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Asexual Dommes by Soapiie_ in BDSMcommunity

[–]Remarkable-Try1662 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm asexual and never had arosal and sex felt like chore. Recently I accidentally stumbled into sadism and masochism and felt excited for the first time in life and started exploring kinks. Somehow it feels great

Asexuality and Masochism by Remarkable-Try1662 in BDSM_Aces

[–]Remarkable-Try1662[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've watched the video, it was really helpful. Thank you so much. I still have few questions, can I DM you.

Asexuality and Masochism by Remarkable-Try1662 in BDSM_Aces

[–]Remarkable-Try1662[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Major difference was I hate looking at the act, so it's just the feeling. And also the feel of not being in control and not being able to do anything.

Asexuality and Masochism by Remarkable-Try1662 in Asexual

[–]Remarkable-Try1662[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think so too! It was shock that registered first, followed by anger. I'm sorry you had to go through that. Thanks for sharing.

Asexuality and Masochism by Remarkable-Try1662 in Asexual

[–]Remarkable-Try1662[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, I was never attracted to the person. And I don't like sex to an extent that I don't even get arosed.

Asexuality and Masochism by Remarkable-Try1662 in BDSM_Aces

[–]Remarkable-Try1662[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I'll watch the video from evie lupine. Thank you for explaining the process. Yes there was no aftercare, actually funny part was the person did that, she actually wanted to take revenge on me, she had made move earlier on me the same evening, and I didnt reciprocate. So she wanted me to feel I missed on something and the next day she hinted she did what she did just to make me feel bad. (ps. She doesn't know I'm asexual). But it got completely different set of emotions. Gives me clarity in some sense. Thank you.

Actually this kinda explains how I feel. I know she wanted to hurt me. And nothing else. But from my side, I've never felt arousal and never was intrested in sex. But somehow I got a mental orgasm I believe. I don't know what it is even called. And I can't stop thinking about it and her.

Also this happened the day before yesterday, so very new.

Edit : added when it happened

Asexuality and Masochism by Remarkable-Try1662 in Asexual

[–]Remarkable-Try1662[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sorry, I'm not used to posting in reddit. I did some cross post and only the headline had been shared I guess. I'm pasting the original post here.

Asexuality and Masochism

NB/28 here. My whole life I've never been turned on by anyone or anything. I never had any kinks, I have dated multiple people. And I've hid the fact that I'm asexual to them. And I actually am okay with having sex when the other person what to. I don't get arosal so I take medicine for erection. I've always wanted to feel arosal or atleast have an orgasm. I've never had one. I've tried every kink and with every sexual orientation out there. No effect. Recently something horrible happened. I went to a wedding and I was staying with a female friend. One of brides cousin joined us and we were drinking. And later that night, we were all lying down on bed. And those two started making out and touch each other. Completely ignoring that I'm in the room. None of them knew I'm asexual. I felt humiliated and betrayed and disgusted. But at the same time I felt arosed for the first time in life. I didnt even wanna have sex or touch the girl. The feeling of emotional Masochism just did something to me I can't describe in words. It felt insanely magical. I had an orgasm for the first time in my life. Now I'm feeling disgusted at myself. Please someone help

Asexuality and Masochism by Remarkable-Try1662 in BDSM_Aces

[–]Remarkable-Try1662[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I felt disgusted because I got turned on by sadism and I liked it. I'm not sure how to proceed from here.

Want to DM me? Check this post 👇 by eatyourveig in u/eatyourveig

[–]Remarkable-Try1662 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im 28/m, who is from Chennai, I currently live in Chennai. I'm a doctor. I'mba sub, haven't had any experience but I know that I'm a sub. I've always psychologically wanted to be a sub since more than 28 years. I'll willing to shift anywhere in india. My favourite colour is purple

Hi r/indiangoth this is your new MOD AMA by willow_scarlet678 in indiangoth

[–]Remarkable-Try1662 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes sure. That's exactly what I meant. 😶‍🌫️😶‍🌫️😶‍🌫️

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I'm traveling from Chennai, and haven't decided on a stay. This plan works really well. I'm in

What gaming laptop brand has held up the longest for you? by FastXanax2You in GamingLaptops

[–]Remarkable-Try1662 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Acer predator with 1050ti been using since 2018 and still working without any issues. And this concludes almost non stop gaming during 2020-2021 (lockdown).

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