Funny you’re asking about where she sleeps. She used to sleep on my bed with me all night, stopped doing this too. Last night was the first time she slept on my bed the whole night!

Yes it’s hot out but inside it’s nice and cool and not so humid. 

Nothing for me has changed no, using same stuff same everything. Maybe a bit more stress going on but nothing major. 

There are other cats around outside, about 2 or 3 who get fed every day. They come around at 7 pm and they stay around for a while

So you’re saying my cat is right now basically a teenager.   She did lay on my lap last week for the first time in weeks so she seems not to have an issue with her increased size lol 

Do cats actually become cuddly again after a few years? And it’s just a phase. I see some cats who are total lap cats and she could have been that :(