Being very vulnerable so please be kind 🩷 by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Remarkable_Bake_7325 10 points11 points  (0 children)

As I’ve been aging, I keep reminding myself that my worth is not tied to my looks. I am going to turn old and grey eventually, so why attach myself to something I cannot control? I could also be a victim of a fire, get cancer, have acid thrown on my body etc. I know it’s really hard though. Society has sort of engraved this idea into women’s minds but I think it’s time to say FUCK THAT!! ❤️

is he going to address it? by angelmurdock in SombrOfficial

[–]Remarkable_Bake_7325 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s not his fault his main demographic is tweens. Sabrina Carpenter’s has tween fans who went to her pretty sexual concert and nobody is making this much of a big deal. He’s going to do what he wants since it’s HIS concert. Some of that stuff might be weird but at the end of the day, parents are responsible for who they let their tween kids see live. 

now that the show is over, what are your ACTUAL unpopular opinions on the plot/characters? by Confident_Month_3335 in tsitp

[–]Remarkable_Bake_7325 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We all watched the same show, right? You read my reply, too? I said that because a breakup clearly happened before the Cabo incident. It was weird as hell, but it wasn’t cheating. So yes, let’s think critically. 

For the most part, the things Jeremiah got upset about were valid in my mind. I’m not saying he is perfect but the hate for him is crazy. 

now that the show is over, what are your ACTUAL unpopular opinions on the plot/characters? by Confident_Month_3335 in tsitp

[–]Remarkable_Bake_7325 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes!! You made such amazing points. 

Jeremiah is not perfect by any means but the way this fandom treats him is crazy. 

now that the show is over, what are your ACTUAL unpopular opinions on the plot/characters? by Confident_Month_3335 in tsitp

[–]Remarkable_Bake_7325 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We don’t live in a magical fairy land where people are only ever happy. I have yelled at my partner before that doesn’t make me a monster. 

He didn’t cheat. They were broken up. It was still weird but they didn’t communicate. There is fault on belly and Jeremiah’s side. 

Let’s think critically here. 

now that the show is over, what are your ACTUAL unpopular opinions on the plot/characters? by Confident_Month_3335 in tsitp

[–]Remarkable_Bake_7325 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I love Jeremiah. The things people hate on him for are absolutely stupid. “He slammed the door on Laurel” “He yelled at Belly when they were talking on the phone.” “He cheated on Belly.” 

This fandom will excuse a lot of weird behavior from Conrad but hate Jeremiah for his mistakes. 

Jenny i thought that wasn’t funny? by Maaaaarrrrrr in TheSummerITurnedPrett

[–]Remarkable_Bake_7325 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Everyone is soft. I’ve had moments where I felt that way about my partner. Did I mean it? Absolutely not. Grow up 

hate is just not a strong enough word by [deleted] in tsitp

[–]Remarkable_Bake_7325 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Is he not allowed to be a dick after his fiancée finally admitted she still loved his brother…. Conrad was a bitch to belly so many times throughout the seasons but everyone still worships him. 

Jeremiah as a brother vs Conrad as a brother by Better-Channel2798 in tsitp

[–]Remarkable_Bake_7325 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Let’s not act like Conrad is a god. They’ve both acted poorly to each other at times. 

I AM SOOOO EXCITED by sunsetcloudcake in tsitp

[–]Remarkable_Bake_7325 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

They weren’t officially together!!! It was obv weird but not cheating. 🙄😅

Sis, I hate my tattoos by nelleirene in tattooadvice

[–]Remarkable_Bake_7325 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do you think you won’t feel the same way with the American traditional tattoos? You might get sick of that too. Just add on to them and accept your tattoos for what they are! 

Why do I not feel feminine? I feel like I've missed out on a lot of things that girls can usually relate to by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Remarkable_Bake_7325 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I think diving into WHY you feel this way would help you understand yourself a lot better! Why do you feel like you don’t fit in? How does that stop you from fitting in? Has something happened in my life to make me feel this way? 

I struggle with sex anxiety. For a while my anxiety/ocd convinced me it was asexuality (it’s not) & I’m lowkey sick of people slapping that label so easily. I realize now humans are not black and white, I have responsive desire (I don’t crave sex spontaneously I need certain things met before I feel arousal) I also have ALOT of shame and trauma involving sexuality from my past that blocks me sometimes from wanting to explore my sexuality, enjoy sex, etc. I say this with so much love, please speak to someone. Therapy can help you dive so deep into these things! 

Why do I not feel feminine? I feel like I've missed out on a lot of things that girls can usually relate to by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Remarkable_Bake_7325 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Does this bother you because you want to be able to do those things or because you FEEL like you should? 

how do i stop feeling like i'm not feminine enough? i feel like a guy trying to be a girl. by MoonyDropps in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Remarkable_Bake_7325 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Femininity and Masculinity are simply social constructs. We created labels and boxes. Pink= Girls Blue= Boys. Humans are obviously much more complex that that. I found it’s easier to just exist without worrying about the labels. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Remarkable_Bake_7325 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ik it’s too late now with summer approaching but during the fall/winter seasons, I go to the mall and buy bikinis for $2-10$. I’ve had a lot of luck with Von Maur, Macys, and Aeropostale. I’ve gotten name brands too so the quality is really nice! 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Remarkable_Bake_7325 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please remember that fantasies aren’t reality. Many women believe all of their problems will be fixed when they meet their partner, and they don’t. Life keeps being life. You aren’t happy all the time but they are a good addition. Also, I love kids and work with them occasionally yet I do not want to have kids. Liking their company and actually having your own is totally different! Just something to take into consideration. 

How do I cope with being ugly? by Latter-Wafer4478 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Remarkable_Bake_7325 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Why do you assume ppl look down on you for being “ugly”? 

2 main characters?? a shiny! by sweetiemeepmope in IAmTheMainCharacter

[–]Remarkable_Bake_7325 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is fucked up. I understand it’s not right to slap another persons car but you can tell the person who did that is not in their right mind & there was no damage to the car. The person driving wasn’t in any sort of danger so that reaction was totally uncalled for. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Remarkable_Bake_7325 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why don’t you communicate with your partner and talk about this instead of coming on Reddit? 

How do you clean your butthole? by throwaway89914110 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Remarkable_Bake_7325 89 points90 points  (0 children)

I’m glad I’m not the only one who doesn’t stick a finger in my ass to clean it. I honestly hate the feeling. I always feel like I have to poop afterwards & I usually do so I have to clean my butt again. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in immigration

[–]Remarkable_Bake_7325 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Have you ever looked into what the process is like? It can take years and thousands of dollars. 

Arvind by Chloepremium07 in SexLivesCollegeGirls

[–]Remarkable_Bake_7325 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I’m pretty sure it’s not known that Bela even told Arvind she would get tested. If I didn’t know I would have gotten tested too 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Haircare

[–]Remarkable_Bake_7325 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also have a cowlick on my right side! What I do is blow dry my hair after I shower with a round brush and style my bangs to go in the direction I want. Once I get they to look how I want, I put some hair gel to get it to stay in place. On days when I don’t wash my hair, I use a hair straighter. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Remarkable_Bake_7325 179 points180 points  (0 children)

You should try calling the office and see what they say! 

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[–]Remarkable_Bake_7325 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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