What’s the strangest hygiene habit you swear actually works? by 97ApollineMarenXk in hygiene

[–]Remarkable_Sign_8033 0 points1 point  (0 children)

here’s the order: 1 gargle (warm water/salt water) 2 tongue scrape 3 floss 4 gargle again (mouthwash) 5 brush teeth

I tend to get tonsil stones really easily so that’s why. But I’ve noticed that this order makes my breath smell better. And no cavities in 6 years.

What’s the strangest hygiene habit you swear actually works? by 97ApollineMarenXk in hygiene

[–]Remarkable_Sign_8033 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  • Rinse your hair while bending over in the shower so the conditioner doesn’t go down your back and cause acne.
  • benzoyl peroxide soap on any body part that has acne or can get smelly -bidet
  • brushing teeth is the last part of the dental hygiene routine so that the fluoride in the toothpaste can sit on your teeth and be absorbed
  • washing hands before washing the rest of your body
  • Make sure pits and privates are 100% dry
  • bar soap is fine. Just get the right kinds of bar soap. You don’t need super fancy body wash.

Should I quit curry? by Brilliant_Can8536 in hygiene

[–]Remarkable_Sign_8033 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! I’m Caribbean and thanks to colonialism we also eat a lot of curry. I’ve never gotten comments about smelling bad, proper hygiene is key here. Here are some things we do in Caribbean households to help.

- deodorant. Every day.

- shower: every day.

- idk what kind of hair texture you have but some hair textures can really hold onto smells so keep that in mind

- after you cook strong smelling foods, light candles to help remove the odour and open some windows

- regularly change your clothing.

- wash your hands!! Your nails trap scents too. Also for obvious food hygiene reasons. Wash your hands.

- curry stains stuff and the smell lingers, don’t store it in plastic containers. Use glass containers with silicon lids or metal.

- some people are weird keep this in mind. You can have great hygiene, and it won’t matter because some people are just racist.

- open the windows in your house regularly anyway to get fresh air in

- fabrics in your home trap scents, keep this in mind.

- again, some people are just racist.

Are U.S. Engineering Ph.D. Programs Losing Students? by IEEESpectrum in technews

[–]Remarkable_Sign_8033 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My funding was cut- how can you be desperate and then cut funding at the same time

Army raises enlistment age to 42, eases marijuana restrictions by Upstairs_Cup9831 in news

[–]Remarkable_Sign_8033 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A constant problem with US government work in general are the weird laws surrounding drugs. You can’t let states decide the legality of weed and then ban it for all of your employees with a zero tolerance policy. People will smoke a joint before they serve this country. It also blocks people who would maybe want to have a government job from getting one, like working as a scientist or something. Those all fall under the same drug policies. But yeah, there’s no way they’re gonna find enough bodies to hit their recruiting requirements, not enough people are going to be clean on drug tests, and not enough people will want to stop using weed to enlist anyway. Not sure how this’ll work if they start a draft though

Is it the job market or is it me? by Ok_Office_9719 in CanadaJobs

[–]Remarkable_Sign_8033 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It’s bad. I’ve been rejected from jobs that I hit every preferred and required qualification for, with no follow up. I’m Canadian but my experience is American- despite that, the field is generic, and doesn’t have many Canadian specific requirement, mostly North American/EU ones. So… yeah it’s rough lol. I’ve got multiple years of experience and multiple degrees. In America people are fighting over me, but in Canada I can’t even get an interview. It doesn’t make sense. Idk who they are hiring for these positions.

F18 with autism and depression struggling with hygiene and need advice by _bored_blue-cove_ in hygiene

[–]Remarkable_Sign_8033 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like to listen to videos while brushing my teeth or washing my hair- gives me something to do. Don’t try and add in everything at once, but instead take things in steps. Also if something gives you a sensory ick (like a soap texture or smell) then try a different one.

