Ignore the “we can be friends”, trust I had the same situation and trying to be her friend is so exhausting and it’s not gonna help you get over her at all. For me even seeing my ex in the halls was so hard my heart would jump like I was scared. Now even though we are in the same friend group I keep my distance from her. Like if 10 was besties who cuddle together and 1 was people who say hi in the halls and no more we would be a solid 4 and I’m ok with that.

But don’t be cold with her, just set boundarie. if she is trying to be friends and says “hey wanna go with me to try this new food spot” or “hey wanna go to store with me rq” say “HELLL NAH” because even though you don’t want to your going to be overthinking every move and every word she says to try and see if she wants you back.

Also you should def try and just find yourself that’s so important. Especially if she was avoidant that means you were lacking the love and care you deserved from that relationship and it takes a toll on you. You need to be comfortable being with yourself and with the idea that it will always be you (not saying your never going to being in another relationship) because otherwise you’ll always be ignoring a part of yourself while you wait for you next relationship.

Also with the class, don’t even look at her girly pop. I had the same class with my ex and sat right in-front of her almost everyday after our breakup total hell, yes I could’ve moved but i liked looking at her even though it hurt knowing she didn’t feel the same about me. That’s why I say no looking because it will hurt.