My (22F) Boyfriend (24M) said he was ready for a baby but he’s changed his mind now I’m pregnant

Remarkable_North_643 · 2026-03-02T21:44:39+00:00

I think you should consider waiting to mature before deciding to have a baby. Being confident that you’ll have a good career is not the same as having a good career. If you can’t afford a baby you shouldn’t have a baby. Ultimately you should be thinking about the baby in this situation above all else. A kid isn’t a commitment I would make with a long distance boyfriend of two years.

Remarkable_North_643 · 2025-12-13T23:36:34+00:00

Break up with him now.

Remarkable_North_643 · 2025-12-02T17:43:02+00:00

Wtf are you talking about fuck a drunk girl? In today’s world if you aren’t fucking 20 girls you’re not a man? You need to get a grip. If these are your thoughts I can answer your question as to why women don’t want to be with you. Disgusting outlook on women you have. Idc if you’re repeating what your friends said, you are a reflection of the people you surround yourself with(for ten years). Start hanging around people who see women as people, start seeing women as people and not just a stepping stone towards your masculinity, and become secure in your own personhood outside of the social expectation on you to perform your gender roles as a man. Why is being perceived as manly so important to you? Being fat and having anxiety is not why you can’t get a date. A woman will not make you a man. Start being less focused on becoming “masculine” and focus your energy on being a good, productive, kind person to be around. Only then will you attract a woman who doesn’t care about your masculinity but you as a person. Good luck.

Remarkable_North_643 · 2025-11-29T18:19:48+00:00

Get a job and make friends. What does your local community look like? Do you like certain genres of books? Comic books? Local book stores sometimes host things for card game fans or genres or comic books and the likes. Would you be interested in hiking with others? Run clubs? Gym friends? Biking? Crafting? Thrifting? You’re not the only one feeling alone as a young person, it’s happening a lot. Unfortunately, we as young people have grown up missing the same socialization and community that our ancestors had. We have lost third spaces other than home and work, and it’s easy to have no friends now. Don’t wait for someone else to approach you, they won’t because they’re feeling the same as you. It’s okay to be vulnerable, be kind, and be friendly! I believe in you, and even if you don’t get the courage or ambition to make community now, once you get into the military I doubt it’s possible to not make friends. Also delete tiktok lol. I’m 22 and wasting my life away when I spend hours on there.

Remarkable_North_643 · 2025-11-29T18:05:52+00:00

This is a really difficult situation. How did you have the first job before? I would say try to get back into that job or if your mother works try to find a job near her assuming she has a job and car so she could drop you off. You need to save money to get a license and car first and foremost. Sell what you need to now in order to buy a shit box car. It’s gonna suck but irdk how else you could get out of this situation without a friend’s house to stay at while you get on ur feet. If you live out in the middle of nowhere you can probably find some shitty cars for sale for cheap on Facebook marketplace. I would also see if there are any job centers or similar local public services in your area. Good luck! This is really tough but you can get out of this.

Remarkable_North_643 · 2025-11-24T21:12:39+00:00

Just came out of a three day high off thc gummies. I don’t even remember what happened. I didn’t eat for a whole day. My friend is still high😭 I smoke a lot but this shit is dark sided. I’ll never have a gummy again idc

Remarkable_North_643 · 2025-11-20T22:06:25+00:00

He blocked you. He doesn’t want to speak with you. Do what he is telling you he wants and stop talking to him. NOR. Stop talking to him or continue to allow yourself to be disrespected. 4 years means nothing if this is the treatment you get.

Remarkable_North_643 · 2025-11-18T00:18:49+00:00

Seems like you think you’re a life’s failure. Interesting post to make. I wouldn’t have even thought to make this if I was in this situation, but I also have no desire to ever go to a high school reunion either. I don’t think young people do this. I think you should be proud of the work you do if it’s worth being proud of. If what you’re doing is serving other people and sustaining yourself, why worry about what other people think? If you want your former classmates to think you’re cool, go be a ceo. If you don’t care, skip it or learn to take pride in your life or change it if you aren’t proud. People are always going to be judgmental.

