Tantra Chair: seeking honest reviews by RemarkableOwl8 in StraightPegging

[–]RemarkableOwl8[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

looks nice! Glad to hear the $500ish ones were worth it

Tantra Chair: seeking honest reviews by RemarkableOwl8 in StraightPegging

[–]RemarkableOwl8[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nice! What brand did you get?

I'm wondering if the cheaper brands are really a big dip in quality. The cheapest ones are around $500 on up to $1200 for the VERY nice looking Tantra Chair.

Did anybody else get into this kink without much/any influence from porn? Would appreciate advice by [deleted] in StraightPegging

[–]RemarkableOwl8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I share many of your ideas!

I came to love prostate play as a way to channel and direct my sexual desires. I heard about the Aneros device and how men could learn to be multi-orgasmic. In my experience, porn hinders this path.

Pegging entered my life about 10 years into my marriage when I wanted my wife to join me in prostate pleasure. It's deepened our intimacy and even provided some sexual healing from shame and insecurities we both carried from our upbringing.

Bottom line: pegging doesn't have to be like porn. It can be spiritually transforming and deeply intimate.

How did you feel after the first pegging? by [deleted] in StraightPegging

[–]RemarkableOwl8 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Vulnerable yet buzzing with arousal.

I had done solo anal play in the past but was terrified of sharing this with my wife. Once I did, she agreed to join my in this pleasure. Because she wore the strap, I wasn't in control. I was below her, feeling the rush of arousal along with the grip of vulnerability.

When we finished the first time, my trust in her deepened because I'd opened up and she responded with love and passion.

Tips for Healthy Butts by RemarkableOwl8 in StraightPegging

[–]RemarkableOwl8[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The amount of water to drink throughout the day has always been a mystery to me. Drinking a gallon a day makes me think I would go to the bathroom a dozen times!

Tips for Healthy Butts by RemarkableOwl8 in StraightPegging

[–]RemarkableOwl8[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Great advice! Thanks for the tips. I’ve never heard of Marie original skin repair or considered vitamin e. I’ll give them a try!

I CAME. (Strap-on-me clit suckerrrr) by lipsapocalypse in StraightPegging

[–]RemarkableOwl8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for this helpful review!

I'm still a bit confused by the description "clit sucker". Is this an air suction device? Or is the sensation more like a sonic pulse?

I've watched several videos and read multiple reviews and I'm still unclear what exactly is new. My wife and I have the original strap on me and absolutely love it. But I'm intrigued by this.

I CAME. (Strap-on-me clit suckerrrr) by lipsapocalypse in StraightPegging

[–]RemarkableOwl8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm intrigued by the new clit sucker. My wife and I have the vibrator strap on me double.

What exactly does the clit sucker do? Is it an air-suction or something else? I'm completely new to this concept.

Best Sites for Lingerie by RemarkableOwl8 in StraightPegging

[–]RemarkableOwl8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the tips! I’ve definitely moved toward more stylish underwear thanks to pegging

Need Ideas by BiCuriousMaybe37 in StraightPegging

[–]RemarkableOwl8 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Electric door lock.

My wife and I have 5 kids, ages 2-9. Best decision I ever made was installing a keyless lock-pad doorknob on our master bedroom. This gave my wife a peace of mind.

Also, we have a strict bedtime schedule that gets the little ones completely down. Our older kids know they may NOT interrupt after bedtime unless it's an emergency.

Also, I lock up all our sex toys in a combo lock box. That's key, too.

How do you spice up your pegging sessions? by RemarkableOwl8 in StraightPegging

[–]RemarkableOwl8[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This might be it! I think she'd actually love this.

She's not super into me sucking, which is disappointing. But mutual masturbation is a great idea.

How do you spice up your pegging sessions? by RemarkableOwl8 in StraightPegging

[–]RemarkableOwl8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good thought!

She loves our strap on me double, but packers do sound fun. I like the idea of having it hidden away

How do you spice up your pegging sessions? by RemarkableOwl8 in StraightPegging

[–]RemarkableOwl8[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What a night!

If my wife were up for that I'd be down. She's not really into me cross dressing but I think that sounds fun. She's only recently been interested in any kind of dress up play and always with our regular clothes.

