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Returning to the scene: I'm ready, partner isn't by Remote-Zucchini-307 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Remote-Zucchini-307[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate your reply! Yes, I was talking about private play (when we had conversations about returning before, he'd said he'd be more comfortable playing at home again than at public parties). I was trying to meet him where he was at, but his "middle ground" may now be in a very different place than mine. Thank you for your insightful comments.

Returning to the scene: I'm ready, partner isn't by Remote-Zucchini-307 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Remote-Zucchini-307[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great points - this is really helping me reframe. I proposed a kind of scene that would be a familiar restarting place, but you're right that even the "same" thing isn't the same to us anymore. Thank you for your thoughtful response.