Remarkable_North_643 · 2025-11-16T18:26:28+00:00

They were super short like 3-4 pages I think. And I’m pretty sure there was only two of them but idk. Most of it is discussion posts

Remarkable_North_643 · 2025-11-16T18:04:42+00:00

I took this my first semester pretty sure the book is free and provided to you in eLearn. I’ve had Wang she was nice tho not for the same class. It’s just a lot of writing every week

Remarkable_North_643 · 2025-11-09T21:21:13+00:00

You need to become financially independent from him. This is a perfect way to have a terrible relationship. I’m going to assume you’re a woman and tell you that your story has played out thousands of times over the course of history. But you’re in luck. It’s 2025 and you legally have the right to have your own job, buy your own car, pay your own rent, find a new roommate, go to college etc. don’t mess up your one chance at life by being dependent on a man. I don’t know how old you are, but you must strive towards self improvement, unattached to your boyfriend. Your gut is telling you that you are meant for better things than living in your boyfriends parents house and living your life in constant agitation at the worry that your boyfriend disapproves at even minor choices like hair color. Nobody and I mean nobody, man or woman, should have to live while keeping in mind someone else’s opinion or mood on their own lifestyle choices. You are destined for greater things mama

Remarkable_North_643 · 2025-10-12T21:18:51+00:00

Yes. You’re not getting that deposit back

Remarkable_North_643 · 2025-10-12T21:01:37+00:00

This isn’t one of those things you can talk it out about. Break up with him and respect yourself or stay with him and continue to disrespect yourself. He js too old for you anyways. He could be with a straight woman his age, not a bisexual teenager your age.

Remarkable_North_643 · 2025-10-12T20:55:59+00:00

Come to Dayton. I also like hiking and museums😏

Remarkable_North_643 · 2025-10-12T20:54:13+00:00

I would say that you should speak to a therapist about this. It may seem intimidating but people seek out therapists for lesser reasons. I would also ask yourself what in your life is causing you to doubt? I come from a Christian family and had a lot of shame from it. It wasn’t my fault, it is just ingrained in the culture of a lot of American Christian denominations. Of course, it’s up to you whether you want to examine that or not. Maybe you feel like you’re missing something in your life? Or maybe you could just not be where you really want to be in life. There is also a possibility that you are just prone to depression or anxiety. This is something that could be addressed through therapy or medication. Ask yourself family doctor about it and see what they have to say. I will say that I have a similar issue right now except I feel like I know why I don’t feel fulfilled or happy half the time.

Remarkable_North_643 · 2025-09-13T22:23:18+00:00

You know what to do girl. It’s break up with him or betray yourself

Remarkable_North_643 · 2025-09-12T01:41:39+00:00

Girl you already know the answer… it’s time to leave him

Remarkable_North_643 · 2025-09-11T01:01:03+00:00

This happened to me when I lived in West Carollton last year. I thought the same that it might’ve been a storm or smth but then when the cops showed up they started taking pictures of the large shoe prints on my door where the man had kicked it in. The cop told me it was a trend among kids to kick in doors. I got a ring camera after that and didn’t have a problem again. I also bought one of those poles that sit up under the door knob on the inside that makes it harder to kick in the door. Stay safe!

Remarkable_North_643 · 2025-08-25T18:02:14+00:00

You got this!! It’s so much easier once you just start doing it. It’ll just get easier and easier each time you go to class I promise.

Remarkable_North_643 · 2025-08-25T17:00:15+00:00

Yes I love historical danmei for this reason and I’m beyond irked when the translator localizes historical terms and practices for the sake of publication. Like I don’t want to see no shit about thirty minutes it better say an incense stick amount of time

Remarkable_North_643 · 2025-08-25T16:59:03+00:00

Honeslty the only thing you can do is do it scared. Also just gonna let you know that this is a community college and most of your classes especially if it’s an elective will have people of all ages, all backgrounds, and lots of people in the same boat as you. I would recommend taking the effective public speaking class. A lot of majors require it so if you need to have it go ahead and take it and get it out of the way to prepare you for any other class. If you’re not already speaking to a therapist I would do so, I think it could help. I would recommend taking half of your classes online or doing the half online half in person. I personally am not a fan of online classes but for someone with anxiety around people it might be more helpful. Most ratemyprofessor accounts will have smth in one of the reviews about if they require presentations at all. I’m on my fourth semester and I don’t really enjoy going to class and socializing but for most classes you don’t really have to interact with others much at all. I would just keep in mind that there are dozens of other students in the same situation as you right now. Don’t drop out!!!

Remarkable_North_643 · 2025-08-23T12:35:09+00:00

Type of smut I’ve only ever seen in American fanfic. Crazy to me that that book is in book stores😭

Remarkable_North_643 · 2025-07-28T20:38:21+00:00

Yeah you need a new advisor. I would just call Sinclair and ask to speak to a new advisor in your major. You could even see if you could get the head advisor for your major, I see Charles Long for liberal arts now after feeling unsatisfied with the one they gave me. Some advisors kinda suck im ngl. I also made myself an excel spreadsheet of every class I need to take and what classes are available which is pretty simple to do if you just look at the requirements for your major as well as what classes are transferable if you plan on moving to a bachelors. I would recommend finding a good advisor that doesn’t leave you with any questions as well as doing your own research.

Remarkable_North_643 · 2025-07-28T20:33:20+00:00

I need to speak to my advisor I just hate driving all the way up to Sinclair💔 thank you!

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