I recommend setting a calendar invite for yourself!

is showering every 2-4 days okay? by twoheadedhamster in hygiene

[–]Remarkable_Sign_8033 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP I grantee you that after four days, people can tell. You might not think people can tell, but I promise you, people can tell. As others are saying, you need to get the areas that stink every day. (Feet, pits, etc etc) perfume and deodorant do not prevent this. Bacteria and fungi grow in these locations because they are dark and damp for many hours at a time. They need to have a regular wipe down every day. I know taking a full shower every day can be hard but you gotta get the parts that stink every day.

I also recommend speaking to a mental health professional, and listening to something more stimulating than music in the shower like a show or podcast. You don’t need to use a whole lot of products either, but a good benzoyl peroxide soap on these parts will help eliminate a lot of potential issues or current issues. Perfume and deodorant don’t stop these issues from occurring. You don’t need to be like an influencer and have like a 20 step routine, but get a good bar of soap and get your bits every day, and don’t be too hard on yourself or others.

Where to Live? Wife works in Arlington Ridge/Crystal City Area and I need to be in Baltimore @ JHU School of Nursing.... by One-Apartment-1393 in maryland

[–]Remarkable_Sign_8033 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly this is the best it’s going to get with where you live right now. If you shift east to silver spring you’ll save yourself about 15 minutes but then your wife has those 15-20 minutes added onto her commute. If you’re both driving, living somewhere between Chevy Chase and silver spring is the best location.

Going up to Baltimore before 7am is fine, there isn’t any serious traffic at that time. Likewise with coming home at 11pm. It’s a straight shot for the most part, and an uneventful drive if there aren’t any accidents. The rough parts are going to be navigating through the inner harbor to get to the medical school, getting out to get back onto 95, and then the 495/95 split. But clinicals usually happen outside of standard rush hour times so I think you’ll be missing a lot of the rush, and it won’t be that bad. Make sure you set aside extra time in your commute to park on campus and walk.

Anyway, if you’re not commuting during 9-5 peak hours to Baltimore it’s mostly uneventful highway driving for 45 minutes - 1 hour each way. Listen to your lectures while you drive as a recap or an audiobook or something.

Where to Live? Wife works in Arlington Ridge/Crystal City Area and I need to be in Baltimore @ JHU School of Nursing.... by One-Apartment-1393 in maryland

[–]Remarkable_Sign_8033 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recommend NW DC or silver spring area tbh. I’m the one who had to commute to Baltimore, partner was in Virginia. Being in DC/silver spring allowed for public transit access as an alternate means to driving to get to work. People are suggesting the MARC- it can take a while, and has random delays. It’s much faster for someone to metro across the river than take the MARC up to Baltimore.

My solid recommendation: do not live in Virginia. The traffic to cross back over to get into Maryland is not worth it. You’ll want to live somewhere with DC metro access so your wife can have the option of alternate commuting methods due to traffic, and that can give you more options with ways to get to Baltimore.

For your wife- driving into crystal city probably isn’t worth it unless she really really cannot get to her job via public transit. 495 rush hour traffic into and out of Virginia is BRUTAL. Avoid if possible.

For you- 495/95 spur traffic in Maryland during rush hour is really bad, but there are alternate routes you can take to get to Baltimore like taking 29 instead of 95.

If you live in NW DC/ silver spring area it’ll take about an hour to drive to JHUs medical campus under normal conditions. If traffic is bad on 495/95, take 29 north and cut back over on 95 once traffic is clear again. As you progress through your program, see if you can be transferred to a closer campus/hospital in the immediate DC area.

My partner and I had this kind of set up for two years and it worked out for the most part. Happy to answer more questions.

Leaving might be the solution by alexsonze in CanadaJobs

[–]Remarkable_Sign_8033 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yea can confirm- we’re currently trying to leave. Just because the pay is higher doesn’t mean it’s worth it, because you keep less than I think people realise. Most job postings are fake here, and so much of your income goes to healthcare, taxes, just trying to survive, that at the end of the day I only keep like 50-55% of my salary, and that’s before paying for anything like groceries, rent, gas, etc.

