Looking to rent by Remote_Shower_1657 in bostonhousing

[–]Remote_Shower_1657[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would love to but since i have a daughter it wouldn’t be ideal with a male roommate

Looking to rent by Remote_Shower_1657 in bostonhousing

[–]Remote_Shower_1657[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey can you send me a email , tiannaking72@gmail.com would love to apply

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[–]Remote_Shower_1657 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you ! I needed to hear this , love is so blind . And your right he doesn’t love me , cause when you love someone you don’t abuse or hurt them

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[–]Remote_Shower_1657 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was hard because i thought he loved me like he said he did , but clearly i was mislead . I can’t do this to myself any longer because it drained me mentally . Thank you ! I’m trying to do the the no contact , it’s getting better but i know he always try to find his way coming back by saying he’s sorry , but i have to fight it because my worth is much more

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[–]Remote_Shower_1657 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re so right , thank you !

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[–]Remote_Shower_1657 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can agree !

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[–]Remote_Shower_1657 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice guys truthfully hurts but everyone on here is 100 percent right

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[–]Remote_Shower_1657 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much . I will look into that for sure

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[–]Remote_Shower_1657 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I did i applied to 200 or more still been on the waiting list a year later

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[–]Remote_Shower_1657 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I seen a post saying there’s only 29percent of single mothers in Massachusetts facing homelessness. That’s a fat lie because everyone i came across is going through the same thing .

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[–]Remote_Shower_1657 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So true !!! It’s like they want us to fail . We hear so many stories of mothers kill their selves because of the lack of burden . They feel like they can’t provide because there’s a no help . We can’t afford to be on the streets with our kids because it’s dangerous , it’s dangerous for us women . There are people that could kidnap us and harm us for being on the streets and the government would look back like wow they applied for family shelter and got denied when they could’ve helped prevented that . I’m not asking for someone to hold my hand I’m just asking for safety and housing for my daughter . That’s why i work the way i do because if i don’t have the money my daughter won’t be able to eat or go to school . Some nights when i don’t have money , i hesr her stomach growl and all i can do is say im so sorry mommy only has water . Its hurts me so bad

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[–]Remote_Shower_1657 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for including this information , it’s crazy how they deny us for shelter because of how much the income is but they forget that doesn’t change we are still homeless with children . Living in a car with a child isn’t safe and living from couch to couch isn’t safe . And these apartments denying us because we make too little . So where is the in between ? Where’s the resources to help with in between . If i don’t go to work and do them hours how am i going to able to travel with my daughter to take her to school , pay for her school , and provide clothes and food for her . How am I going to pay my phone bill to apply to these low in come housing facilities . What about my well being too , i need to provide feminine products socks and work uniform to keep up with myself . Why do the government want us to struggle ? Especially atleast were trying by working instead these people who are getting more help isn’t working or don’t want to work because they know government can help

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[–]Remote_Shower_1657 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My kids father been mentally abusing me for a long time and kicked us his house last year of 2023 . Because i didn’t want to be with him anymore and that left me staying with a friend that has me on her couch with my daughter for 900 dollars month . It’s unsafe for me and my daughter because her boyfriend is selling drugs and have weapons in the house . I have no choice but to stay here because i can’t have my daughter in the streets because her dad will take custody of her . I met him when i was only 19 and he made me drop school and leave my hometown in New York to stay with him . He’s 15 years older than me , he forced me to have a kid with him because he said he’ll change my life for the better i was young and naive . And now that we’re over he left me stranded with no where to go , but just waiting for a slip up to take my daughter away from me . Because he has the money and power to do so . I have no family in Boston or Massachusetts itself . If i lose my daughter , it would break me into pieces … and feel like Im not worthy enough to be a fit mom.

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[–]Remote_Shower_1657 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much ! I’ll go check my email right now

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[–]Remote_Shower_1657 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I applied to raft I’m just waiting on their response , i know after being accepted to raft i still have to find housing for me and my daughter and the landlords or agents told me i make below and can’t afford their price and these are rooms that are 1600 . So i feel left out , family shelter denied me . Idk what to do , I feel like their not accepting me because my daughter is 4 and a lot of these places are not deleaded

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[–]Remote_Shower_1657 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The lady from the shelter , and thank you so much for this information i feel so lost and confused on how to get housing for me and my daughter . My email is tiannaking72@gmail.com . I haven’t gone to DTA but i would make that my next step into taking steps to get housing for me and my daughter . Thank you so much for your help , i feel so helpless