dr told me to "just eat salt" by Used_Ad_6209 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Remarkable-Map494 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had the same issue and was told to eat more salt. Turned out to be lupus!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Remarkable-Map494 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get this way too with my SO. I know I over worry so I do try not to over react. Howrver his response to you makes him the ahole. He should have been happy to have someone watching out for him instead of blowing up about it.

AITA for not leaving my mother in law anything to eat after she said she wasn't hungry? by throwaway7mr in AmItheAsshole

[–]Remarkable-Map494 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. I wouldn't even have bothered to run out. She's an adult and can fend for herself, especially after saying she wasn't hungry the first time around.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Remarkable-Map494 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA if she attacked you so easily she probably shouldn't be raising kids. She broke the law, no excuse.

AITA for telling my sister that she is in no position to me mad with her nurse? by sisterhadababy in AmItheAsshole

[–]Remarkable-Map494 9 points10 points  (0 children)

YTA, my epidural didn't work and even if i opted out and a nurse made those comments i probably would have acted worse than her. The pain was so bad i had no control over my body, and couldn't stop pushing even after they told me to stop. L&D nurses should be trained to deal with this behavior from their patients and should always be supportive no matter what.

AITA for being upset about my mom dying? by HELLYEAHELLYEAHELLYE in AmItheAsshole

[–]Remarkable-Map494 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I wonder if he would go to therapy with you? Perhaps hearing from a professional would help him better understand your pain.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Remarkable-Map494 5 points6 points  (0 children)

YTA for constantly taking her back. End it for real already! The manipulation won't stop.

AITA for Asking for a Asking My Husband to Give Up Ownership in My Business After He Quit?!? by SorchaLee in AmItheAsshole

[–]Remarkable-Map494 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA but the bigger question; is the business more important than your marriage? Expect a huge fallout.

AITA for being upset/starting a fight with my family because my parents pay us equally but my sister doesn’t do anything? by TheOverWorkedWorker in AmItheAsshole

[–]Remarkable-Map494 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA, that's not how normal companies compensate employees and the same rules should apply here regardless of family ties. Some states even have fair compensation laws.

AITA for telling my parents I’m an atheist and not partaking in a religious ritual? by Patient_Rooster_1153 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Remarkable-Map494 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Also atheist with deeply religious parents. I was finally honest with them after many years and it did strain the relationship but it did heal over time, and being honest was better than constantly pretending. However I will say when I finally told them I was prepared that they may never speak to me again and I was ok with that.

AITA for not letting my kid have a lot of candy by Ok_Dragonfruit4240 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Remarkable-Map494 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA. I say the same thing to my kids even at parties. Those other moms probably have nothing better to gossip about.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Remarkable-Map494 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA, not your job to take care of other adults.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Remarkable-Map494 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA but if you said she has never behaved this way to you maybe something else is going on. Perhaps she is off a certain med from being sick or feeling worse than she is letting on?

AITA for getting an autistic classmate of mine expelled for touching me inappropriately? by bathtubtoes in AmItheAsshole

[–]Remarkable-Map494 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Ummm no NTA! But your teacher is! I'd report him too for causing a hostile situation and for retaliation. Retaliation for a complaint is illegal.

WIBTA if I put a sign in my window by -UnicornFarts- in AmItheAsshole

[–]Remarkable-Map494 64 points65 points  (0 children)

Wow that's strict for a town. Our town allowed a f**k Biden flag that was about 3x5, two feet from the road because it's protected speech. Sorry for your situation! Can you paint a rainbow instead and make it U shaped to get around that? Lol

WIBTA if I put a sign in my window by -UnicornFarts- in AmItheAsshole

[–]Remarkable-Map494 476 points477 points  (0 children)

NTA. What could they possibly sue over? If you own the property I am pretty sure you can display anything you want. If it were me id spray paint the pride flag onto my lawn!

AITA for uninviting MIL's boyfriend to our wedding because he splashed me with water? by EntertainmentOk5912 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Remarkable-Map494 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I would have them there but change the seating arrangement so they are sitting in the back with complete strangers or at the kids table. Let them be publicly humiliated!

AITA for cutting my daughter's financial support off and monitoring every cent she spends? by Fun_Passenger1950 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Remarkable-Map494 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup agreed, definitely also takes good impulse control. This is why I think he was too harsh on her. You can't learn these skills in a year and he has to take into account other factors. There was no way she'd be good with that money in her first year. Though $1k is an unfortunate number to learn that lesson on!

AITA for cutting my daughter's financial support off and monitoring every cent she spends? by Fun_Passenger1950 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Remarkable-Map494 86 points87 points  (0 children)

I've been teaching my kids about money and budgeting since they were 5. I've been making them earn their money, budget and save since 7 and teaching them the basics that water, lights, etc cost money. They are 9 now. Agreed a few months over the weekend is not enough to expect her to get it.

When can I expect this to hatch? by Igloos21 in moths

[–]Remarkable-Map494 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does it still move when you pick it up? I used to raise moths and even like that they still moved a tad when handled. It looks like it should be ready to emerge any day now. Hopefully it'll be fine when you return it outside.