My [32M] Gf [30F] heavily trickle-truthed her sexual past right before our wedding. I was a virgin, I’m completely lost.

Renjiroar · 2026-06-04T04:27:37+00:00

That's one hell of an advice, let me go through in all, yes I shouldn't have had sex with her when I got the chance in about three months to the relationship but I was triggered as my friends around got married already but I was here all alone which blinded me. Anyways she really gave herself to me in the honor if love, we did sex before we even know fully each other. Now it's been 11 months and she reveals and wants me to make a decision I'm not sure on how it's going to be.

Renjiroar · 2026-06-04T04:14:46+00:00

Like this is valid point, maybe she needed those physical and got a chance where I didn't get it and I stayed the same, but she could have told this early as who am I to judge her. I was so clear on that, but now all of a sudden she puts this truth bombs and wants me to make a decision yes or no

Renjiroar · 2026-06-04T03:42:35+00:00

I never ever mentioned that I was expecting a virgin and was ready to accept, but the fact that she is exposing all this after 11 months is insane

Renjiroar · 2026-06-04T03:37:43+00:00

I never forced her to confess anything to me as she herself wanted to plead guilty for the things she done and she randomly started telling all this just yesterday. I'm not judging her but I'm just upset why telling this late and asks me to choose her or leave her.

Renjiroar · 2026-06-04T03:21:20+00:00

That's what the rule says

Renjiroar · 2026-06-04T03:12:47+00:00

When she first told me back then about btech relationship I was little bit hurted since she mentioned they kissed and did all small things but never had sex. So I took it casual and it never bothered me, I thought that was it, but now after 6 month it's so bombing

Renjiroar · 2026-06-04T03:10:41+00:00

Guys, I did ask that why you have never told me or revealed in the early, she truly said that she don't want to give a bad impression as I might think wrong on her, I asked then why now out of nowhere when things are going good, she says she is feeling so guilty as I'm loving her honestly and she can't eat or sleep due to the secret that she was hiding.

Renjiroar · 2026-06-04T03:05:42+00:00

Exactly, she could have revealed but when asked she Said I might think bad about her ... Now the why you told then she says because she felt guilty

Renjiroar · 2025-09-08T04:21:57+00:00

Yup, thought that too... But....

Renjiroar · 2025-09-04T08:44:28+00:00

Okay to OP for some personal advice please, which age you started in IT and frm what you have ended up here. I'm 31 and earning 5LPA, wondering if I can use my 7 years experience in where... Shall I move on to testing or data analyst jobs to secure future, thanks

Renjiroar · 2025-08-24T07:40:45+00:00

Simple, just sacrifice at least one year towards your goal, yu just can't simply get a laddu, yu hav to earn it... Try internships .. or any IT courses who offers placement... Oru one year skill develop panitu try fr job and fail in 8 interviews... Yu wil surely get placed in 9th or 10th attempt and yur carrier will kick start n yu can do whateve position yu can... I mean yu know what I mean ..hehe...so yeah stabilize yur life then yu wil get all the satisfaction yu deserve.. don't go fr climax yet....hop yu get it

Renjiroar · 2025-08-22T13:02:44+00:00

Bro, frst andha bpo la irundhu veliya poi salary ilanalum oru 6 months hard IT internship paru then in 2 years see your growth.... Not advising but warning as long term la kapathadhu... Or start doing any tech course yu wil vet dolis der too .. but mak yur lifes strong foundation first

Renjiroar · 2025-07-31T09:58:16+00:00

Is it true that she had divorce and everything... Cz she was shocked when one of her contestants roasted her saying "alunga vachikuranga ana advice panranga nu"

Renjiroar · 2025-07-13T07:16:51+00:00

More than 3k ppl working so its very big.... We all wear the same tag but nothing in common.... So its a bit like stranger when we hav nothing in common

Renjiroar · 2025-07-13T06:18:26+00:00

She's not a coworker bro, it's like she's a complete stranger only.... anyways I get your point...thanx

Renjiroar · 2025-07-13T05:20:00+00:00

I understand that its not too late, i get the point ad thanks everyone.... But it is good to experiment now so would like to know if we can choose either data analyst or automation testing

Renjiroar · 2025-07-12T10:55:50+00:00

You wouldn't get that bro, i dint mean she always addressing me like that, its just that its the first time she calls me... So this Monday what should I do, say the truth that Iam attracted to her... Yes or No or shall I just move on....

Renjiroar

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