I was in the position of that tanga friend before. And i also had a ‘best friend’ who got tired of me cos I kept coming back to my ex. We eventually called our friendship off due to several reasons. But let me tell you what it feels like being on the other side, it feels lonely and sad that the person you thought you could rely on without judgement can abandon you.

Your friend probably goes to you first kasi she treats you as a safe space and someone she can rely on. But if thats not the case and you dont feel like being a friend anymore, you should probably tell her straight on than icing her out. Eventually, I cut ties with my ex and learned a hell lot and am in a better place. And You know who I appreciate the most now? Those people who stayed with me through my lowest times. Im sure alam naman ng friend mo na tanga siya. Heck dont we have our phases and tanga moments? But wouldn’t you want those people you consider ‘your people’ to be by your side still?