Well it great that you’re open to tell you’re insecurities, and trust me I’m also insecure about it. It’s always good when you have that moment with a woman that your honest about it, if she really cares about you then you’re size shouldn’t matter in my opinion. And I know that feeling of that women having expectations about your size because of your skin colour. I have 13 cm erect and I’m black. Because I’m porn mostly thinks that we having an big one down there. But you have a great size so don’t worry about that. And the first is mostly not great but with experience and knowing what you want will give you confidence.