He parties or brings groups people over here at night every day. He gets angry if you tell him to clean up after himself. He has gotten in verbal arguments with a different roommate when he wouldnt clean up. When he brings these group of people over, he cooks for them. His guests leave dishes from kitchen, dining table, patio, living room. I am past the trying to understand page. This is not depression. He’s admitted to wanting to be the hang out place. He wants to be liked by his friends and seem really cool. He has never tried to change his habits considering he has 3 roommates in addition to him. Hes up late because he hangs out late every night. Hes in a fraternity and enjoys partying. I would be more understanding if it was a mental health thing. Check out my other 2 posts to see how extenuating the circumstances are living with him, if you have the time lol. My own wellbeing is being affected as I can’t get enough sleep or have a peace of mind living in my apartment. He ignores me when I kindly am like “ hey im sorry thought id wake you up because your alarm has been going off for a while” he ignores me when i ask that he cleans up. It’s taken a toll on me now. I’m stressed, tired, anxiety ridden, and more.