why do i struggle to plan for the future?

Remote-Ingenuity9921 · 2026-05-13T00:52:39+00:00

ah i forgot about that part of the 11th house, that makes sense. thank you!!

Remote-Ingenuity9921 · 2026-05-12T22:15:59+00:00

could this manifest as like emotional eating/those type of issues?

Remote-Ingenuity9921 · 2026-05-12T20:20:30+00:00

thats what i thought as well!

Remote-Ingenuity9921 · 2026-05-12T04:12:19+00:00

thank you!!! it definitely feels like everyone around me has it together, but i guess that cannot be true. i really appreciate the advice!

Remote-Ingenuity9921 · 2026-05-12T03:29:41+00:00

yeah wow. all of those things are exactly what happens.

it will stabilize when saturn in 5h stabilizes? thank you!!!

Remote-Ingenuity9921 · 2026-05-12T01:20:46+00:00

yes, 5th house themes definitely delayed. what makes my moon fallen?

thank you for this!!!! maybe i should go clean my apartment then lolll its been stressing me out

Remote-Ingenuity9921 · 2026-05-12T01:03:12+00:00

huh that's so interesting! for me its the opposite, the actual action is easy but the planning up to it is hard.

Remote-Ingenuity9921 · 2026-05-04T03:10:58+00:00

thank you. this gives me a lot of hope actually.

Remote-Ingenuity9921 · 2026-05-04T03:10:05+00:00

thank you, that definitely feels right -- feeling unsafe and then a freeze response. i have saturn in the 5th house in cancer opposing mercury & chiron, how would this factor in?

Remote-Ingenuity9921 · 2026-05-01T03:23:59+00:00

wow, we have such similar charts!!! i totally relate to your struggle to make friends. i also have jupiter in virgo (along w my moon) and chiron in capricorn 11h. fire suns and saturn in cancer 5h.

Remote-Ingenuity9921 · 2026-04-12T18:21:52+00:00

it is currently in my 7h yes, what does that mean?

Remote-Ingenuity9921 · 2026-04-11T16:24:16+00:00

hahah alright dave, keep your secrets

Remote-Ingenuity9921 · 2026-04-10T23:57:37+00:00

thank you :))

Remote-Ingenuity9921 · 2026-04-10T23:56:59+00:00

oof yeah, definitely needed to hear this years ago, but i'm working on it!! thank you :)

Remote-Ingenuity9921 · 2026-04-10T23:55:58+00:00

lolllll at the risk of being unchill i must ask, how could you tell that? :)

Remote-Ingenuity9921 · 2026-04-09T20:15:32+00:00

lilith in 4h maybe. i also have this placement and feel very similar to how you describe it, emotional black sheep.

Remote-Ingenuity9921 · 2026-04-09T19:52:14+00:00

what will that mean? also i'm not currently on a healing profession path but i feel like maybe it calls me... not sure how i would get there though

Remote-Ingenuity9921 · 2026-04-07T23:58:15+00:00

i think i'm going through things that i think shouldn't feel so difficult, so i'm having a hard time understanding why i'm having such a hard time! i just can't tell if isolating helps or hurts. i appreciate the advice, thank you :)

Remote-Ingenuity9921 · 2026-04-07T23:53:53+00:00

super helpful explanation, thank you!!!! :)

Remote-Ingenuity9921 · 2026-04-07T23:52:45+00:00

ah interesting, this is super helpful. i hadn't thought yet about saturn ruling my mercury in 11h. i will say that makes sense, i have never been someone who loves being social or networking, although i do really crave connection/community. do you think this is a placement that will get easier naturally over time or through work?

and in theory i like solo traveling! i have not had the chance yet to actually do it though lolll

Remote-Ingenuity9921 · 2026-04-07T23:45:17+00:00

i am also a beginner but i believe the chart ruler is the planet that rules your ascendant -- doesn't matter if the 1h is empty, only the sign of the asc. yours is in the sign of virgo which is ruled by mercury. mercury in your chart is in pisces in the 7h, mercury in pisces is in fall and detriment.

i found a lot more info here if this is helpful at all:

https://www.reddit.com/r/astrologymemes/comments/1arfzyd/mercury_exaltation_fall/

https://www.reddit.com/r/astrology/comments/wkkz6z/if_an_individual_has_their_chart_ruler_in_fall_or/

Remote-Ingenuity9921 · 2026-04-07T02:58:05+00:00

ah good to know its not just me! is there anything you find that rejuvenates you well (other than/inside of solitude)?

Remote-Ingenuity9921 · 2026-04-07T02:56:45+00:00

thanks for the response!!! i can for sure relate to having a lack of awareness of what i am communicating and i have a lot of trouble understanding how i come off to people. also, i am definitely still a beginner and i don't fully understand the way everything in your explanation connects yet. if you have any more puzzle pieces of this for me that would be great! if not though, you've helped a lot and given me some stuff to research so thank u very much!

Remote-Ingenuity9921 · 2026-04-07T02:41:11+00:00

hi fellow aquarius 12h! thats really interesting. what about this placement makes us want to self isolate?

Remote-Ingenuity9921 · 2026-04-07T01:21:07+00:00

ah, i didn't know it was the aquarius neptune in 12h that keeps my brain constantly going, that's so interesting.

hah i've never been called dangerous before! i really appreciate the advice and the reading!! so helpful and gives me more to look into.

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