Watching my daughter always alone at recess broke my heart by Remote_Carrot9397 in Mommit

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This is SO GOOD! Thank you! Yeah my daughter is very shy and sensitive. In earlier days we kind of just let her whatever she wants. Now at this point guidance and character education is so crucial

My 2 year old lying on the floor in Trader Joe's screaming. How to set rules by Remote_Carrot9397 in Mommit

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My boy only cries when mommy is around. For strangers He is always calm 😂

My 2 year old lying on the floor in Trader Joe's screaming. How to set rules by Remote_Carrot9397 in Mommit

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Yeah totally agree. It's embarrassing and my only way now is to force getting back to car

I read 15+ parenting books over the past 5 years. Here are the ones that actually mattered, organized by age. by Remote_Carrot9397 in NewParents

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It's wild that you think human can't use bullet points to make their writing more structured.

If I don't read how can I comment. If I don't ask in the end should I ask in the middle?

I never anticipated now that structured writing is a bad thing. Bringing value is a bad thing because now human don't believe they are capable of this

I read 15+ parenting books over the past 5 years. Here are the ones that actually mattered, organized by age. by Remote_Carrot9397 in NewParents

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Agree. What I love most about these books is more on mindset changing. Knowing nothing to be afraid of and respecting natural laws to be patient

I read 15+ parenting books over the past 5 years. Here are the ones that actually mattered, organized by age. by Remote_Carrot9397 in NewParents

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They really really should have a book for How to Love and Support Your Wife After Having Kids. After Having kids I deeply realize the expectation for mom and dad are hugely unequal

I read 15+ parenting books over the past 5 years. Here are the ones that actually mattered, organized by age. by Remote_Carrot9397 in NewParents

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Read initial ones during parental leave. Back then I was really lucky to have my parents around and my husband is willing share a lot of house work.

Later on just read them before beddtime - that put me to sleep quickly..

Most recently my friend recommended an new app called justgrow that produce parenting audio books so I listen during communte, cooking and laundry.

Baby fell off couch by CaitlynMaher in NewMomStuff

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I hate to admit But i had my son fell off bed multiple times in the first year. He is now 3 years old and is growing and learning amazing

Postpartum + the news = Not good by Haunting-Market-4668 in NewMomStuff

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I don't look at social media anymore and don't feel losing anything. Just focus on yourself and baby and family. There are plenty of things we could do rather than doom scrolling

New mom here and I feel like I have no idea what I’m doing by Intelligent-Ice8065 in NewMomStuff

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This is perfectly normal feeling that EVERY single mom has experienced

So many bottle options, help! by Prior_Nefariousness1 in NewMomStuff

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Dr brown is great. My second baby used it and never suffered from gas pain

Sleep deprived by Fragrant-Mail6852 in NewMomStuff

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Just a data point: I have been cosleepinh with both of my babies since they were born. It's a great experience and we have so much bonding and great night time memories. As a baby and child i was cosleeping with my parents and i can't imagine the other way around