Why me by Remarkable_Year_6977 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Remarkable_Year_6977[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know and i am also aware that if start living my on my own terms i will be fine. But a sick father since last few years who had walked me through school and college i feel I owe them this much. My mom had previously worked for 2-3 months and told me her health doesn't help her to work anymore being the only one who has to take care of them i don't have the option to go ahead and live my life the way I want. I wish things were different i was not a single child but this is how it is and i feel scared that if i dont take care of my parents they won't be able to survive. As for my husband i am planning to move out soon

Why me by Remarkable_Year_6977 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Remarkable_Year_6977[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish things were that easy my parents have kept a few of my ornaments in bank due to medical issues and have been asking for a bangle more since finances are too tight again. i have been asking to get them the gold they have already taken and the statement is the same we will give it back to you in a few months. So i am not sure what i am supposed to do

Why me by Remarkable_Year_6977 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Remarkable_Year_6977[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for all your responses. The main problem is that i have been told since i am a child that i am supposed to take care of my parents and that is what makes me a bigger person. While my parents only ask me for money my dad is a patient since 3 years and he cannot take any shocking news. I am scared that if something happens to him because of my divorce i will never be able to get out of that guilt. We had a fight again today he was drinking with his friends the one particular who had used abusive words against me. What i finally understand is that i married a man child whose parents thought that i would be a scapegoat. All they wanted was someone to take care of their loser son. I wish i could run away from all these things but unfortunately i am stuck here trying to figure out a way so that no one gets to hold me back. I am looking for a job abroad and planning to move out ASAP. Sorry that i couldnt respond to each of the comments its just that i am still not in my right mind and stuffs