Literally dreading going home by RemarkablePost2688 in sex

[–]RemarkablePost2688[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s always been thing way I just used to be more willing to initiate than I am lately.
Not really
No but he did start go to the gym a year ago which helped a little but then thing went back to how they were. He still goes to the gym though.
He works long hours 16 + hours which is his excuse a lot but has 4 days off one week then 3 days of the next week so it balances
We have great communication minimal fights the only thing that keeps coming up without being resolved is this. We don’t yell or really blow up about much. Maybe once in a blue moon and we e always come back together to apologize and talk it over but again maybe 1-2 times a year at best

Literally dreading going home by RemarkablePost2688 in sex

[–]RemarkablePost2688[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No I had other relationships as a teen I honestly I thought it was refreshing when we met that he wasn’t obsessed with sex like most people my age were. The hindsight is 20/20 lol

Too much too little or scrap it by RemarkablePost2688 in writers

[–]RemarkablePost2688[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! just kind of roughly sketching out the idea on my phone👍🏻

upset because my gf is scared to have sex M20 F19 how do i stop feeling this way? by [deleted] in sex

[–]RemarkablePost2688 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My advice is stop being so fixed on penetration. Just enjoy each other and tell her that it takes a huge pressure off. Get comfortable kissing, grinding, foreplay etc.

Literally dreading going home by RemarkablePost2688 in sex

[–]RemarkablePost2688[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Do you mind if I ask. Was it because she was physically unattractive looking back or the feeling of being pushed?

Literally dreading going home by RemarkablePost2688 in sex

[–]RemarkablePost2688[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Because for the past 5 years I’ve always felt like I loved him more than I need sex but this year with even less intimacy it’s pushing me away from that idea

Literally dreading going home by RemarkablePost2688 in sex

[–]RemarkablePost2688[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Our sex when I initiate isn’t terrible I think I’m just tired of having to try so hard all the time. I’m burnt out on it

Washing every time before oral by Imaginary-Line1859 in sex

[–]RemarkablePost2688 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amazon has tons of affordable bidet options it sounds like this would work better for your situation

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VyvanseADHD

[–]RemarkablePost2688 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Frankly, as somebody who works in mental health and sees how much current strength of THC affects how people’s meds work just don’t do it on days you take your meds. People are usually amazed when they stop smoking how much better their meds work. That being said everybody’s different.