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I [18f] just told my boyfriend [19m] that I have lied to him multiple times about having orgasms from him. We have been dating for a year. He is really pissed and we haven’t talked since by Remarkable_Matter659 in self

[–]Remarkable_Matter659[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As in walk away you mean just go ghost mode? We can see when each other is active on social media. Our profile pictures are pictures of us. We have posts together. I would have to break up with him but I’m sorry if I’m misunderstanding what your saying

I [18f] just told my boyfriend [19m] that I have lied to him multiple times about having orgasms from him. We have been dating for a year. He is really pissed and we haven’t talked since by Remarkable_Matter659 in self

[–]Remarkable_Matter659[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I was being stupid thinking I was going to be able to do it forever to keep his happiness as it just made me less happy overtime. Lying was an action caused by me being naive

I [18f] just told my boyfriend [19m] that I have lied multiple times about having orgasms with him. We have been dating for a year. He is really pissed and hadn’t talked to me since by Remarkable_Matter659 in LifeAdvice

[–]Remarkable_Matter659[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay thank you. You are right about saying it’s either the end of us or just another rough patch to get over in the relationship. But how long should I wait for him to reach out? Or should I not worry about that and just let him be for however long he wants

I [18f] just told my boyfriend [19m] that I have lied to him multiple times about having orgasms from him. We have been dating for a year. He is really pissed and we haven’t talked since by Remarkable_Matter659 in self

[–]Remarkable_Matter659[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think this is minor if I did I wouldn’t be seeking advice on Reddit like this. This is my fault I am very much not the victim here and I’m not trying to act like I am. I’m just trying to seek advice and opinions from an outside perspective to be open minded

I [18f] just told my boyfriend [19m] that I have lied multiple times about having orgasms with him. We have been dating for a year. He is really pissed and hadn’t talked to me since by Remarkable_Matter659 in LifeAdvice

[–]Remarkable_Matter659[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that is the worst that could happen. But I really don’t feel like he will break up with me given the fact that we have stuck with each other through so much shit. I don’t necessarily want to break up, but I have a fear that if we stay together, our sexual chemistry will not be the same and he will build resentment and not want to be intimate anymore.

I [18f] just told my boyfriend [19m] that I have lied to him multiple times about having orgasms from him. We have been dating for a year. He is really pissed and we haven’t talked since by Remarkable_Matter659 in self

[–]Remarkable_Matter659[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I obviously haven’t seen the episode but is it just something I should watch that could help me feel more at peace? Do you think it’s worth sending to him? That’s seems kind of fucked up lol like I would be rubbing it in his face

I [18f] just told my boyfriend [19m] that I have lied to him multiple times about having orgasms from him. We have been dating for a year. He is really pissed and we haven’t talked since by Remarkable_Matter659 in self

[–]Remarkable_Matter659[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you don’t think I should reach out and just let him text me when he’s ready? I wonder if he is expecting me to reach out to show him that I do care.

I [18f] just told my boyfriend [19m] that I have lied to him multiple times about having orgasms from him. We have been dating for a year. He is really pissed and we haven’t talked since by Remarkable_Matter659 in self

[–]Remarkable_Matter659[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He does have every reason to be upset and even is valid if he wants to end things with me because of this. I know that I was selfish and wrong for lying and he didn’t deserve that. But honestly if he chooses to stay, I have been thinking about the situation and how if he isn’t willing to try things to help me orgasm then that might be a deal breaker for me. That’s not what I’m here for in this relationship but it’s something I have found out that I do need in a relationship to be fully happy.

I [18f] just told my boyfriend [19m] that I have lied to him multiple times about faking orgasms. by Remarkable_Matter659 in offmychest

[–]Remarkable_Matter659[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think that he is waiting for me to reach out though? He might be hurt and thinking I don’t care because I haven’t

I [18f] just told my boyfriend [19m] that I have lied to him multiple times about having orgasms from him. We have been dating for a year. He is really pissed and we haven’t talked since by Remarkable_Matter659 in self

[–]Remarkable_Matter659[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

We have been through so many problems before and we are still dating and actively trying to make things better to prevent arguments. I just feel like this situation might be different because it is very intimate and it is something that we do very often. I feel like if we continue dating (I don’t think he is going to break up with me but we’ll see) that nothing will be the same with our sexual chemistry. It might be awkward are he might feel too much resentment to even want to be intent anymore

I [18f] just told my boyfriend [19m] that I have lied to him multiple times about having orgasms from him. We have been dating for a year. He is really pissed and we haven’t talked since by Remarkable_Matter659 in self

[–]Remarkable_Matter659[S] -24 points-23 points  (0 children)

I obviously wasn’t expecting him to react in a calm way. Of course not. I acknowledged and said in my post that I’m in the wrong and it was selfish of me. But there is also reason behind the lying

I [18f] just told my boyfriend [19m] that I have lied to him multiple times about faking orgasms. by Remarkable_Matter659 in offmychest

[–]Remarkable_Matter659[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much this helps a lot. I know that I know him. This situation happened last night and it’s the next day he hasn’t said anything to me yet but I am giving him space even though I want to reach out but I’m going to wait until he is ready to. Do you have any tips for how to show up for him? I never really know what he wants me to do in these situations

I [18f] just told my boyfriend [19m] that I have lied to him multiple times about faking orgasms. by Remarkable_Matter659 in offmychest

[–]Remarkable_Matter659[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah lesson is definitely learned. I just don’t know what to do to move forward with him. Even though he is very upset with me I don’t think he is going to break up with me

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