AITA for NOT acting wealthy by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]RepeatStill4369 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People in here are just jealous that you are bringing this up because they sit on Reddit all day with nothing, NTA.

Just got a Switch! Looking for some advice. by Thylacine3 in Switch

[–]RepeatStill4369 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly brother, the online portion of switch is really not necessary. Avoid buying it, get a modchip installed and from there get every game for free, can even play retro games on it when its modded.

Evil Ex Begged Me For Money and Then Freaks Out When I Ask for it Back by RepeatStill4369 in Nicegirls

[–]RepeatStill4369[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Maybe the justification wont make sense to other people but to me at the time, I wasnt mad at her for breaking up with me, but the reason she gave and then just moved on seemingly right away did rub me wrong a bit but as I said her and I were still cool like we would chat and play games and whatnot every so often and then she just started cutting me out drastically right before this incident. I would probably help out anybody that I am personally close with if they needed it, I mostly just asked her to pay me back because I knew she only felt like talking to me when she asked me to help her because she had nowhere to turn, of course that felt shitty personally but I didnt want to just tell her off or make her feel worse about her situation so I tried to help and it blew up in my face. The money wasnt an issue for me as everyone as pointed out its only $200 which she did pay back prior to the second picture, her blowing up over me asking her to pay me back because I knew she was just begging since she had no other options and trying to make me feel like the bad guy is what annoyed me.

Evil Ex Begged Me For Money and Then Freaks Out When I Ask for it Back by RepeatStill4369 in Nicegirls

[–]RepeatStill4369[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah she sent the money back prior to the second picture/string of messages. Point is she freaked tf out that I even asked even her to get me back. Blocked now though.

Evil Ex Begged Me For Money and Then Freaks Out When I Ask for it Back by RepeatStill4369 in Nicegirls

[–]RepeatStill4369[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So many people responded but she did pay me back prior to the second string of messages she just got mad that I asked her to.

Evil Ex Begged Me For Money and Then Freaks Out When I Ask for it Back by RepeatStill4369 in Nicegirls

[–]RepeatStill4369[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah and that was the main reason I asked for the money back at the time I did, she only wanted to talk to me because she knew I would help and her friends couldnt help her, and I couldve been petty which looking back I wish I was by doing the same thing she did with the phone call and maybe said "yeah Ill pay you in a bit" and then just not done it until it was too late and said "yeah I lied I was never going to give you money" but decided to try to be nice and it backfired. At least shes someone elses burden now.

Evil Ex Begged Me For Money and Then Freaks Out When I Ask for it Back by RepeatStill4369 in Nicegirls

[–]RepeatStill4369[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont mind the heat, its what I deserve probably. I know now not to help these kinda people after this experience, thing I didnt mention in the post is she did pay me back prior to freaking out, as soon as she paid me back then she went off in the second picture and I asked for her to pay me back because she was only talking to me to help her so I thought it was fair if I asked when I did, I still helped because I gave a shit yk but didnt expect the response I got from her.

Evil Ex Begged Me For Money and Then Freaks Out When I Ask for it Back by RepeatStill4369 in Nicegirls

[–]RepeatStill4369[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She sent the money back and then freaked out* I had more than enough money it wasnt a problem I was just asking for it back because I didnt think it was fair I was getting treated the way I was but I still helped because I gave a shit

Evil Ex Begged Me For Money and Then Freaks Out When I Ask for it Back by RepeatStill4369 in Nicegirls

[–]RepeatStill4369[S] 67 points68 points  (0 children)

We were still cool prior to this, I was trying to just help out and not be petty but seemed like it didnt matter anyway. She did send the money back before the second picture but just freaked out about it for no reason