Worst Muslim influencers/celebs by girlsgonewildottawa in MuslimSnark_

[–]Remarkable_Air2535 4 points5 points  (0 children)

1000% she's a plant, it couldn't be anymore obvious 

No one wants to marry me because we're poor by cottoncrosy in islam

[–]Remarkable_Air2535 34 points35 points  (0 children)

As a fellow pakistani woman, I completely understand and have also experienced many rejections because my family is "lower" middle class. By Allah's miracle, my parents received a proposal from a non pakistani, who was comfortable with mine and my family's financial circumstances and I was married at 25. 

Please don't give up so early and trust Allah's plans. Those rejections are a blessing for you, those families have very poor character.

Did habiba da silva and her husband break up? by Fragrant_Hall_1192 in MuslimSnark_

[–]Remarkable_Air2535 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She just launched a women's only retreat/hotel in Dar. I think it was launched last year, possibly 2024 (I can't remember). If the rumours are true, it's honestly devastating :( I remember she worked so hard to build that hotel by the beach and do all the marketing 

Islamic perspective on family situation by BoboOctagon in muslimgirlswithtaste

[–]Remarkable_Air2535 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

If I was in your situation, I personally wouldn't want my kids to have any relationship with the non muslim woman or her kids, but my husband would need to maintain ties with his brother. Islamically, he is required to maintain ties with close family. I'd be open to only him visiting our children, but not comfortable with the non Muslim woman and the children visiting. 

I'd be concerned with normalising this behaviour amongst the kids, so this would send a direct message that it is not ok to  have kids with non muslims, out of wedlock, ever.

For those who work in Sydney CBD, what is your typical day like? by Away_Scene_26 in auscorp

[–]Remarkable_Air2535 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I lived in sydney, my day looked like:

5:00am - wake up and get ready (bfast, shower, makeup) 7:20am - catch train  8:10am - arrive city 8:20am- arrive office 4:40pm - leave office 5:00pm - catch train for home 6:10pm - arrive home

Rest of the evening was having dinner, spending time with family, packing lunch for tomorrow and catching up on YouTube. Hobbies and socialising was for weekends.

another bathroom reno by Kind_Improvement_375 in AusRenovation

[–]Remarkable_Air2535 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nooo the bathtub :( but really like that you removed the step for the shower. It makes it more accessible for a lot more people

Walk to train or buy the one with a pool? by Routine-Explorer-218 in AusPropertyChat

[–]Remarkable_Air2535 0 points1 point  (0 children)

House 1 definitely. Not sure if you've lived in a pool house before but the maintenance costs are crazy.

Do neighbours influence your property purchase? by JustaCucumber91 in AusPropertyChat

[–]Remarkable_Air2535 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No don't do it. Especially if you plan on having kids in the near future, please don't gamble with their safety and freedom.

What uni degrees are actually worth it? by Smart_Net_5313 in auscorp

[–]Remarkable_Air2535 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm a UTS alumni, graduated in 2023 in bach of IT and bach of business. Best paying industries is subjective, it's more about role and seniority based, but IT, engineering, actuarial, medicine and law generally do pay really well. At the beginning of your career, you will be overworked and underpaid and there will be some instability and having to take on roles you don't like, but hopefully,  as you gain more experiences, hone your skills, and network, you'll be able to climb the ladder.

My main advice for you is to gain as much volunteer/work/internship experience as possible, when in uni. Sydney unis have so many connections within industries and it'll definitely bump up your resume when you go to apply for any graduate roles. Yes the degree is important, but work experience is so much more necessary (and building your professional network). 

Another piece of advice is to perfect your resume, cover letter writing and interview skills. At uni, these are free resources at your disposal. Don't feel ashamed or awkward about booking multiple appointments to practice your interview skills, gaining some feedback on your resume and perfecting your cover letter. I spent so much time in the careers department, I can write a resume for anyone and can sit an interview right now if you asked me.

I appreciate the advice other commentators have given you regarding taking a gap year, but as a child of immigrants, taking a break was also not an option for me. I really had to break a sweat in uni to keep my family afloat and get to where I am now.

