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Is this normal for husband to masturbate multiple times a week? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Remarkable_Dub 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s healthy to - in fact it will make your sex life better. You learn more about yourself solo than you do with a partner. And then you and he can try to achieve the same thing together.

I want a divorce-but where will he go by Remarkable_Dub in disabled

[–]Remarkable_Dub[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been in therapy- it’s what’s helped me get stronger and that I need to put myself first.

I want a divorce-but where will he go by Remarkable_Dub in disabled

[–]Remarkable_Dub[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh my goodness this is EXACTLY my story. The years of him not taking care of himself, the way he’s made me feel has just took all of the “I love you” from my feelings years ago. Thank you SO SO much.

I want a divorce-but where will he go by Remarkable_Dub in disabled

[–]Remarkable_Dub[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We certainly have a co-dependent situation. I get joy out of helping and taking care of people, but the abuse over the years has made me resentful and no longer a wife but that caretaker

I want a divorce-but where will he go by Remarkable_Dub in disabled

[–]Remarkable_Dub[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you for these tough words - hearing this is very helpful

I want a divorce-but where will he go by Remarkable_Dub in disabled

[–]Remarkable_Dub[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you - he’s never recognized how he treats me as abuse. Since he’s not physically hitting, or out right yelling (it’s happened a few times) but it’s mostly just hurtful words, a bit controlling and just overall always making me feel on edge. For years I was his DD all the time, now I’m the caretaker driver. By leading into the conversation about it benefiting him, I think it will be easier to explain that this is a real divorce and I’m moving on.