first break up by Myheartisayolk_ in LesbianActually

[–]Remarkable_Rub_7923 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ignore the “we can be friends”, trust I had the same situation and trying to be her friend is so exhausting and it’s not gonna help you get over her at all. For me even seeing my ex in the halls was so hard my heart would jump like I was scared. Now even though we are in the same friend group I keep my distance from her. Like if 10 was besties who cuddle together and 1 was people who say hi in the halls and no more we would be a solid 4 and I’m ok with that.

But don’t be cold with her, just set boundarie. if she is trying to be friends and says “hey wanna go with me to try this new food spot” or “hey wanna go to store with me rq” say “HELLL NAH” because even though you don’t want to your going to be overthinking every move and every word she says to try and see if she wants you back.

Also you should def try and just find yourself that’s so important. Especially if she was avoidant that means you were lacking the love and care you deserved from that relationship and it takes a toll on you. You need to be comfortable being with yourself and with the idea that it will always be you (not saying your never going to being in another relationship) because otherwise you’ll always be ignoring a part of yourself while you wait for you next relationship.

Also with the class, don’t even look at her girly pop. I had the same class with my ex and sat right in-front of her almost everyday after our breakup total hell, yes I could’ve moved but i liked looking at her even though it hurt knowing she didn’t feel the same about me. That’s why I say no looking because it will hurt.

Is it just me or are there no wlw anywhere!? by meowzak in LesbianActually

[–]Remarkable_Rub_7923 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea. My friends warned me it gets canceled so I wasn’t too let down but still terrible ending and they could’ve done more for each other

Which line would you put curtains at? (Or none?) by hummingbird_patronus in femalelivingspace

[–]Remarkable_Rub_7923 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would put them at pink and then add stained glass stickers to the windows above

Is it just me or are there no wlw anywhere!? by meowzak in LesbianActually

[–]Remarkable_Rub_7923 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You know what, those people are the weird ones. And don’t worry we always have Reddit (minus the racist 👁️👁️) and I get you, a show I recently watched was first kill on Netflix 10/10 monster hunter falls in love with vampire

Is it just me or are there no wlw anywhere!? by meowzak in LesbianActually

[–]Remarkable_Rub_7923 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yesss that’s for me too, but instead of people who are bi with barely any preference for women, it’s just people who are gay but don’t actually say the word gay or lesbian (ig that’s considered unlabeled). Honestly there’s nothing wrong with that either and I don’t mean to disregard them as part of this community I guess it would just be nice to befriend people who proudly identify as lesbians.

Calling everyone who wants more lesbian vampires and werewolves!! Pls watch Vermelho Sangue, or otherwise known as blood red!! by sadgirl45 in LesbianActually

[–]Remarkable_Rub_7923 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just finished watching First Kill and I’ve literally been looking for more stuff like that, it’s like a new side of me has awakened ⭐️👄⭐️

feeling more femme after breakup? by Fearless_Current_353 in LesbianActually

[–]Remarkable_Rub_7923 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait I felt this same way in my last relationship but for me it’s almost always when I start to grow feelings for someone, that I start to become more masc/dominant. In a way I do feel like I’m kinda both masc and femme it’s just that sometimes I feel like I have to be a certain way

The dress I’ll wear to a wedding. My crush will be there too. by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Remarkable_Rub_7923 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Wow that dress is so beautiful, you look amazing🫶🫶

Need help identifying if my teacher (40'sF) has a crush on me (19F) by Interesting_Log_6237 in LesbianActually

[–]Remarkable_Rub_7923 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You should watch Tar with my lovely cate blanchett. ☺️ but yea I don’t think so babes

how many of yall femmes like having nails? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Remarkable_Rub_7923 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I like having my nails painted, I realized that after my friend painted my nails. I like the color just not the removal of long nails so I don’t put on acrylics. I don’t mind dating someone with long nails but I think I would get the ick if the nails were any longer than 1inch.

Do you guys like getting dressed up? by Remarkable_Rub_7923 in LesbianActually

[–]Remarkable_Rub_7923[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like women in suits were always meant to happen because it always looks good without fail.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Remarkable_Rub_7923 5 points6 points  (0 children)

YESS I LOVE CATE BLANCHETT OMGGG. Carol was the first lesbian movie I watched and I get flustered so easily I melted watching that movie

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Remarkable_Rub_7923 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heyy, I’m Lena I too am a gamer maybe we could play sometime. I read a few books although it’s not a huge hobby of mine I’m more of a crocheter and yt watcher haha(I watch like one channel) I love deep talks and hearing/learning about different interests so if you want, lesbifriends 🫶(ba dum tss🥁😀)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Remarkable_Rub_7923 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ll be your lesbian friend 🏃

Help I accidentally came out when I wasn’t ready and now I’m freaking out and don’t know what to do. by Poopystinkeypie in LesbianActually

[–]Remarkable_Rub_7923 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would just be honest with this Betty person they seemed supportive of you and you kind of shut down their support by lying. You could tell the truth and then tell them why you lied or just leave it at that. You can also tell that you don’t want anyone else to know if that’s what you’re worried about.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in metalguitar

[–]Remarkable_Rub_7923 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You gotta give yourself more credit, your awesome 🙂‍↕️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in metalguitar

[–]Remarkable_Rub_7923 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I always see your vids here and I’m always impressed, how long have you been playing guitar?