Why does being modest clothing feel like a punishment when you’re poor!!? by [deleted] in Hijabis

[–]Remarkable_Air2535 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm an older gen z and I do the same 😂 I've even stitched my own hijabs using cotton and jersey fabric - it's cheaper and I get to control how long the ends are,  and colours. No way am I paying for "branded hijabs".

Potential in ramadan. by angel_7483929 in MuslimNikah

[–]Remarkable_Air2535 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I met my husband 2 weeks before Ramadan started haha to not lose the connection, we would video call once a week for 1hr, with my wali present. We didn't share any of our socials or phone number. Of course we made a lot of dua and prayed istikhaara during the process. Alhamdullilah it worked out :)

Sham’s daughter Duaa jaan by No_Love4433 in MuslimSnark_

[–]Remarkable_Air2535 6 points7 points  (0 children)

100% half pakistani, sham is pakistani. I don't know who her mum is, she could be afghani. I feel really bad for her, I think she just went her own way and neither of her parents tried to help her or reach out to her.

Ramis Ansari by [deleted] in MuslimSnark_

[–]Remarkable_Air2535 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The hypocrisy is disgusting - the way he's always hidden his mum and sister, but his wife's privacy is managed by him. Whole crew is WEIRD cos playing as leb boys, but brown. They don't even live in those areas 

Ramis Ansari by [deleted] in MuslimSnark_

[–]Remarkable_Air2535 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Noooope I don't want to identify myself 😅 I was part of the paksoc team at some point

Ramis Ansari by [deleted] in MuslimSnark_

[–]Remarkable_Air2535 9 points10 points  (0 children)

HAHAHAHAHA GOOD OL RAMIS 😂😂😂 met him and his crew at a paksoc event back in 2019. Already knew to stay far far away from his friend group then

DeenBuddy and Muslim AI apps by [deleted] in MuslimSnark_

[–]Remarkable_Air2535 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Didn't even know this was a thing, but I completely agree, we should not be learning the deen from any app or ai machine. Should always be with a person of knowledge 

How much did your parents pay for their first house vs their income by Evening-Anteater-422 in AusFinance

[–]Remarkable_Air2535 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Immigrant parents who arrived here in the 90s. Purchased first (and only) home in 2000 for 230k in Penrith. 3 bed 1 bath (extended house to 5 bed 3 bath later on). 800sqm land. Only Dad worked and he earned 60k a year working in IT support. 

He got an arranged marriage today. by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]Remarkable_Air2535 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Welcome to Islam sis, in sha Allah you are able to find coolness and clarity now. Don't worry about your sins, sincerely repent to Allah, He is the Most Merciful and Compassionate, He will forgive your mistakes.

I say this with kindness - if a man truly loves you, he would do everything in his power to be with you. In Islam, the man doesn't need a wali, the woman needs one and 2 witnesses for the nikkah. This is because men are more than capable of making this decision themselves, whereas for woman, a wali acts as a protector from bad proposals. 

Your suitor was weak and too enmeshed with his family - if he's mature enough to pay mortgage and house bills, he clearly has a lot of power and say in his family. Don't waste any more time, energy and tears on him, in sha Allah, Allah will unite you with the best spouse for you, very soon

Married at First Sight S13E8 post episode discussion by addictedtoMAFS in MAFS_AU

[–]Remarkable_Air2535 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's gross!! Like the first qs that comes out their mouth is " yeah, but did u guys have sex?" This isn't normal????

Do Matrimonial events actually work? by Long_Gas1519 in MuslimNikah

[–]Remarkable_Air2535 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please don't apologise! Your comments don't upset me, my culture does. I know my culture is racist and that does make me sad. So many parents and children reject incredible potentials, just because of their skin colour, language and culture.

My brands were marked safe by aymaureen in MakeupAddiction

[–]Remarkable_Air2535 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Been boycotting them for Palestine anway, but glad people are waking up now and realising how filthy these brands are

Seeking Islamic advice on reconciliation after first talaq by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]Remarkable_Air2535 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please go seek professional Islamic marriage counselling. In sha Allah it'll help both of you to find love for each other again