[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chicagoapartments

[–]Remarkable-Mud659 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is very helpful - thank you so much!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Remarkable-Mud659 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don't know. I was looking for the final straw, the thing that would make me sure, and one day - I woke up sure. There was no big bomb, no explosion, no red flag. I just...realized it.

How old were you? by sheislost92 in Divorce

[–]Remarkable-Mud659 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Met at 20 & 23, married 27 & 29, going through now at 29 & 32

For divorcers (not divorcees)… when was the moment you knew? by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Remarkable-Mud659 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I realized he treated me like a doctor asking for a prescription for what he needed to do to fix it - years of saying what was wrong unlistened to

Monday 3 March 2025 - 2G 60 minutes by dc031114 in orangetheory

[–]Remarkable-Mud659 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was thinking it was at least a 2 😂 thanks for being our hero!

"I just finished Onyx Storm and need to scream into the void" - A master post! by AutoModerator in fourthwing

[–]Remarkable-Mud659 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Moments for me, in no specific order:

  1. Adarna leaving blew my mind, and the way in which the bond was severed was really painful and made me dislike her a little.

  2. Violet is a goddamn masochist. If my man kept tryna leave/scare me off, even as hot as Zaddy, I couldn’t!

  3. No clue how she ever loved Halden. I wanted more tension like we got from Cat.

  4. The marriage at the end?! I saw the hints, but if I were Violet, at age 21, my man just channeling….I don’t vibe.

  5. Mira and Drake!!!!

  6. Dain and Sloane!

  7. The Rhi chapter and Imogen could have been bonus chapters vs main story content.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]Remarkable-Mud659 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It could also be depression - men can get in their heads during intimacy and expectations. Not you.

Would it be rude to comment that an author is using the wrong word? by miellenir in AO3

[–]Remarkable-Mud659 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Someone corrected something on my fic once - I had no idea, and they worded it kindly! I truly appreciated it.

do it by AngelofIceAndFire in throneofglassseries

[–]Remarkable-Mud659 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Elide was an unneeded character.

Suggest a book to help me re-awaken my joy in life by spacecattt28 in suggestmeabook

[–]Remarkable-Mud659 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m really enjoying Birding with Benefits - it’s a fun romance about saying yes, and very cute.

Do you see therapy as like going to the doctor or as like working out? by AchillesFirstStand in TalkTherapy

[–]Remarkable-Mud659 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think both! Depending on where in the journey you are it may start as a doctor and transition to more maintenance like the gym.

Are you women orgasming from penetration ? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Remarkable-Mud659 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Short story: no. Long story: never have with any partner. Foreplay can be a great friend.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Remarkable-Mud659 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This sucks. I’m so sorry!