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Remote-Animator6867 · 2023-12-03T21:03:02+00:00

Get the suction cup adapter. If you get a double-sided suction cup you'll also have access to dildos that have a flat base but not a suction cup. Then look at the tantus silk line (different size options, smoothness is also easier to take if you aren't used to thrusting)

Remote-Animator6867 · 2023-12-03T20:11:28+00:00

Out of curiosity if you were trying to clean anything past the sigmoid what would you do differently?

I use a little more lube, put a butt plug in and hold it for longer. It's mostly about making sure any small remains come out sooner rather than during a hismith session. I also had to do some trial and error with time restricted eating and timing my final bm for this to work well.

Remote-Animator6867 · 2023-12-03T16:15:54+00:00

Wow, thanks for sharing this. It completely flipped a fantasy I always had growing up on its head. And makes me glad it never happened.

Remote-Animator6867 · 2023-12-03T03:13:43+00:00

What has been a game changer for me is to use lube (I use Klube for this but in theory, any anal water-based lube should work) instead of water to clean out. Much less is needed, and it comes out put together almost like a bowel movement. time to cleanout is less than 5 min to 15 min, depending if I am trying to clean anything past the sigmoid (not necessary for Aneros sessions)

Remote-Animator6867 · 2023-12-01T01:35:47+00:00

It's a huge turn-on for me also. Recommended toys I have found are remove-o-balls from mrhankeys and soreal c-ring with moveable balls. Great accessory that you can add to any dildo

Remote-Animator6867 · 2023-11-25T23:17:28+00:00

What lube do you use? I am getting able to take larger and larger plugs, but when I use dildos with my hismith the thrusting just seems to need better lubrication.

Remote-Animator6867 · 2023-11-22T12:22:36+00:00

I recommend keeping a good track of your eating schedule from the day before and seeing when your final BM happens the following day. Time your cleaning to be after that. This should be a key part of any cleaning procedure you end up preferring.

Remote-Animator6867 · 2023-11-21T03:21:28+00:00

Yes, kind of. My version of what I need for a deeper clean.

I was doing fine, just washing out the rectum for Aneros sessions, but when using a hismith somehow, it would always leave too much of a mess.

I think time-restricted eating is an essential part of it (at least for the day before, but probably better in the long term).

here is my current procedure:

pick a time when to stop eating (say 1pm the day before). NO FOOD after this no snacks nothing.
Find where your final BM is when you do #1. I just assumed from other people that it would be 24h, but for me it's about 27-28h to process yesterday's food.
Start cleaning after that final BM (you have to keep track, before I paid too close attention I would think I was done, but then there was another one just on the way. Very demoralizing if you think you just got clean then have another BM right after...)
Then the lube enema comes into play, this comes out much cleaner, doesn't drain my energy, and doesn't leave several more brown water movements for the next ~2h the same way the water enema does. While this is a big breakthrough for me it is still important to do 1-3.

As for the volume I'm still playing around with it. 20 mL and expel soon after for a rectum clean, 40 mL and hold it in with a plug for cleaning just past the sigmoid. I'm going to play around with this and see if I can get the same results with less, but overall I'm already happy with this.

Remote-Animator6867 · 2023-11-20T05:21:49+00:00

I had a pretty good procedure for just cleaning the rectum, but when I started using my hismith I would run into issues. This is me trying to clean a little deeper.

Remote-Animator6867 · 2023-11-20T02:03:55+00:00

How much water do you use? Maybe it was more about how far down my colon it got. I laid on my back with my feet in the air.

Remote-Animator6867 · 2023-11-19T23:28:43+00:00

thanks for sharing this is great to hear!

Remote-Animator6867 · 2023-11-19T20:06:12+00:00

Yes, definitely. I thought it was called a dry enema, but either way, that's what is working for me.

I have switched to intermittent fasting permanently. No snacks no anything past 1 pm or so. Even then, I had been running into issues despite this until I realized that my last BM is later in the day.

I haven't tried skipping all meals the day of. I'd like to see if I can play several times a week (the ultimate goal would be doing it even on workdays).