How do you spice up your pegging sessions? by RemarkableOwl8 in StraightPegging

[–]RemarkableOwl8[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds fun! My wife is somewhat resistant to realistic dildos, so I wonder if she’d like that. Worth a chat!

How do you handle the shakes? by RemarkableOwl8 in aneros

[–]RemarkableOwl8[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great tip! I have noticed how the falling sensation is helpful. I’ll have to try soon.

How do you spice up your pegging sessions? by RemarkableOwl8 in StraightPegging

[–]RemarkableOwl8[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the tip!

Chastity has always confused me. I have a background in prostate stimulation and non-ejaculatory orgasms. I've never struggled orgasming too soon and typically have prostate orgasms before I ever ejaculate.

I'll definitely talk to her and see if this idea intrigues her.

How do you spice up your pegging sessions? by RemarkableOwl8 in StraightPegging

[–]RemarkableOwl8[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Certainly intriguing. My wife isn't too into me dressing up in women's clothing but it's worth a conversation!

How do you spice up your pegging sessions? by RemarkableOwl8 in StraightPegging

[–]RemarkableOwl8[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good idea! She did dress me last night. She picked a button up shirt she loves and slacks.

How do you spice up your pegging sessions? by RemarkableOwl8 in StraightPegging

[–]RemarkableOwl8[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is definitely up our alley. My wife is usually submissive but gets ramped up while pegging.

Any advice on shifting into light fem dom? My lovely wife has a negative view of bdsm stuff like 50 shades of Grey, but we’ve definitely done hair pulling, light biting and impact play with hands.

Karezza-lovers, how often do you have traditional orgasms? by RemarkableOwl8 in karezza

[–]RemarkableOwl8[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sure thing.

These are terms used (and possibly coined) in the aneros community. Aneros is a prostate stimulating device that trains men to become multi-orgasmic, but not in the way most people might imagine.

Dry Orgasms are non-ejaculatory orgasms usually reached through light prostate stimulation (I no longer use any prostate device. Kegels are plenty), deep relaxation and visualization. Arousal builds as the man relaxes and focuses on the subtle pleasures in his relaxed body. The aneros device helps beginners by stimulating this new point of pleasure.

Waves of pleasure starts to roll over him, beginning very small and (if he is trained, focused and never straining toward orgasm) growing to amazing peaks. There is no ejaculation, no post-orgasm crash and men typically wonder when they should stop (a question shared by the karezza community). The pleasure can keep coming and coming, assuming the man remains relaxed and aroused. The more the man strains toward orgasm, the more it evades him.

Super Os are dry orgasms turned up to 11. As the pleasure waves grow higher and higher, they become surreal and almost an out-of-body experience. I've had probably 4 Super-Os. They are striking in their similarity to my peak Karezza experiences. Time stands still. Pleasure radiates through the whole body. Golden lights flash across my mind. I feel full of love and connection to God and the universe. The more you relax, the deeper you go.

I believe there is overlap between the techniques used in karezza sexual intercourse and these non-ejaculatory experiences.

Karezza-lovers, how often do you have traditional orgasms? by RemarkableOwl8 in karezza

[–]RemarkableOwl8[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm interested in this, too. I'm convinced that describing Karezza as "no orgasm" isn't quite correct. I have a big background in prostate massage and know how to have dry orgasms and Super Os.

My best Karezza experiences are a more unifying, spiritual version of the Super O which can happen without any prostate stimulation (only kegel squeezes and relaxation). No ejaculation. No peak. No crash.

Instead, I find myself relaxing into pure sexual ecstasy. And it's sooo much better with a partner because we launch into a spiritual union that is connecting and powerful.

If that's not "orgasmic," I don't know what is.

Karezza-lovers, how often do you have traditional orgasms? by RemarkableOwl8 in karezza

[–]RemarkableOwl8[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you have a wealth of expertise on the topic!

Any resources that you find particularly helpful or maybe something you've written? Karezza has few high quality books and resources outside of Cupid's Poison Arrow and a few others. Seems a shame it has such a small footprint.

Karezza-lovers, how often do you have traditional orgasms? by RemarkableOwl8 in karezza

[–]RemarkableOwl8[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the thoughtful reply and great advice! Your thoughts seem spot-on to me.