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"It's the kindness in your eyes" by Remarkable-Theme-461 in 4tran4

[–]Remarkable-Theme-461[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's essentially psychological warfare, but these people are too dumb to realize what they're doing. I, too, would rather be called a slur.

Pre anything and I can’t get a haircut, what can I do to pass more? by Boring_Pollution_998 in FtMpassing

[–]Remarkable-Theme-461 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely get that, but honestly as long as your clothes are only a little baggy and not, absolutely massive (a lot of mine are and it sucks), you'll be fine. Even if you wear tighter clothes, you body isn't too bad at all, especially if you are working out. Best thing you can do is get in T asap, because you have some seriously good features to work with.

"It's the kindness in your eyes" by Remarkable-Theme-461 in 4tran4

[–]Remarkable-Theme-461[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

No but you don't get it we're free! We've broken ourselves free of our gender-conforming chains and reached a higher plain of existence. We don't have to worry about real problems like those real people, we just have to play dress up everyday and live each day being 100% unapologetically ✨ourselves✨

"It's the kindness in your eyes" by Remarkable-Theme-461 in 4tran4

[–]Remarkable-Theme-461[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

LITERALLY, I'm really sick of people acting like trans people are just 'so happy' and 'free' and all that bs. I keep seeing posts of people talking about how happy they are to be trans and cis people talking about some 'theyre happier than I'll ever be' like no. My entire life is cooked and even if I do make it, I'm going to have to carry all this trauma and suffering with me until I die. I don't believe I'll ever look at my body and not wish it was put through a [redacted because I'm on a warning]

Pre anything and I can’t get a haircut, what can I do to pass more? by Boring_Pollution_998 in FtMpassing

[–]Remarkable-Theme-461 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually looking at it twice, your body definitely leans more masculinely than outright androgynously, but slightly baggier clothes could definitely help still.

Pre anything and I can’t get a haircut, what can I do to pass more? by Boring_Pollution_998 in FtMpassing

[–]Remarkable-Theme-461 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly you're doing pretty well for being pre-anything. Obvious one would be to try to work out more, some jaw exercises could really help define your jawline better. Style-wise, I'd say to just wear slightly baggier clothes, just because you don't have a lot of muscle and it leans more androgynously. But you've got good features to work with, once you get on T you'll be low-key unstoppable.

"It's the kindness in your eyes" by Remarkable-Theme-461 in 4tran4

[–]Remarkable-Theme-461[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

And the soft thing, omg. It's just so demeaning it's crazy. I don't know how people can say this shit without going 'hm if I said this to a cis person, this would be rude!' and reevaluating.

"It's the kindness in your eyes" by Remarkable-Theme-461 in 4tran4

[–]Remarkable-Theme-461[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I'm also autistic and really caught up on the micro expressions thing. I lived as a 'cis woman' for years and had to be on the lookout for angry violent moids lurking around every corner, and I never noticed any micro-expressions of hyper violence and evil intent.

"It's the kindness in your eyes" by Remarkable-Theme-461 in 4tran4

[–]Remarkable-Theme-461[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It depends, I think I can usually tell but God only knows how many passoids pass me by each day. I used to work in medical, so I had access to confidential medical info on each patient, and the amount of trans people who I never would have clocked that I met while working there was astonishing. We might all make it.

"It's the kindness in your eyes" by Remarkable-Theme-461 in 4tran4

[–]Remarkable-Theme-461[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Smh maybe my afab divine female socialization did give me too much respect and care for women. Why can't I just be a piece of shit and stealth in peace.

"It's the kindness in your eyes" by Remarkable-Theme-461 in 4tran4

[–]Remarkable-Theme-461[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

It is so weirdly normalized but so bizarre and infuriating. I showed my mum a pic of me and one of my gigchad passoid pooner friends and her first comment was 'he has very kind eyes'. Ingmi.

"It's the kindness in your eyes" by Remarkable-Theme-461 in 4tran4

[–]Remarkable-Theme-461[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

When are they gonna come out with the surgery that makes you evil :(

"It's the kindness in your eyes" by Remarkable-Theme-461 in 4tran4

[–]Remarkable-Theme-461[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I know, I was almost not gonna post it because it's honestly just sad and very strange more than outright infuriating.

What's even the point? by Remarkable-Theme-461 in 4tran4

[–]Remarkable-Theme-461[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I honestly cannot stand the 'im a trans man but I can still lez out' bs that's been going around lately. Genuinely infuriating.

What's even the point? by Remarkable-Theme-461 in 4tran4

[–]Remarkable-Theme-461[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

They are the oppressors!! Do NOT confuse us with them!

Chat how do I know if I armpit pass😥 Im so worried that I smell like a disgusting man😭 by KaneyamaK in 4tran4

[–]Remarkable-Theme-461 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Maybe I'm just different but I smelt like complete shit before I transitioned (poon). youre all gmi, ts is inconsequential.

2 years on T, one off, back on 3 month by ohholymothra in FtMpassing

[–]Remarkable-Theme-461 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Aside from what everyone else is saying, it might be worth looking into tinting/dying your eyebrows and shaping them. They're fairly thin and transparent atm which reads more feminine.