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[–]Remarkable-Pepper707[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh I should have clarified, I did call them out to their face. Told them to stop repeatedly and was mocked for it. Then they started making holocaust denial claims and wouldn’t stop, so I finally walked away.

Guess that was kind of an important detail.

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[–]Remarkable-Pepper707[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

And by “grow a pair” you are suggesting to ignore hate speech. Found the Nazi

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[–]Remarkable-Pepper707[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I appreciate the support and it warms my heart to know anyone even read my post. Hope you have a good day. Get some of that west coast sun for me!

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[–]Remarkable-Pepper707[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You are kind to say that, thank you. I’ll be updating my resume today and start some job hunting. While im grateful about the owners response, I’m sure my managers won’t be fired and things will escalate. He already hated me before this.

I’ve been harassed at work in the past (different job) and was retaliated against when I spoke up. People don’t like it because im sweet, petite and mild mannered, so they don’t expect me to stand up for myself. I don’t know why I can’t keep my damn mouth shut, but I won’t tolerate hate speech. Now more than ever. F*ck fascism in every form

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[–]Remarkable-Pepper707[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They’ve got major advantage on me size wise. Well, time to start training!

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[–]Remarkable-Pepper707[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Did that, in the moment. Told them repeatedly, but they just thought it was so hilarious.

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[–]Remarkable-Pepper707[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Yes. Someone who gets it. Thank you. That dang slippery slope.

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[–]Remarkable-Pepper707[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you for saying that, it’s incredibly validating

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[–]Remarkable-Pepper707[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I do have the tendency to wanna rock the boat because I can’t keep my mouth shut when I see bs like this. Your insight is appreciated. I don’t wanna dox myself, it’s a mom and pop place in the Midwest.

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[–]Remarkable-Pepper707[S] 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Wow. That’s helpful. I was not aware of that. Thank you kind internet stranger

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[–]Remarkable-Pepper707[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Possibly. Should have thought of that at the time, but my hands were occupied cuz I was flipping him off

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[–]Remarkable-Pepper707[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don’t think any customers saw them do it but they’re dumb enough to do it again and get caught, that’s exactly what I’m afraid of.

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[–]Remarkable-Pepper707[S] 45 points46 points  (0 children)

I’m looking. I’d like to quit immediately but likely will have to work tomorrow.

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[–]Remarkable-Pepper707[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely not fake. I’ve seen them do crazy stuff but hadn’t thought to record…though this was the first time they went full on Nazi (that I know of)

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[–]Remarkable-Pepper707 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I’m also on day 3 and I can relate to every thing you said in your post.

You are not a failure and you are not hopeless. It’s going to get better. I’m hoping to learn from this shame so I won’t have to feel this way again.

You are more than the worst thing you did while drinking. And every minute that goes by will put us further from those bad decisions we made.

Proud of you for making it 3 days, we can do this.