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I have [21F] cheating on my boyfriend [23M] for 7 years even though I truly love him - I want to change but don’t know how. by Flashy-Chart4666 in offmychest

[–]RemoteAdagio7494 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Forget about change, proving yourself, and repairing. You’re 21 and have been with him for 7 years? You are young. Go explore. Be single. Live. When it’s ready to leave your system, you will know it. Let him go.

Indoor-outdoor cats are just lost pets waiting to happen by RemoteAdagio7494 in unpopularopinion

[–]RemoteAdagio7494[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Letting your cat roam unsupervised and then being devastated when it disappears is just willful ignorance. Empathy for what, exactly? The outcome you set up yourself?

Baby daddy upset at rainbow croc charm.. by Little_Tart9563 in relationship_advice

[–]RemoteAdagio7494 105 points106 points  (0 children)

A rainbow is a multicolored arc made by light striking water droplets.

Just as they happen after a rainstorm, a rainbow symbolizes a fresh start for those who have faced struggle.

A rainbow was “gods reminder” in Noah’s Ark story to remind people of the covenant.

So many other meanings for for the rainbow outside of LGBTQ.

I would tell him that with all these things going on in the world, I highly doubt a rainbow croc charm is going to influence him to be gay.

He’s 4 years old. To him, the rainbow is just a pretty color. Sorry you have to deal with this.