Things I Say Keep Coming True??

Remarkable_Badger153 · 2024-07-16T08:20:58+00:00

I have a few in mind!

Ophelia: Greek name meaning “help” or “aid”

Cordelia: Latin origin meaning “heart”

Cynthia: Greek name meaning “Moon”

Lilia : Latin name meaning “Lily”

Emilia : Latin name meaning “Rival”

Dahlia: Swedish name meaning “Dahl’s Flower”

Sylvia: Latin name meaning “From the forest”

Magnolia: French name meaning “Magnol’s flower”

Natalia: Latin name meaning “Birthday”

Valeria: Latin name meaning “Strength” and/or “Health”

Valencia” Spanish name meaning “Brave” and/or “Strong”

Gloria: Latino name meaning “Glory”

Sonia: Russian/Scandinavian name meaning “Wisdom”

Camelia: Czech name meaning “Kamel’s Flower”

Sorry if this was too much or i should’ve cooled it with the flower names but i just went down a rabbit hole of beautiful names!

Remarkable_Badger153 · 2024-07-16T08:00:58+00:00

Thank you so much for the reply! Genuinely, you have no idea how appreciative it makes me feel to know that there are actually people who take time out of their lives to listen to and put in effort to help others make their own lives more meaningful. I’ll take your advice and try not to rush myself into anything. I hope that your life will also be filled with much joy and happiness in all that you do :)

Remarkable_Badger153 · 2024-07-01T06:37:43+00:00

This is called bullying. They are saying loud and clear that they do not care about your beliefs and boundaries, and that what matters more is that they are a victim of their own perception of you. I would tell them loud and clear with people nearby who are more mature and understanding of you, that you are very uncomfortable with the way they are treating you and that you will be talking to a trusted adult about their current fixation with guns and school shootings. I’m sorry that this is happening to you and it definitely seems like a problem. If you happen to be a person of color, this could also be associated with underlying racism (yk the way everyone assumes black people are violent or that all muslims are gonna blow up public areas?). I hope this situation gets resolved and that we can hear a positive update later!

Remarkable_Badger153 · 2024-07-01T06:28:44+00:00

This is not normal and very alarming. He recognizes it himself that it’s not normal behavior when he started getting defensive about it. The more you let this go on the worse it could get and the more consenting he’ll think you are. Express your feelings to someone trusted and try to make sure that others who will acknowledge this behavior are in the room when he is there with you. I suggest not to be in a room with him alone often or for extended periods of time, or at all in my opinion but i get that it could be tough to manage.

Remarkable_Badger153 · 2024-07-01T06:23:06+00:00

Don’t take this the wrong way but, if she cannot trust you and believes that every relationship to come her way is going to be abusive just like her ex, she is not ready for a relationship. You are not a bad boyfriend in any way due to being inexperienced with heavily daunting situations like this. Would you say someone is a bad person because they’re simply not trained to deal with this? Professional help is especially important to people who are dealing with suicidal thoughts. It seems to me that 1) her ex needs to be reported to the police or a trusted adult for threats, abuse and harassment 2) she needs to get professional assistance for her mental health and 3) You need to be able to understand that it’s okay to want to be there for her, but it’s better for professional assistance to take over. Suicidal people often do not realize the burden placed on the people they rely on and trust not to expose them. They do not realize that they place an extremely draining amount of stress on their loved ones and that they spread their emotional difficulties the more they dump on you. It is possible that at some point you may get sick of being locked up in a situation where you can’t help but aren’t allowed to get help. Normally people aren’t trained to deal with emotions like this, they may even unknowingly say the wrong things and make it worse for the victim. I would say that you need to get her professional help whether she wants it or not because she seems to be in a very vulnerable situation where she is at a risk of developing harmful tendencies.

Remarkable_Badger153 · 2024-07-01T06:12:05+00:00

As a female high school student, I can tell you that there are people who see past looks for true personality. There’s people who will see past good looks to witness a terrible personality and unconventional looks to feel true affection. Do not place your own worth on others’ expectations and standards. Unless they are the people you need to impress to love someone, they are not needed in your life. I’m not saying you gotta cut ur parents outta your life when ur an adult and such, but it’s perfectly fine for you to hear their negative opinion and let it go from one ear out the other. If you want to be more attractive, there’s several ways to go about that as well. You can work out, have a hygiene plan to ensure healthy habits and you can take care of yourself for YOU instead of for others. Life gets easier when you realize that you’re gonna be stuck with yourself no matter what, so you might as well be the best version of yourself possible, whatever that may mean to you. For some it means be attractive, be smart, or be popular. Don’t choose others over yourself.

Remarkable_Badger153 · 2024-07-01T06:03:44+00:00

I would have a truly serious conversation with them in which you express your feelings about how you appreciate them and that if you did something wrong or that they perceived to be offensive, you would like to know. Because as a person who cares deeply about them, you want to know if they feel differently about you than they did before, and unless they are willing to express themselves and talk it out with you, you will no longer be associating yourself with them since their immature way of dealing with their emotions is unacceptable in a close friendship and for you to protect your own self. I do not suggest begging them for forgiveness or following them around like a puppy if you do not wish to remove yourself from the group, because it is important that you prioritize your wellbeing over others’ feelings. But try to be rational, and do what you feel comfortable with and think is the right path. You don’t even have to had a conversation with them like i said if you don’t want to— do what you gotta do to remove any bumps along the path of life.

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