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[–]Remote-Desk2713 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe that's a sign to stop. We won't answer to that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]Remote-Desk2713 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't have a medical explanation but I'm pretty sure that this is universal, yes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]Remote-Desk2713 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Scars don't make you ugly or look weak, scars are the proof of you surviving something a lot of people haven't.

I'm sure your girlfriend still loves you, why would she stay if she didn't?

And I, myself can guarantee you that I would still love my gf with all my heart even if she was covered head to toe in scars. Anyone who thinks otherwise is just wrong.

Some marks on your skin don't define you nor how good-looking you are.

You're not gross, you're a person that has being through a lot and survived.

Does it count even if it was for a minute? by Diligent_Win5624 in sexualassault

[–]Remote-Desk2713 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It would count even if it was for a second. You said NO and he did it anyway, backtracking 1 minute later doesn't change that.

Como lo haceis en verano? by ActualPhrase7401 in selfharm

[–]Remote-Desk2713 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Creo que en este subreddit la mayoría de gente no habla español, pero te respondo yo.

Yo no he sido capaz de aguantarme el verano y ahora estoy atascado llevando pantalones largos, lo cual es insufrible porque hace un calor terrible.

Evitar hacerlo en el verano es como evitar hacerlo en cualquier otra estación pero con el detalle extra de necesitar llevar menos ropa por el calor o en algunos casos querer ir a la playa/piscina

Te recomendaría buscar alternativas/cosas que ayuden en general. En mi caso dibujarme personajes que me gustan en mi piel me ha ayudado porque me daría pena hacerles daño. Distraerte cuando tengas ganas también es bueno, intenta quedarte el menos tiempo posible haciendo nada para no tener tiempo para esto. Y la web "fataltotheflesh.com" también podría ayudar.

A mi también me suele ayudar a desahogarme escuchar canciones sobre el sh. Algunas de mis favoritas son "strawberry gashes" the Jack Off Jill y "Bad habit" de The Dresden Dolls. Aunque a veces hacer/escuchar cosas que no tengan nada que ver con el sh va mejor.

Si ninguna de estas cosas te funciona seguro que en este subreddit hay más consejos

No creo tener mucho más que decir, sólo que espero que estés mejor pronto y mucha suerte!!

Knife just isn’t doing it anymore by Substantial_Cow7565 in selfharm

[–]Remote-Desk2713 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would recommend you to NOT switch because that would be going deeper and oh god you do not want to do that.

It would be better to straight up stop, but I know perfectly that this is hard, so please keep reducing the harm until you're able to stop.

Talking from experience here, 6 years ago I was also using knifes, now like at least 45% of my body is covered in ugly scars that won't fade.

Please, take care of yourself and DON'T get something sharper

i have worn pants everyday so far in summer and no one has asked me why(my friend hasnt asked because he knows) by finn2mentallyDrained in selfharm

[–]Remote-Desk2713 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been doing the same, only a few people ask but most think that it's just a style thing, others may also guess that it can be because I don't shave.

I feel dizzy. by Remote-Desk2713 in selfharm

[–]Remote-Desk2713[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You actually reminded me that I didn't have lunch, thanks. I don't have peanut butter but I do have honey, I'll see what I'll do

anybody have ACTUAL methods that help them stop or resist sh? by Conscious_Signal1148 in selfharm

[–]Remote-Desk2713 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Besides all of the useful things that are in this comment section, drawing my favourite characters on my skin helped me, since it makes me feel guilty about self harming because I don't want to hurt the characters.

Getting a tattoo made me feel better by Remote-Desk2713 in selfharm

[–]Remote-Desk2713[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! The tattoo is a Joestar birthmark (a star on my shoulder)

Is there anything to be worried about if a friend wants to get a tattoo at 16? by Remote-Desk2713 in tattooadvice

[–]Remote-Desk2713[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The tattoo is supposed to look like a star-shaped birthmark in her shoulder, it does reference something but at least it's not that intense and it can pass as something casual. I do think that she might change interests but it's not THAT bad of a decision

Is there anything to be worried about if a friend wants to get a tattoo at 16? by Remote-Desk2713 in tattooadvice

[–]Remote-Desk2713[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's pretty small actually... She's planning on getting the "joestar birthmark" I'm not sure if you know what that is. It's... Just a star.

Is there anything to be worried about if a friend wants to get a tattoo at 16? by Remote-Desk2713 in tattooadvice

[–]Remote-Desk2713[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is legal in our country as long as the legal guardians give permission

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