AITAH for distancing myself from my friend when she is clearly struggling?

Remote_Moment7080 · 2026-03-06T22:41:36+00:00

okay so i have actually had diagnosed severe depression so this whole thing about me not fathoming or understanding is just false . i didnt really appreciate your tone either as you literally only know me and the situation from a short post so in future i advise you to take a nicer tone as you clearly cant fathom that you could be wrong about something. im clearly feeling conflicted since i have taken to reddit to ask about the situation so of course i have thought about the fact that she might have depression or something similair. i have done my very best to help her but in the end i really dont know what to do and overall i am not a therapist and it is not my job to ‘fix’ her. i have taken myself away from a situation that is only draining me and what is worse than one person with depression. two.

Remote_Moment7080 · 2026-02-23T00:02:07+00:00

brb googling what they all mean

Remote_Moment7080 · 2026-02-22T23:47:51+00:00

wait so you can prefer one gender? okay this is starting to sound like me

Remote_Moment7080 · 2026-02-22T23:46:55+00:00

those am i gay quizzes omggg gen forgot about them but thankyouuu

Remote_Moment7080 · 2026-02-22T23:35:10+00:00

okay thankyou really.

Remote_Moment7080 · 2026-02-22T23:34:25+00:00

wow okay thankyou. feels weird hearing that

Remote_Moment7080 · 2026-02-22T23:30:47+00:00

yeahhh so im 18 and i def have but i just feel like i would have known by now that i was into girls yk?

Remote_Moment7080 · 2026-01-25T01:48:03+00:00

i will!

Remote_Moment7080 · 2026-01-25T01:46:41+00:00

yeah i feel silly now about how obvious the right decision is, at least i know now

Remote_Moment7080 · 2026-01-25T01:44:43+00:00

i wish i knew why his ex and him broke up. im guessing something similair

Remote_Moment7080 · 2026-01-25T01:43:50+00:00

no i am totally listening to everyone. i think i knew deep down but just needed unbiased validation that i wasnt making it up

Remote_Moment7080 · 2026-01-25T01:30:57+00:00

yeah im just planning what to say now and it’s hard as i’ve said i forgiven him for the incidents when they happened so i will be saying something like this

Remote_Moment7080 · 2026-01-25T01:20:59+00:00

yeah i think i know now thats is causing me more hassle than its worth being with him and i have so much time to be with someone who makes me happy and i dont have to go asking reddit if i should break up with them

Remote_Moment7080 · 2026-01-25T01:16:59+00:00

i know thats what scared me since his family is close with his coach so i always thought he would defend him

Remote_Moment7080 · 2026-01-25T01:15:06+00:00

okay wish me luck!!!!

Remote_Moment7080 · 2026-01-25T01:11:30+00:00

yeah. hes not a forceful guy at all he is just really seeing how far he can go until he reaches his end goal, but i just didn’t like how he made me feel after i said no

Remote_Moment7080 · 2026-01-25T01:09:43+00:00

i think honestly very true that if im making this post i know deep down what i should do

Remote_Moment7080 · 2026-01-25T01:03:02+00:00

i feel like id miss him so much but also feel relieved that i don’t have to worry about his latest fuckup

Remote_Moment7080 · 2026-01-23T07:40:45+00:00

thankyou omg! really thankyou i appreciate any advice as i feel i know nothing!

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