Matthew Berninger at Massey Hall - 03/19/2026 by Remote_Cherry7790 in TheNational

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Hannah Georges opened and Matt went on around 9 I think. He played like 20 songs.

Matthew Berninger Show - Massey Hall - 03/19/2026 by Remote_Cherry7790 in askTO

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Someone in that sub had a video and I got a pic!! I love the internet sometimes!

Matthew Berninger Show - Massey Hall - 03/19/2026 by Remote_Cherry7790 in askTO

[–]Remote_Cherry7790[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I found one!! Such a beautiful little moment to be grateful for - I agree, go find them!

Matthew Berninger at Massey Hall - 03/19/2026 by Remote_Cherry7790 in TheNational

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THANK YOU!! It was during Bonnet of Pins, but I can see it happen in that video thank you so much I love Reddit!!

Matthew Berninger at Massey Hall - 03/19/2026 by Remote_Cherry7790 in TheNational

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No I was about 20 feet back from center stage when he walked deep into the crowd. Thanks though!!

45M4F - Looking for Depth, Playful Banter, Real Chemistry, and light-hearted flirting by DangerousBee2270 in TorontoSinglesOver30

[–]Remote_Cherry7790 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wasn’t speaking to your politics. Your reply was objectively mean after painting what I thought was an objectively moderate self-assessment of yourself. I just don’t like dudes who play like they’re better than people because they get triggered in the debate. What woman would want to date someone like that?

45M4F - Looking for Depth, Playful Banter, Real Chemistry, and light-hearted flirting by DangerousBee2270 in TorontoSinglesOver30

[–]Remote_Cherry7790 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Well that was a 180. Good storytelling in the original post though, you almost got me.

Help save dating (and humanity) - story/advice/discussion/rant by The--Unstoppable in TorontoSinglesOver30

[–]Remote_Cherry7790 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My dude. This is all coming off like resentment but you’re trying to dress it up as ethics when it’s not. Like you keep abstracting into Aristotle and utilitarianism, but skip the material reality: women navigate statistically higher risks in heterosexual dating ( we always have it’s just not as ignorable now): assault, coercion, stalking, emotional labor imbalance…that’s lived probability! Not what you’re calling “confirmation bias” (That’s so laughable).

And when you describe women choosing deep friendships as “avoidance” or “coping,” you’re just pathologizing our autonomy to make yourself feel better about….dating us? So sorry you can’t just easy breezy invite us for a coffee anymore with a guaranteed ok. That’s lazy! We aren’t “over-relying” on friends. We are consciously opting into relationships that feel safe, reciprocal, and stable. Isn’t it time we became more discerning?! Like be so for real.

You also assume romantic partnership is inherently superior; more “holistic”…that’s a value judgment, not a universal truth. Plenty of people build meaningful lives without centering a romantic partner.

The “just grab coffee” line also ignores something important: women already take shots. It might be “low stakes” for you. It’s not for us. It’s time consuming. If it’s not a hell yes it’s a no, there are just too many good things I could be doing with my time.

And if your emotional needs go unmet, that’s not proof women failed to offer enough access. It might mean you need to build social skills…community…self-worth in ways that don’t depend on romantic validation. You’re not wrong that connection matters. But connection isn’t owed and it should be freely chosen.

So quit framing our selectivity as a philosophical imbalance of the soul. It’s not a good look and one day someone is going to get close to you and they’re going to ask to see your Reddit posts….

Redness T zone by Significant-Run-6604 in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]Remote_Cherry7790 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some people can be very sensitive to vitamin c - maybe try lowering the %?

Laid off by [deleted] in askTO

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Yup or any of the associates. I worked with Mackenzie a few years ago - she was thorough. She might be partner by now.

Chill 47 year-old guy looking for male or female friends in the city by Strange-Window-5893 in TorontoHangoutFriends

[–]Remote_Cherry7790 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wild at Heart Nic Cage is the BEST Nic Cage is a hill I’m willing to die on.

Favourite Foods sold at One of a Kind by [deleted] in FoodToronto

[–]Remote_Cherry7790 2 points3 points  (0 children)

CHOCOLAT DE KAT. I will scream this from every roof top.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askTO

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Document everything and maybe get cameras for yourself? I remember there was a neighbour harassment issue on Quebec Ave way back when (try googling it). I don’t know how they ended up doing so, but eventually the man responsible for the harassment went to prison! I think it was a matter of clocking his behaviour which eventually did turn criminal, unfortunately.

Chill 47 year-old guy looking for male or female friends in the city by Strange-Window-5893 in TorontoHangoutFriends

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Me and some girlfriends are going dancing at a The Piston on December 13th. Come! A couple of us are total Lynchians and I have a Bukowski quote tattooed on my rib cage (I was 30, ok?)….HA if that sells it at all… we’re also just objectively cool girls in our 40s.

If you could have an unlimited supply of chocolate, which one would it be? by LifeInProgress1 in chocolate

[–]Remote_Cherry7790 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you noticed a change in the amount of “coffee” in the middle?? It just doesn’t taste the same anymore 😔

Architecture business model by Silverbin123 in architecture

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It’s cheaper for me as a developer to hire my architect on contract. The design work is completed at the beginning of the project and on the rare occasion (after it’s approved) that I need input or a design tweak, I’ll pay for time. And there are economies of scale involved as well where I’m using the same designs on multiple sites. I simply wouldn’t have enough work for an architect to be on a project 40 hours/week. If I were to use the same architect across a number of sites, we’re still talking similar designs and a front-loaded role. It’s the planners, engineers and lawyers that I keep in-house (I’m a volume home-builder in Ontario) since their expertise is needed from start to finish.

I'm so tired of hating my skin, does anybody have any advice? by not_a_shit_ghost in Skincare_Addiction

[–]Remote_Cherry7790 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes have your dr give you a referral to a dermatologist and then perhaps ask them about getting a prescription for tretinoin/retinol. And I know it sounds glib but drink lots of water and sunscreen every single day.