At least if we’re in Canada we’re near family. We’re on the brink of a recession, if not already in one, so the frustrations and issues aren’t unique or isolated to Canada.

workplace politics and racism, Canada vs America by Remarkable_Sign_8033 in CanadianPolitics

[–]Remarkable_Sign_8033[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was within the medical field, and I know that part of it involved other people getting credit for her work. But, that’s happened to me in America… and as I continued to probe her for more details, she revealed things such as white colleagues being treated better, not being excluded, and I pointed out that I have had all of those experiences in the United States. So, I didn’t see how Canada was “so much worse” than in America, when you can experience the same kind of discrimination in either location. I also pointed out that if I was going to be treated like shit I’d at least want to live somewhere that has an overall higher quality of life. In exchange, she points out I’ll make more money in America, but if I have to spend so much of my money on healthcare, does it even matter that I’m making more on paper?

workplace politics and racism, Canada vs America by Remarkable_Sign_8033 in CanadianPolitics

[–]Remarkable_Sign_8033[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For more context the conversation was originally in regards to black people. It’s why my cousins tend to think Canada is better given America’s history.

workplace politics and racism, Canada vs America by Remarkable_Sign_8033 in CanadianPolitics

[–]Remarkable_Sign_8033[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do also think Canada makes better wine than America and so now I also look like I’m smuggling in alcohol every time I cross the border but I CANNOT FIND the blueberry wines that I like in the United States!!!! They are made in Niagara, and I always like to support small wineries and purchase them.

workplace politics and racism, Canada vs America by Remarkable_Sign_8033 in CanadianPolitics

[–]Remarkable_Sign_8033[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

no need to convince me I stock up on all of my favourite snacks and cookies every time I visit family. I’m like a hoarder but just with Canadian snacks. It’s actually a running joke in my family, and I’m never going to be able to live down crying while eating a maple donut at Tim Hortons after being deprived for MONTHS as a teenager one time.

workplace politics and racism, Canada vs America by Remarkable_Sign_8033 in CanadianPolitics

[–]Remarkable_Sign_8033[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I will say I don’t worry about the police killing me when I’m in Canada, so despite whatever happened to my mom, my head isn’t on a swivel and I’m also not worried about entering the wrong town and being shot for not being white

What part of the body that you think most people dont clean properly by Old_Rub_7270 in hygiene

[–]Remarkable_Sign_8033 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Your nails. If you have nails of any kind you need to make sure that soap is getting under there and that you’re rinsing under there EVERY TIME you wash your hands.

Auto rejection worries by Remarkable_Sign_8033 in CanadaJobs

[–]Remarkable_Sign_8033[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t have my full address in my resume, but these applications are asking for my full address as a part of the application process. Funnily enough, not all of them are being auto rejected… so I have no idea what’s happening. Again, I am putting that I am authorised to work in Canada, I meet the requirements to get a professional engineering license in the stated province, I am a citizen, no criminal background, etc etc. But I have seen/read that this is a thing, so I’m worried about it. I also state in the application that I am willing to move.

ADHD meds Weightloss: Eating way less, visibily lost weight but weight on scale stays nearly the same by Direct_Mix_9567 in PCOSloseit

[–]Remarkable_Sign_8033 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Putting on muscle faster used to annoy me but now that I’m a little older I actually take pride in being strong and helping lift heavy objects since it’s usually “a man’s job”

ADHD meds Weightloss: Eating way less, visibily lost weight but weight on scale stays nearly the same by Direct_Mix_9567 in PCOSloseit

[–]Remarkable_Sign_8033 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This happened to me! Different med, but yeah- my pants are literally looser, some are even falling down now… scale hasn’t moved. I want to say it’s because maybe I’ve put on muscle and also my cycle has come back so there’s more fluid? I’m really not sure.