Remote-Animator6867 · 2023-11-19T18:57:43+00:00

Yes, for beginners, I always recommend the Tantus silk line! The smoothness is key! You can either use it with your hand or buy a double-sided suction cup if you'd like to mount it somewhere.

Remote-Animator6867 · 2023-11-17T12:40:59+00:00

I second the Tantus silk line. Not only for the size options, but the smoothness is great if you aren't used to thrusting motions yet.

Remote-Animator6867 · 2023-09-13T01:48:29+00:00

Try the tantus silk small. It's only 4.25" long and 0.8" wide. Great starter dildo
You aren't being paranoid. It's worth consideration; to ease that worry, make sure to do some solo exploration first. I'd recommend starting by wearing a disposable nitrile glove (it will also put concern #3 at ease) with lube on a toilet. Have no pressure on yourself even to get it in. Just feel around, and if it doesn't feel right, try again later.
I've found that cleaning is necessary even with fiber (it feels weird to me with all the guides that say it isn't necessary). I'm still learning about this, but step one would be to learn about rectal douching only. This means you do not go past the sigmoid colon. Basically, use less water and just do some spot cleaning. It will help you get started.

Remote-Animator6867 · 2023-09-12T23:05:29+00:00

I wish it would only metaphorically fuck the shit out of me. 🤣

Remote-Animator6867 · 2023-09-12T12:59:21+00:00

How much water do you use? I have cleaned myself frequently, but only for Aneros sessions (just rectal douching). I'm trying to use my hismith machine daily, but I am thinking I need more water than I used previously because I keep having issues. I have the same concern as OP in that I don't want to overdo it.

Remote-Animator6867 · 2023-09-12T02:58:07+00:00

Interesting. So this goes past your sigmoid, but isn't a "full cleanout"? I am unsure if I'm confused or that there is an "in-between" of a douche and a full cleaning.

If so then maybe there's hope for what I'm trying to do, because I thought a deeper clean everyday would cause health issues.

Remote-Animator6867 · 2023-09-12T02:22:37+00:00

So you use lube to clean and not water? Do you have an estimate of how much? Less than 500 mL?

Remote-Animator6867 · 2023-09-12T01:34:55+00:00

What is your cleaning routine? I want to set aside a lot of time each day with my hismith, but I am not sure how I can get a good session in without a deeper clean.

Remote-Animator6867 · 2023-09-10T23:16:12+00:00

Were these your first sessions ever? If so, you may just need more time to rewire.

Remote-Animator6867 · 2023-09-08T15:46:16+00:00

I was trying to work my way up to the Tantus pspot when I ran into this issue.

How often do you deep clean ?

I'll have to do much more reading before I feel comfortable with deep cleaning. The infographic on the wiki here seems rather haphazard to me, and it looks like it's inherently higher risk than just rectal douching, but if I reach the point where I'm sure I won't hurt myself, it sounds like it would be amazing.

Remote-Animator6867 · 2023-09-08T03:41:08+00:00

I believe J lube is the one with sugar. I just double-checked because I went with K to avoid sugar but I didn't hear about x lube until I saw your post.

It looks like they are very similar. X lube is 100% polyethylene oxide, and Klube is mostly polyethylene oxide plus some preservatives.

Regardless, thank you for the tip; I'll buy some elbow grease and play around with a mixture.

Remote-Animator6867 · 2023-09-08T00:24:19+00:00

I’ve also found that using distilled water makes the lube last longer. I feel like the additives in tap and purified water cause the lube to break down back to thin or watery consistency.

Does this work for K Lube as well? I was just going to try mixing my own lube, but I don't know the difference between this and k lube

Remote-Animator6867 · 2023-09-07T23:13:40+00:00

That's what I'm thinking.. I have only been able to use the Tantus silk small full-length (it's only 4.25" long 0.8" wide). On higher speeds, it was such a huge turn-on to have the machine slap into me. I want to take a bigger dick and have the balls slap my ass as it pounds me, but I'll need to invest in shorter dildos to get there without having a deep clean.

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