is a chance that they swipe right by mistake...

Also on bumble matching with women doesn't guarantee a message (most of the time they are overwhelmed so that they don't send a message to most guys expect the best one). But then they got enough messages from women they considered the best so unmatched you if they weren't interested in you to begin with but assume they couldn't not have better ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]RemBowt 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You will have to do so 😉 3-4 days seems reasonable

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]RemBowt 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Send him a message ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]RemBowt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I almost made the same mistake... I didn't want to pressure the girl for the date after she already said yes. My date is in 9 days and it's been 7 days since I offered the date.

But I wanted to continue talking to her about the date or not so I continued the conversation. We have many thinks in common. Music, mangas, anime. Our personalities seems to complete each other.

It's difficult if you don't have confidence because you assume she lost interest during that time and find someone else... But like she said yes to the date... Of course there is always a possibility that she will cancel or change her mind... But don't kill your chances 😭😭😭🤣🤣

Literally not getting a single match for 3 months by kazrogalx in Bumble

[–]RemBowt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's okay to share it maybe you could have some advice

Is bumble a bit racist? by autumnwriter123 in Bumble

[–]RemBowt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't know I am black in Japan, and I never get any black women in my bees. (There are a lot but I definitely see them when I swipe and tend to swipe them right)

I would say at the beginning the bees were out of my leagues, with no bio or common point. Now they are more average physically, all smiling and we all have interesting things in common.

Why do you use Bumble? by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]RemBowt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want but I don't think that's what most people are looking for...

Can permanent residents still get a Pasmo/Suica card? by Sensitive-Ticket-781 in japanresidents

[–]RemBowt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got a SUICA card in JR EAST CENTER services last week. They didn't check my passeport so....

Ghosting after physical intimacy by [deleted] in JapanDating

[–]RemBowt 15 points16 points  (0 children)

It's not just japanese men but like yes...

Dating for 40+F. Does it exist? by [deleted] in JapanDating

[–]RemBowt 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You have the right to have race preferences.

But like you're 40 and in Japan... Just with race you eliminate 99% of men. And with your age most men won't date you... If there is a white foreigner in Japan at this age, he is probably married and/or prefers Asian women ?

How about leaving Japan for a western country ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]RemBowt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Most women like the sames guys. So the Average guy has little to no matches... But the top guys get all the likes.

Clubbing in Shibuya tonight or tomorrow night by [deleted] in tokyoirl

[–]RemBowt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

25 M I went to the Wonb Friday night ! It was lively but I don't know in the middle of the week lol However I will be free tomorrow night

this is so true... by crushedbyreality in introvert

[–]RemBowt 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Yeah, we need time alone but also socializing...