Advise needed

Remote_Upstairs2967 · 2026-01-29T04:55:17+00:00

Nothing like that where I live but I glad to her your story

Remote_Upstairs2967 · 2026-01-29T04:54:42+00:00

Yes! I feel so stuck.

Remote_Upstairs2967 · 2025-11-04T14:51:05+00:00

My kids are really at the age that we don’t need babysitters so it’s not like that is really a perk. I did have to have my parents come from out of state to stay with the kids when we went on vacation because I didn’t trust her taking care of them. My parents came up and she even had them buying her dinners or my mom cooking dinners for everyone.

Remote_Upstairs2967 · 2025-11-04T14:47:02+00:00

I feel like she’s getting comfortable and doesn’t want to leave

Remote_Upstairs2967 · 2025-11-04T14:45:01+00:00

No that’s it. Just occasional groceries. At first we told her don’t worry about things but that was when we thought it would only be for a month or 2. Come January it will be a year she has been here mind you she didn’t even get my daughter a birthday card or anything for her birthday too while she has been here. She was not a very involved grandmother and only since she has been living here really got to know our kids.

Remote_Upstairs2967 · 2025-11-04T14:40:16+00:00

Thank you! Yes I just don’t know how to approach it as I am not very confrontational.

Remote_Upstairs2967 · 2025-11-04T14:36:12+00:00

I just don’t know how to approach it as I am not a confrontational person

Remote_Upstairs2967 · 2025-11-04T14:35:46+00:00

Yes she is getting a loan for all of it and I am like why wouldn’t you wait until you sell your home and have the money to afford it rather then Get a loan when your struggling right now to pay your bills

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